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Today l|k By KATHY HEBERGER Assistant Carolina Life Editor Bid Day celebration songs and cheers will reverberate across campus today, bringing Sorority Rush Week full circle for 503 sororityseeking women and their potential sisters after a week of party invitations, balloons, new faces and tired feet. "It's a very tough week, and everyone gets tired," Rush Director and nursing senior Lisa Daniels said. 'The rushees as well as the sororities have been trying to make good impressions. We emphasize that you should try to be yourself because if you do, you'll find a V rIT w *r> Mtary areas Smiled I rPICKUI SPECIAl ! $5.99 Come in now and, for time, pick up a large 1 I pizza for just $5.99! C i i i on picKup oraers (Tax not includi I i rr UIkjEIs Delivery anas tmtea to ensure sate drrmg. Wtid al parucpatng sfcr oder Customer pays applicable taxes. Our driven cany less Dan ? ^ Offer ends the % M 5 >- -''A-i^I ^ ^ jferh i ' fl place where you can be yourself." Not every rushee will find the place she wants in the greek system. This disappointment can be painful, according to Dr. Philip Michels, a psychiatrist at Richland Memorial Hospital. "Don't feel like you're not a good person. It might just be your hair or your grades that determined their decision," he says. "Recognize that you can't be everything to everybody. If you're human, you're going to make some waves with somebody." Rushees say the Rush Week experience is better if you prepare yourself to have fun and meet peo'S EASY L1V1N 1TH... omino'Spiz; o ensure safe driving ITS TIME FOR DOMINO'S PIZ/ I E? II ( PLUS TAX II v a limited I I Just call Pepperoni I I pan or or )ffer good I I toppings only. II of CocamL) I I $8.49! I I I I I I I I I I M orty. No! valid wito arty o*w I I OeHnery areas limited 1o ensure !0.01980 Domino's Pica. Int altar. Customer pay* apptacabt gooc^ru^/6/90^ J L ? ? ^ ? sorority _i Left photo: Exercise science I 'reshman Michelle Kephart (left) I and HRTA senior Becca Laugh in chat at a Delta Gamma rush 1 aarty Friday afternoon. Top I ahoto: These women enjoy I meeting new friends at the Chi I Omega sorority party Friday afternoon. I pie instead of staking all your d hopes on one sorority's s< acceptance. it "I wanted to start friendships, 61 meet people through rush even if I s< didn't get into a sorority," journal- ; ism freshman Stella Onggako said. "It's not a really stressful experience, and it gets easier as the week goes on and you know more peo- . pie and they remember you. You ti just try to be yourself and talk as a much as you can at the parties so a] they can get to know you." rc In the past seven days, sorority members have greeted the rushees . with lemon water, snacks, informa- ? tion about their sororities and have questioned the rushees about their n< interests and lives before USC. At n the initial Open House activity, the jj women meet all of the 14 sororities in 20-minute parties. P Kushees rank the sororities V throughout the week, and the sor- si orities simultaneously select girls ti to invite back to the 45-minute fi first- and second-round parties. At the final party, last night's formal- tc ik" *1990 Oon*w'( Pta*. he. 1 ??????-?-i i 5INNER | DR TWO ! 58.49! ! and order a medium iginal pizza with TWO and TWO 12 oz. cans Cola? classic for only (Tax not included.) I I is. : (frMng. VWd m outlawing Mora* anfy. Not nfcl ?ty atwr t tut*. Our dm?i any ton tan $20 01960 Domno'j Piua, Inc Offer goocHhru 9/6/90 rush, w Ky^'^ ffi^jmPjj/F^- , mWk jB5 jp mm BbTL^VCkT^ ** aJtm- ... ress Preference Night, the women xialized with their favorite sorories during one-hour parties and nded the evening by ranking the Drorities. The sororities will reiew the women's ranking and reeal their selection of pledges xiay. "So much goes into rush decions ? grades, activities or somemes a rushee's family has been in sorority," Daniels said. "I think 11 the sororities look for a well>unded woman." It costs $25 to rush if women reister before July 30 and $45 after lat date. "They don't have to buy ew dresses. It's up to them. We miind the freshmen that the sorory women haven't seen the dresses iey wear to church," Daniels said. Daniels said she has been teased with how smoothly Rush feek has gone this year and that le tries to keep the positive attiide that every student at USC can nd a place in the greek system. "But not every woman chooses > be greek," she said. "Some DOMINO'S PIZZA SERVICE: We guarantee; pizza will arrive in 30 m less from the time you o the driver will refund $3, your order. PRODUCT: We guarantei satisfaction with your pi; Coca Cola? classic available in 12 oz. cans r DINNER FOR FOU $11.99 Just call and order a original pizza with' toppings and FOUR 12 of Coca-Cola? classic I $11.99! 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