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TUCSON, Ariz. ? Remember "Sol
"j id Gold" with Rex Smith and Marilyn
McCoo? The Buggies and "Video
Killed the Radio Star"? When vinyl
ruled the Earth, having conquered the
upstart 8-tracks (compact discs
weren't even a digital blip on the hori
zon)?
he As the adolescents of the early
1980s approach the real world, the
music wp listened to dnrino nnr mis
spent childhoods is attaining the stath
tus of, heaven help us, nostalgia,
nd Take any group of people in their
iaj early 20s, and chances are none of
them will admit (even under torture)
to remembering, say, America or
Loverboy.
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ic" or "Working for the Weekend,"
:'s and you'll work up a good-sized cholcj
rus pretty damn quickly.
And the music is working its way into
our lives in subtler, more insidious
? ways. Joan Jett resurrects "I Love Rock
'n' Roll" for "Wayne's World 2." New
greatest hits or outtakes collections
from Blondie and the Go-Go's came
out of nowhere. Some mysterious
force reissues the soundtrack to "Val1?..
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The early part of the '80s had a curious
mix of performers? washouts
from the previous decade making one
last stab at a hit (Randy Newman, anybody?),
a large cross-section of musicians
emerging from the remnants of
70s punk and disco to make a few albums
before fading away (Talking
Heads, Billy Idol), and perhaps the
largest sampling of one-hit wonders
than any other era of history.
Sure, some stars from the era are
still oroducine. but how much? No
one but his agent can can name Billy
Idol's last three albums, Boy George
has joined the Krishnas, and Michael
Jackson is more active in, um, other
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Speedwagon, Kansas. Just one moi
hit before retinng to do whatever mi
sicians do when the well runs dr
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talgia is remembering the one-h
wonders. Can anyone name a Tor
Basil song besides "Mickey"? Remen
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they all disappear? Beyond the $1.9
bins at K-Mart, who knows?
But while their music careers ca
be fond, or not-so-fond, memoriei
their songs live on, lodged inexorabl
in the minds of kids who watched to
much MTV 10 years ago.
"It seems like nostalgia is just a<
celerating," said Sean Murphy, a mar
ager at Zia Record Exchange.
Murphy said he's seen a definite ir
crease in '80s music interest over th
past year or two, particulady sales c
compilations such as "Sedated in th
Eighties."
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appear, radio stations play eariy '80
mis, ana ciuds nave special nignts lea
turing such music.
Ron Gerber, a graduate student ii
optical sciences at the University o
Arizona, hosted an early '80s musf
show on KAMP student radio durin]
the 1992-93 school year, and he at
tributes the music's appeal to nostal
gia.
"The late '70s and early '80s are m;
childhood," he said. "In five years, I'l
be nostalgic for the late '80s music
Dan Vinik, manager at Club Con
gress, said the club's Wednesday nigh
shows have taken on more of an '80:
feel.
"It was a good period for dance mu
sic," Vinik said. "Things go in cycles.'
Elaine Neely, an elementary educa
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52s' "Legal Tender" and a childhood
f* crush on Mick Jagger.
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munity College student and early '80s
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old bands attempt and fail at comes
backs, "early '80s bands seem to b^
5 more successful at that. It's pretty inL"
teresting that bands like Duran Duran
can make a huge comeback."
1 Maybe it's all just beginning. Soon,
contemporary bands could start rip*
c ping off riffs from Asia or Wall Of
^ Voodoo. Martha Quinn could return
to MTV and wipe out that Dan
Cortese moron. Pat Benatar might
make a grand return.
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about 10-year-old music? Will the
i "Children of the '80s" drone on about
t Gary Numan and Devo in the same
5 way that ex-hippies blather about the
Beatles, or will the period become a
. musical dark age?
"All of a sudden, we're nostalgic for
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