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ACROSS
1 Flatlnflater
5 First of music’s
Three B's
9 Yep
14 One woodwind
15 Car shaft
16 Gander's mate
17 Programming
repetition
18 Not counterfeit
19 Razor sharpener
20 Early spring
flower
23 Action word
24 Purloin
25 Timid: var.
27 Wildcat
30 Universe
33 Call’s partner?
36 Oliver Twist or
Annie
39 Tin Man’s cure
all
40 Cambodia
neighbor
41 Divining card
42 Portuguese lady
43 World Series mo.
44 Disc-jockey bribe
45 Black
46 Angelic type
48 Son of Seth
50 “Ulysses” city
53 Sing for Heidi?
57 Wild guess
59 Some cooking
utensils
62 Seeped
64 Ivory rival
65 Baseball team
66 Dried fruit
67 Depravity
68 _the Red
69 Rocking toy
70 “_: Warrior
Princess”
71 Woad and anil
DOWN
1 Axis points
2 WWII sub
3 _Jaw,
Saskatchewan
4 Rousing
speeches
5 Canadian golfer
Dave
6 Skater’s jump
7 Assert
8 Phone opener
9 Yuck!
10 Equine feet
11 Early
harmonious
period
12 Exploitive one
13 Parsley or sage
21 TV Tarzan Ron
22 Mexican
peninsula
26 Mama’s boy
28 Worth
mentioning
29 Dentist's shot?
31 Sty comment
32 Do in a dragon
33 United group
34 Apiece
35 The Riviera, to
the French
37 Niner or Buc
38 Cup on a green
42 Repudiated
44 Tavern by a tube
stop
47 Flemish baroque
painter
49 Popeye’s Olive
51 Encyclopedia
volume
52 Wide-eyed
54 Milk farm
55 One of the
Muppets
56 Onions’ kin
57 2nd yr. student
58 Spanish bull
60 Central
61 Ms. Fitzgerald
63 Actress Sandra
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HOROSCOPES
ARIES Complete as many of the
tasks on your list as possible. If
a job no longer needs to be
done, it’s OK to count it as
completed. Something more
important deserves attention.
TAURUS Strangely enough,
you could get to be the
spokesperson for your group.
The others can’t go straight to
the bottom line and explain it
as well as you can.
GEMINI There might not be
enough money, or maybe
there’s some other reason to
wait. No need to be
discouraged, though. True
love will find a way.
CANCER Once you get your
place all fixed up, it’ll be the
perfect setting for romance.
Thursday and Friday are
better for that. Concentrate on
your decor now.
LEO Your communication
skills are good now, but don’t
spend all day talking. There’s
plenty of other work to be
done, and some of it is
important.
VIRGO Don’t spend all your
winnings in one place. Save
some for later. Get something
nice for a loved one, too, and
something else nice for
yourself.
LIBRA You’re over here, and
someone you care about is
over there. New technology
and old friends help you keep
the connection. So call
already!
SCORPIO Hotter heads want to
take action, but let them
convince you first. You want to
make sure you get the very
best return on your
investment.
SAGITTARIUS You’re eager to
take off but unsure of the
direction you should take. Put
a lid on that energy, but be
ready in case you have to move
quickly.
CAPRICORN Try not to lose
your temper when those
around you are losing theirs.
That’ll give you a slight
advantage, and that ought to
be enough.
AQUARIUS A little good
natured kidding could do you a
world of good. Don’t take
yourself too seriously. You
heal when you laugh at old
fears.
PISCES Help out a friend if you
can, but don’t let that take up
all of your time. You also need
to keep taking good care of
yourself.
WEEKLY ADVICE COLUMN: WHAT’S UP?
Changing roles in relationships
Welcome to What’s Up, the
weekly advice column. Submit
your anonymous questions to ad
vicecolumnusc@hotmail.com. The
Counseling Center interns are su
pervised by the center’s profes
sional staff. We offer no personal
responses via e-mail. The follow
ing advice represents the opinions
of the Counseling Center and not
necessarily the opinions of The
Gamecock.
Q: My parents are very strict
with me even though I live on
campus; they always want to
know where I am, what I’m doing,
with whom. They call me several
times a day to check in.
Sometimes I don’t even answer the
phone. What can I do?
A: Some parents are victims of
“empty-nest” syndrome. Whether
you are the first or last child to
leave home, parents often get very
sad and anxious when you move
to college; the family structure and
routine changes greatly. You
should wean them off of their de
pendency of doing too much for
you. Try calling them once a day
for a while, then every other day,
then once a week. If they call you
too much, let them know that you
need to prepare for your classes.
You can help to decrease their de
sire to control your life if you suc
cessfully handle your responsibil
ities on your own.
Q: I feel like I
have become my boyfriend’s
“mother.” He doesn’t seem to be
able to pay his bills on time, do his
laundry, or clean up after himself.
I really love him and we talk about
getting married after we graduate,
but I wonder if I will be happy do
ing all of these things for him.
A: You may enjoy doing a spe
cial favor for him once in awhile,
but when this becomes the pat
tern, you feel taken for granted. If
you are irritated, the relationship
may be out of balance.
Try to renegotiate roles and
duties, so that you are both
pulling equal weight. He may be
willing to carry his fair share,
but wants to do it on his terms.
Whatever you decide is up to you,
but realize that you are co-creat
ing gender roles in your rela
tionship.
Q: Ever since I started graduate
school, my husband says that I am
a “different” person. He supports
me in graduate school, but says
that I act more independent, don’t
have time for him, and talk about
things that he knows nothing
about. I am concerned about my
marriage, but don’t want to quit
graduate school. He says that if I
cannot “change back” to the per
son I was before I started gradu
ate school, he may leave.
A: You areuT^^^^^^^
and discovery while you are in
graduate school. This growth may
be threatening to your husband;
that is a normal reaction. Very of
ten the “working spouse” feels re
sentful by the amount of money
and time required by college life.
Try to make him feel that he is a
priority by scheduling special
time together at least once a week
and talk about common interests
and feelings. You should also talk
about your interests, but do it in
a way that is understandable to
your spouse, that includes him
rather than making him feel like
an outsider. The average married
couple spends only 10 minutes a
day talking together (no wonder
the U.S. has a 51 percent divorce
rate). Time together might over
come misunderstandings.
For further advice, visit the
USC Counseling Center
Open weekdays
8:30 a.m. to 5 p.m.
Phone: 777-5223
www.sa.sc.edu/chdc
7th floor, Byrnes Building
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CALENDAR
Wednesday, April 16
“CATCH ME IF YOU CAN”: 8
p.m., Russell House Theater.
DOC SOMMERS BAND: 7 p.m.
St. Andrews Presbyterian
Church.
DEREK TRUCKS BAND WITH
ANGRY RED PLANET AND
RONIZAGORIA: 9 p.m., New
Brookland Tavern, 122 State
St.
DILLINGER ESCAPE PLAN,
NORMA JEAN, HOPESFALL
AND SINCE NO MAN: Uncle
Doctors, 1734 Mobile Drive.
Thursday, April 17
“CATCH ME IF YOU CAN": 8
p.m., Russell House Theater.
DONBRAVAOO WITH RAY
BROWER: 10 p.m., New
Brookland Tavern. $7 for
under 21, $5 for 21 and up.
PHIX(PHISH TRIBUTE BAND)
WITH BLUE STRING: 10 p.m.,
Senate Park, 931-B Senate St.
$7.
PORN DEBATE WITH RON
JEREMY AND SUSAN COLE: 8
p.m., Russell House Theater.
Free withUSC ID. $7 for
general public.
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