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I RUSSIAN continued In 1938, her father was killed Khudyakova was arrested and sent t Central -Asia, where she met her hu: hand, married him and gave birth t a baby girl. Khudyakova was released fror VIOLENCE contini J ! ative influence. Offer incentive; When a child makes good choices i friends, invite the child and friend t P participate in their favorite activitie: ? Be involved in your child's e< ucation. Take time from work to a tend your child s school activities Plan fun and educational activities Parental involvement communicate the strongest message of care am love to a child. ? Reward positive behavior. Pai ents expect children to behave well and it is human nature to pay mor attention to bad behavior. Parent Parents shoul Know where and with whon Lay down guidelines for pos academic performance and 1 parents should reinforce poi Encourage open discussion < sense of competency. 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This is critical for a child to develop a at is right and wrong and why. Id not dictate who their child's friends ;ative influence. Offer incentives, iend to participate in their favorite id your child's school activities. Plan nicates the strongest message of care and it is human nature to pay more duct by using phrases such as "It made ____ Chris Muldrow/The Gamecc track of I st your | front of a v where know eiephone 52-3393 4 Hours '80s culture kp By College Press Service TUCSON, Ariz. ? Remember "Sol "j id Gold" with Rex Smith and Marilyn McCoo? The Buggies and "Video Killed the Radio Star"? When vinyl ruled the Earth, having conquered the upstart 8-tracks (compact discs weren't even a digital blip on the hori zon)? he As the adolescents of the early 1980s approach the real world, the music wp listened to dnrino nnr mis spent childhoods is attaining the stath tus of, heaven help us, nostalgia, nd Take any group of people in their iaj early 20s, and chances are none of them will admit (even under torture) to remembering, say, America or Loverboy. re But start singing "You Can Do Magch ic" or "Working for the Weekend," :'s and you'll work up a good-sized cholcj rus pretty damn quickly. And the music is working its way into our lives in subtler, more insidious ? ways. Joan Jett resurrects "I Love Rock 'n' Roll" for "Wayne's World 2." New greatest hits or outtakes collections from Blondie and the Go-Go's came out of nowhere. Some mysterious force reissues the soundtrack to "Val1?.. r:J? ? J;? icy dill dll LUUipilLl U1>C. The early part of the '80s had a curious mix of performers? washouts from the previous decade making one last stab at a hit (Randy Newman, anybody?), a large cross-section of musicians emerging from the remnants of 70s punk and disco to make a few albums before fading away (Talking Heads, Billy Idol), and perhaps the largest sampling of one-hit wonders than any other era of history. Sure, some stars from the era are still oroducine. but how much? No one but his agent can can name Billy Idol's last three albums, Boy George has joined the Krishnas, and Michael Jackson is more active in, um, other neias tnan nis music career. I Ir i /of the h WW / j valt yftv e' ;W p APPLY IN Pf /Z/ARE J TO SPENT i popular w And wasn't it fun to watch 70s roc dinosaurs emit one last gasp? Th Steve Miller band and "Abracadabra Journey's "Frontiers" album, RE' Speedwagon, Kansas. Just one moi hit before retinng to do whatever mi sicians do when the well runs dr The most charming part of '80s no talgia is remembering the one-h wonders. Can anyone name a Tor Basil song besides "Mickey"? Remen ber Saga's "On the Loose"? Th XT __ 1->_ Ol ? ? wrt_ _ ! unacit j> my anarona r wncre ui they all disappear? Beyond the $1.9 bins at K-Mart, who knows? But while their music careers ca be fond, or not-so-fond, memoriei their songs live on, lodged inexorabl in the minds of kids who watched to much MTV 10 years ago. "It seems like nostalgia is just a< celerating," said Sean Murphy, a mar ager at Zia Record Exchange. Murphy said he's seen a definite ir crease in '80s music interest over th past year or two, particulady sales c compilations such as "Sedated in th Eighties." And as interest grows, compilation appear, radio stations play eariy '80 mis, ana ciuds nave special nignts lea turing such music. Ron Gerber, a graduate student ii optical sciences at the University o Arizona, hosted an early '80s musf show on KAMP student radio durin] the 1992-93 school year, and he at tributes the music's appeal to nostal gia. "The late '70s and early '80s are m; childhood," he said. "In five years, I'l be nostalgic for the late '80s music Dan Vinik, manager at Club Con gress, said the club's Wednesday nigh shows have taken on more of an '80: feel. "It was a good period for dance mu sic," Vinik said. "Things go in cycles.' Elaine Neely, an elementary educa tion senior at the University of Ari I ISmol It's tha | Please st< 0Ai>v. ,R IN FRC , BOOB IT / NOT G/ IABLE W 4? XPERll/i INSTEA7 PPLY NO7 EXECl SKSON'iffiSSELLHOtK ith students :k zona, said her interest in the music of e the era is "purely nostalgia." Neely ? whose early '80s music 0 collection is "amateur at best, but it's "e just getting started" ? has memories J- of Quarterflash, Haircut 100, the BV 52s' "Legal Tender" and a childhood f* crush on Mick Jagger. Jodi Lynne Parsons, a Pima Com11 munity College student and early '80s v music collector, said she thinks the alp 1 ^ lure of the music is that "as things get ^ worse, it brings back memories of a happier time." "T lictPA tr\ iCntro A /U*t r\? ^ A iiOkVU JAW A1IAJV.I VU7 L/U" . ran Duran), and it takes me back to y when I had pictures of them all over 0 my room," she said. If you find yourself wishing that Survivor or Blondie or the Human i_ I.P2P11P wmilH Hn?r nff thpir inctm. r O - ?- - "lwtl " ments and leap back into the fray, i- judging by the success of the comee backs of bands such as Duran Duran, >f you're not alone, e Murphy said that although many old bands attempt and fail at comes backs, "early '80s bands seem to b^ 5 more successful at that. It's pretty inL" teresting that bands like Duran Duran can make a huge comeback." 1 Maybe it's all just beginning. Soon, contemporary bands could start rip* c ping off riffs from Asia or Wall Of ^ Voodoo. Martha Quinn could return to MTV and wipe out that Dan Cortese moron. Pat Benatar might make a grand return. , Rut it it tor* coon to opt pvrlro/i about 10-year-old music? Will the i "Children of the '80s" drone on about t Gary Numan and Devo in the same 5 way that ex-hippies blather about the Beatles, or will the period become a . musical dark age? "All of a sudden, we're nostalgic for - a decade we're barely out of," Murphy - said. I :e. Die. / t simple. Dp smoking. si s?\ Sis ,CE / o? j/ V FOR t pCOUNTJ vV-V. 51 ROOM 312