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THE SUN, NEWBERRY. S. C, FEBRUARY 6, 1942
Kathleen Norris Says:
This Gentleivoman Should Wed Chauffeur
(Bell Syndicate—WNU Service.)
My father for several years has had a chauffeur named Tony Benito. He is a
simple man who has a wonderful mother and family. Tony and I love each other. My
mother would be crushed if she knew this.
By KATHLEEN NORRIS
ERE is a letter from a
young girl that might
make some mother
thoughtful. Linda sends me her
picture with her letter, and it is
the picture of a sweet, sensible,
pretty creature. She makes no
complaint; she only wants some
advice. But I think she has
been badly treated, and that it
is the fault of a selfish father
and mother.
“When I was quite little,
mother and dad made much of
me; I felt that they loved me,”
writes Linda. “But when I was 10
another man appeared in the fam
ily, was there continually, taking
mother to lunch or dinner or danc
ing; I didn’t like him very much,
and neither did dad. Soon mother
explained to me that dad was go
ing away; it made me feel strange
and lonely, but of course I was only
a child, and when mother married
the man I will call Van she ex
plained to me that it only meant
that I had two homes now and three
persons to love me instead of two.
“For a year dad and I and my
nurse lived ♦ogether. Mammy and
1 did the cooking and we were all
very happy. But then dad married,
and although Elise was kind to me
and gave me presents, she talked
about my mother’s treatment of my
father, said she had been cruel to
him and worried me so that I was
really ill. Mother was expecting a
baby then and could not have me
so I went to a hospital and from
there for years to boarding-school.
“My father has always been care
less about money, and every quar
ter I would have to write and re
mind him to pay my bills, which I
think accounts for the fact that I
am pretty shy to this day. I hoped
to be with my mother in vacations,
but instead they arranged for me to
go to camp every year.
Inherited Money.
“Please don’t think I am com
plaining,” the letter goes on, “but
I loved my parents and my home
and I used to feel very lonely. My
father was divorced again last year;
and as I pleaded to be able to be
with him and make a home for him
he agreed. At 18 I came into some
money my grandmother left me;
that meant that he and I need have
no money troubles. I came home
Christmas a year ago and for a
few weeks I was completely happy,
going downtown independently, hav
ing my own car, and feeling free.
But my father has changed, is rare
ly at home, and so I see little of
him.
“But my mother was very much
annoyed at this arrangement; she
said that having sacrificed me all
these years for my education she
felt that I should be with her, and
help out with the family finances.
My little half-brother was a strong,
beautiful baby, but he got infantile
paralysis, and will always need
care.
“Van, my stepfather, is not much
of a success in business, and my
mother misses the luxuries to which
she had been accustomed. Altogeth
er she is in a nervous state, and
yet she cannot get another divorce
because she would get no alimony
this time.
Love Comes to Linda.
“Now here is my question; My
father for several years has had a
chauffeur named Tony Benito; he
is a simple man who has a wonder
ful mother and family. He was
married, widowed 10 years ago. I
have been to his mother’s home sev
eral times. They have a restaurant
FOR PARENTS ONLY
Kathleen Norris’ advice, this
time, is for the parents instead
of their erring and wayward chil
dren. Here is a case where an
apparently blameless child has
been denied the love and secur
ity she needs by the selfishness
of her parents. Unwanted when
she was growing up, she is now
claimed by both parents for the
sake of the money she inherited
from her grandmother. But she
is in love with her father’s chauf
feur and wants to marry him.
And, surprising as it may be to
some, Kathleen Norris advises
her to do just that. She may be
embarrassed by Tony’s limita
tions, and she will not have the
luxuries she has always knoivn,
but she will have love and a
family bound together by sim
ple good-heartedness. Her par
ents, divorced for many years,
cannot even offer her a home,
and in return for the nothing
they can give her, they would
probably expect to claim all her
time, attention—and money.
which the father, daughters and
another son manage.
“They are uneducated people, I
suppose, talking very little English,
and living a very natural home life,
with babies, dogs, old grandparents,
plenty of good food and good wine,
and plenty of love.
“Tony and I love each other. We
are happy together. My father prob
ably would want to kill him if he
knew this, and I know my mother
would be crushed.
“If we married I would take what
money I have and invest it in a ga
rage, which Tony has long wanted
to buy. We could go along for a
few years comfortably on what was
left, until he began to make money.
We both want children, for all the
Benitos love them, and I could nev
er be happy without them.
“Shall I refuse Tony and ask Dad
to let him go, join my mother and
become a nurse to my little half-
brother, whom I would come to
adore, I know, or make this mar
riage? Please help me.”
Parents Want Her Now.
Now, you parents who submit lov
ing sensitive small girls to the mis
eries of your own marital failures
and the wretchedness of partings
and changes among those who seem
to them faultless, what do you think
of the father and mother who shoved
Linda about without any considera
tion for her loving little heart, her
child’s love of stability and security,
and her child’s confidence in her own
family?
Now that she is no longer a re
sponsibility and a bother they want
her. Now that she is an heiress both
father and mother could use her
money. And now she has sought
companionship and love in strange
places and is likely to go out of
their lives forever.
My advice to her is to marry
Tony. She will be many times em
barrassed by his limitations; she
may have to apologize for him and
for her family.
But she will have love; a real
mother and real sisters and broth
ers, amusement, distraction, com- j
panionship, and probably adoration
from her husband. She 'vill have
children; good strong children born
of peasant stock, and she will build
a home around them, and have the
picnics and trips and birthdays and
mothering that her own childhood
was denied.
WHO’S
NEWS
THIS
WEEK
By LEMUEL F. PARTON
(Consolidated Features—WNU Service.)
N EW YORK.—Randolph Evem-
ghim Paul, who is preparing
the treasury’s new tax program, is a
suave, pleasant man with somewhat
— ... .. ,, the manner
Tax Authority Hat of a kind i y
No Good Word for doctor who
Taxation System ‘ e ^ ‘
is not nice
medicine but we’ve got to take it.
He has written probably as
much on taxes, and with as full
authority, as any man in Ameri
ca, but we can’t find he ever
said a good word for them. In
his book, “Law of Federal In
come Taxation,” published in
1934, he said: “It (taxation) is
an evil which is in direct propor
tion to the rate of taxation im
posed, and in these days of re
sumed high rates it is more im
portant than it has been for
many years.”
We had suspected as much, and
just now it is apparent that Mr.
Paul hadn’t seen anything then. He
is a New York lawyer, with the
firm of Lord, Day and Lord, and for
the last four years has been Sterling
lecturer on taxation in the Yale
university school of law, previously
having lectured at Harvard. It is
as special adviser to Secretary Mor-
genthau on taxation that he is now
outlining the tax program. He was
appointed to the post of full-time
adviser on December 12 of last year,
after past part-time service in this
capacity.
He is believed to be wary of
any prescription by which an
over-dose of taxation not only
would fail as an antidote for in
flation but might bring worse
evils.
He is a native of Hackensack,
N. J., educated at Amherst college
and the New York university law
school. He became a director of
the Federal Reserve Bank of New
York last June. In his treasury ad
visory capacity he is a dollar-a-year
man.
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,, , — . , . Jonkheer Al-
He'a Trimmed to idius Warm _
aldus Lam-
bertus Tjar-
da van Star-
kenborgh Stachouwer. He is the
governor general of the Netherlands
and commander in chief of all the
Dutch armed forces of land, sea and
air which are bagging perhaps more
than their full share of Japanese in
the opening encounters of the war
in the Pacific.
Fit, Though Name
Could Take a Cut
His person has none of the re
dundancy of his name. He is
trim, fit, energetic and hard as
nails. At 52, blue-eyed and blue-
blooded, a cold, precise realist,
trained in the world’s toughest
school of administration, hf is
an ascetic in his personal habits,
an abstainer from liquor and to
bacco—all this in refutation of
the common stereotype of the
fat burgher smoking a meer
schaum pipe.
The governor general of the Dutch
East Indies has virtually absolute
powers. But five years is the limit
in which this dictatorial mandate
may be exercised, and the crown,
wary about dictators, may recall
the governor general for inefficiency
or malfensance. That’s how the can
ny Dutch get efficiency in their co
lonial empire, with a check-rein and
a martingale on it.
The governor’s term was up
last December, but the Dutch
saw this war coming and con
tinued him indefinitely in of
fice. At the same time, they au
tomatically solved the problem
of full centralization of wartime
authority, the integration of land
and air forces and of industrial
and military effort. Only on one
other occasion, in the first World
war, has the term of the gover
nor general been thus extended.
The governor, born in the Nether-
land Indies, studied law, entered the
diplomatic service, became gover
nor of his native province, served
at six foreign capitals, including
Washington and became president
of the university from which he was
graduated. His wife is a former
Baltimore girl, Christine Marburg,
the daughter of a former United
States ambassador to Belgium.
A knowing friend of this writ
er, who spent two years in the
Far East, tells me that Gover
nor Stachouwer has achieved a
miracle of organization and dis
cipline in pulling together the
European and Eurasian Hol
landers and Indonesians. “And,”
my friend added, “the natives
are with him. That’s going to
be important in this war. They
have organized jungle armies of
their own and they’re going to
be bard to take. The governor
has been tough but he has been
fair and he is no tyrant.”
Jlifttn CUatfiMeAdi
Invitation to Dinner—Tasty Onion Soup
(See Recipes Below)
Let’s Serve Soup
Something hot, something to warm
up the system and something to stir
the appetite into
action so it can
enjoy the meal it
self—this is soup.
Good companion
to a dinner on
cool nights or
main dish for a luncheon, this is the
reputation soup has acquired. So
give a lift to your meals and get the
appetites off to a brisk start. These
savory soup recipes will help you:
*Onion Soup.
(Serves 4 to 6)
2 slices bacon, cubed
4 sweet Spanish onions
2 tablespoons flour
1 quart milk
Salt and pepper
Stale bread
Grated American cheese
Fry cubed bacon slowly over low
heat, stirring constantly until fat is
extracted. Lift out crisp bacon bits
and set aside. P.ace thinly sliced
onions in pan with some of bacon
fat and saute until clear and ten
der. Sprinkle flour over onions,
blend, add milk and crisp bacon.
Stir constantly over direct heat or
cook in double boiler until soup
thickens slightly. Season with salt
and pepper. Serve in soup plates
with croutons made by toasting stale
bread in oven. Sprinkle grated
cheese over bread just before serv
ing.
Flavor’s the important thing in
soup, and you’ll know just to what
extent when you try:
Split Pea Soup.
(Serves 6 to 8)
1 cup dried split peas
2 quarts cold water
Ham bone with a little meat on it
Vs small onion
Salt and pepper
Soak peas overnight, drain and
cover with the cold water. Heat to
boiling point, add onion and ham
bone. Simmer 2 to 3 hours or until
tender. Remove ham bone and sea
son. Serve with crisp toast.
If you’re having a rather heavy
meal and are considering omitting
the soup, don’t
forego the pleas
ure of having a
light, clear soup
because it’s just
the thing for
heartier meals. Here’s a soup that
can be made in advance and heated
just before serving. Its excellent
flavor is inspired by a careful com
bination of seasonings.
Clear Tomato Soup.
(Serves 6 to 8)
1 quart brown soup stock
1 can tomatoes
V* teaspoon peppercorns
1 small bayleaf
3 cloves
3 sprigs thyme
4 tablespoons butter
2 sprigs parsley
V\ cup each onion, carrot, celery
V\ cup raw ham, diced
Salt and pepper
Cook onion, carrot, celery and
ham in butter 5 minutes. Add
tomatoes, peppercorns, bayleaf,
cloves, thyme and parsley. Cover
and cook slowly 1 hour. Strain care
fully, add hot stock and season with
Lynn Says:
Good soups deserve attractive
accompaniments. Here are some
popular ideas:
Thin slices of lemon, chopped
parsley, thin slices of avocado,
slightly salted whipped cream,
toasted almonds.
In the bread line you can really
do a lot of tricks, such as cutting
the bread into fancy shapes with
a cookie cutter, then toasting and
sprinkling on soup before serv
ing. Rings (made with doughnut
cutter), animal shapes, hearts,
stars and diamonds are popular.
Cheese sticks are good too and
are made by sprinkling grated
cheese on bread strips, broiled
and served hot.
Chopped chives or chopped
parsley either by themselves or
sprinkled over the salted whipped
cream add color to soup platters.
This Week’s Menu
•Onion Soup
Meat Loaf , Baked Potatoes
Julienne Beets
Cloverleaf Rolls, Butter and Jam
Orange-Pineapple Salad
Chocolate Peppermint Tarts
Coffee Tea Milk
•Recipe Given.
salt and pepper.
Chicken Bouillon.
(Serves 8)
3 to 4 pound stewing chicken
2 chicken feet
3 to 4 quarts boiling water
3 stalks celery or V* cup diced
celery root
1 onion, sliced
Salt and pepper
Nutmeg
Clean chicken and cut into small
pieces. Scald chicken feet. Skin and
remove nails. Pour boiling water
over chicken, feet, celery and onion.
Cover and simmer about 3% hours.
Remove chicken, strain stock and
season. The chicken may be used
creamed, in casseroles or wherever
cut, cooked chicken is called for.
Lentil soup has long been among
the high-rank
ing favorites. Be
cause it has sub
stance such as the
lentils them-
selves, meat or
even sausage, it’s
exceUent served
as a main dish,
especially for
Sunday night
suppers:
Lentil Soup.
(Serves 6 to 8)
2 cups lentils
3 quarts cold water
2 pounds brisket of beef or ham
bone
1 stalk celery, diced
2 onions, cubed
2 tablespoons fat
2 tablespoons flour
Salt and pepper
Pick over lentils, wash, and soak
overnight in cold water. Drain, cov
er with cold water, and cook with
the meat for IVs hours. Add celery
and onion and cook for 2 hours.
Blend melted fat and flour, season,
then add IVs cups stock and cook un
til thick. Add rest of stock and
serve with a slice of rye bread,
sprinkled with cheese and toasted
until the cheese is melted. Lentil
soup is good also with smoked sau
sage or frankfurters in place of the
meat listed above.
Another good soup that makes a
meal in itself is this: Deep sea oys
ters are especially flavorful for
this:
Oyster Bisque.
(Serves 6)
1 pint oysters
IVz cups water
Salt and pepper
2 cups milk
% cup dry bread crumbs
1 tablespoon butter
1 tablespoon flour
1 onion, chopped fine
1 stalk celery, chopped fine
1 sprig parsley, chopped fine
Cook oysters in their own water
and liquor until they curl. Add on
ion, celery, parsley and simmer gen
tly for 20 minutes. Scald milk, add
bread crumbs and cook for 15 min
utes in double boUer. Put mixture
through a sieve. Melt butter, blend
in flour and seasonings. Add milk
and crumb mixture. Rub oysters
through a sieve and add to milk
mixture. Serve with soda crackers.
Quick soups may be concocted
from cans. Here are some combi
nations guaranteed to please:
1 can tomato soup, 1 can pea
soup
1 can tomato soup, 1 can chick
en soup
1 can chicken soup, 1 can cel
ery soup
X can consomme, 1 can tomato
juice
1 can chicken soup, 1 can mush
room soup
1 can tomato soup, 1 can as
paragus soup
1 can mushroom soup, 1 can
chicken broth
(Reieaseci by Western Newspaper Union.)
IMPROVED
UNIFORM INTERNATIONAL
S UNDAY I
chool Lesson
By HAROLD L. LUWDQUIST. D. D.
Of The Moody Bible Institute of Chicago.
Released by Western Newspaper Union.)
Lesson for February 8
Lesson subjects and Scripture texts se
lected and copyrighted by International
Council of Religious Education; used bjr
permission.
A BUSY SABBATH IN
CAPERNAUM
LESSON TEXT—Mark 1:21-34.
GOLDEN TEXT—I was In the Spirit on
the Lord's day.—RevelaUon 1:10.
The Sabbath of the Jew and the
Lord’s Day (Sunday) of the Chris
tian were both intended to be days
of rest. The ordinary activities of
life were to cease and one trfras to
be free to worship and to rest. The
manner in which a man uses this
God-given day of rest is a remark
ably accurate indicator of his spiri
tual condition.
We have before us the account of
a very busy Sabbath day which our
Lord spent in Capernaum, the city
in which most of His mighty works
were done, but which ignored Him
and His teaching to its own destruc
tion (see Matt. 11:23, 24). As we look
at our Lord’s activity on that day
we learn what we may do with our
Sundays to make them bear fruit
for eternity. We find Him in three
places.
I. In the Church (w. 21-28).
The Sabbath day found our Lord
with His people in the synagogue,
their place of worship. The serv
ice of worship was probably for
mal and lacking in spiritual vital
ity, but none-the-less He was there.
What have we to say if we miss the
opportunity for fellowship and serv
ice which church attendance brings
us?
Observe that because He was
there He (as a distinguished relig
ious teacher) was called upon to
teach the people. He taught them
in the serene consciousness of His
divine authority, and the people
were delighted and astonished at
His message. . We may not serve
exactly as He did, but if we pre
sent ourselves in God’s house on
His day we will find the way opening
for us to share in the worship.
Jesus not only spoke, but He per
formed a miracle. Certain it is that
we could not do what He did, but
we can be ready to give ourselves
in service as well as in worship, or
in speaking. There is much work
to be done in the church, and God’s
people should be ready and will
ing to do it.
II. In the Home (w. 29-31).
From the synagogue Christ went
into the home. How appropriate!
We too should go from the church
to the home, always bringing with
us the strength and blessing of the
worship service.
The daughter of a great preacher
and Bible teacher said the thing she
most loved in her father was that
he did not give out the “cream” of
his Christianity in his meetings and
bring home the “skim milk.” Too
often we fail to bring into the home
the power and beauty of the service
in the church. We who have been
very sweet and spiritual in the
church should not come home to be
sour and crabbed.
Jesus brought a blessing into
Peter’s home, miraculously healing
his mother-in-law of a great fever,
setting her free to serve. Here
again we cannot do what He did,
but we can, in His name, bring pow
er and blessing into our homes.
III. In the City (w. 32-34).
From the home the ministry of
Jesus reached out to the entire city.
As the strict laws forbidding travel
on the Jewish Sabbath were set
aside by the coming of sundown, not
only the city but the entire country
side brought their sick and needy
to Him.
The scene staggers the imagina
tion as one attempts to conceive of
this coming together of troubled hu
manity for the Master’s touch.
Mark tells us that He healed many;
Matthew, that He healed all. and
Luke, the physician, is emphatic in
saying that He healed every one of
them.
We may learn from this incident
that our Christian faith, which has
been developed and strengthened by
our time of worship and service in
the church, should not only reflect
itself in the home, but should reach
out into the life of the community
in which we live. The primary in
terest of the Christian in his city
or the place of his residence should
be spiritual, a desire to bring to
bear upon the people of the commu
nity the power of the gospel.
There is, however, a secondary
responsibility which is of much im
portance and that is the extending
of Christian influence into every
phase of school, social, political,
and business life. It is said that
when D. L. Moody came into a bar
ber shop the entire course of the
conversation changed. The Chris
tian should have an influence on
problems of social welfare, the work
of the public schools, the proper con
duct of business in the community,
and surely upon its political life. It
is said that if every Christian in
America would vote according to
his professed convictions we could
put the saloons out of business in a
single election. Why not do it?
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our own dirt and carelessness.— 1
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cause it goes right to the seat of the
trouble to help loosen and expel
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Let us endeavor so to live that
when we come to die even the
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