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The Quigmans BY BUDDY HICKERSON sxys*k« . A Everyday Joe by steven olexa IS IT JUST Hi, IT'S OPENING MEANWHILE. I HetLOi POLICE? OR POES IT THE WINPOWI I THINK SOME GUYS LOOK LONELY? ITS...GOING ARE TRYING TO THROW ALMOST... TO JUMP/ - . A TOILET OUT OF LONGING...? THEIR APARTMENT WINPOW. / Heads and Tails By Jonathan Hughes/The Gamecock ■n_ v TWO HOURS LATER ' I ' What’s Up? Welcome to What’s Up, the weekly advice column brought to you by the Counseling and Human Development Center interns and staff. Submit your anonymous questions to adviceatusc@hotmail.com. We offer no personal responses via e-mail. The Counseling and Human Development Center professional staff supervises all interns. The following advice represents the opinions of the center and not necessarily the opinions of The Gamecock. QUESTION: I’ve met a lot of really nice people here and I’m glad for that. However, I want a boyfriend that I can do things with, especially be held. But, I’m too shy to outright ask. I flirt, but either they don’t get it or aren’t ^ interested. What do I do? ANSWER: It is understandable that you’d prefer to have a boyfriend. Ironically, though, you might become more attractive to a potential mate when you are content being single. Focus your energy on doing activities you enjoy. For example Join some clubs on campus, take in the symphony, socialize at the gym or spend some time in a bookstore. By doing so, you are automatically putting yourself in contact with others who share your interests. You might also meet a potential date through mutual friends, Internet sites such as “match.com,” or “speed dating.” In addition, ^ enjoy your friendships with P men. Often, friendships can blossom into something more. Don’t worry too much about flirting. Just strike up a conversation and be genuine. In general, be yourself and practice being comfortable in your own skin. The boyfriend will come along naturally — perhaps when you’re least expecting him. QUESTION: I’ve been having trouble sleeping lately. I’ve never had this problem before. I toss and turn and can’t fall asleep. Many times, I wake up and can’t get back to sleep. What’s going on? ANSWER: Insomnia is a common problem people occasionally experience. Sometimes it is due to stress. Worrying about problems or concerns can also keep us from getting needed rest. Try not to dwell about concerns before or around your bedtime. Talk to a friend, listen to music, read a book or find another enjoyable activity that will help you relax. This will help your brain wind down and prepare to sleep. If you are a spiritual person, you might try prayer or meditation near bedtime to help you feel calm and peaceful. You might be unable to sleep well due to caffeine in your system. Try not to drink soda, coffee or tea after 6 pm. Alcohol can also interfere with sleep patterns. Be careful about your consumption of alcoholic beverages. Also, exercising too close to bedtime can interfere with your sleep; Develop a stable pattern by getting up and going to bed at the same time each day. Establish bedtime routines that serve as a signal to your brain and body that it is time to switch to sleep mode. Make sure your room is sleeping friendly. Make sure the lighting, noise and temperature are suitable for you. Many people try over the-counter sleep aids when they are having trouble getting the rest they need. These substances should be i used sparingly, if at all, and should only be used for a i week to 10 days. These substances can leave you feeling hung over in.the morning and can interfere with your normal sleep cycle, so you don’t really feel refreshed. Even prescription sleep aids are not meant to be used for more than a few days. If you feel your sleep concerns may be related to stress, anxiety or unresolved worries, please consider seeing a professional. 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I .JL—. .L. ... 55 Former Russian rulers 58 Creeper 59 Theater section 60 Isle of exile 61 Pastoral poem 65 Shack HOROSCOPES . ARIES An older person might want to tell you how to run your life. Be tolerant and listen. He might have some good ideas. TAURUS The next couple of days are very good for travel and romance. Think you can get some time off for good behavior? GEMINI You might wish you could hide out and take your telephone off the hook. You can, and that will make it a lot easier to concentrate. CANCER A partnership is what you need, one that you can rely on. Get somebody with substance, experience and compassion. He or she isn’t far away. LEO Your work tells others about who you are even better than your words do. So don’t waste time talking. Get busy! VIRGO A person you care deeply about feels the same way about you. It’s good to make the commitment that follows next. LIBRA Instead of buying exactly what you need, this time you could buy the parts and assemble it yourself in order to save money. Or, even better, start with what you already have and use your creativity. SCORPIO Rearrange your schedule so that you have more time for fun. Get your favorite playmate and go learn a brand-new game. SAGITTARIUS Private negotiations help you make the best deal. You know what you want by now, and also how much you want to spend. CAPRICORN With encouragement from a sibling, you can achieve a prize. Teamwork is also required. Success is within your-grasp. AQUARIUS Keep your own counsel today and tomorrow. Think about your next big move. You’re playing a game of chess with a master. No need to be hasty. PISCES When you and your friends get started, there’s almost no holding you back. Watch out for technical difficulties. But otherwise, boogie. CALENDAR i Wednesday, Oct. 29 “THE GLASS MENAGERIE”: 8 p.m. Longstreet Theatre. $14 ‘general admission; $12 faculty, staff and military; $10 students. PROGRESSIVE COFFEE HOUR: 6 p.m. Jammin’ Java, 1530 Main St. Free. “DIRTY BLONDE”: 7:30 p.m. Trustus Theatre, 520 Lady St. $13.50 general admission, $12 students and military. Starring Eric Bana, SflK ■ Sam Elliott, Nick Nolte ml and Jennifer Connelly. Wednesday and Thursday. Russell House Theater. 9 p.m. Free. I IRON & WINE WITH THE STELLE GROUP: 9 p.m. New Brookland Tavern, 122 State St. $6. Thursday, Oct. 30 “THE GLASS MENAGERIE": 8 p.m. Longstreet Theatre. $14 general admission; 12 faculty, staff and military; $10 students. PLASTER: 6 p.m. New Brookland Tayem. $5. “DIRTY BLONDE": 7.30 p.m. Trustus Theatre. $13.50 general admission, $12 students and military. HALLOWEEN DANCE PARTY: 9 p.m. New Brookland Tavern. Pat Schmidt with Mike Ryczek: 9 p.m. Jammin’ Java. $5 (suggested).