The sun. [volume] (Newberry, S.C.) 1937-1972, December 05, 1941, Image 3

Below is the OCR text representation for this newspapers page. It is also available as plain text as well as XML.

t THE SUN, NEWBERRY, S. C„ DECEMBER 5, 1941 /~'RAIG WOOD, not only one of the greatest of all our National Open champions, but also one of the most colorful and one of the smartest, has a cheerful message for the march ing army of golfers whose scores range from 75 to 120, or up. “Outside of trying to win the Open championship, the Masters’ and a few tournaments once more, my main idea from now on along the line of instruction is to bring a sim pier game or a simpler style to the player,” the Winged Foot blond said. Wood headquarters at the excel lent Normandy Isle course at Miami Beach where he operates a golf clinic for the benefit of all sufferers who would esteem it much bliss to find the road from the rough and Kathleen Norris Says: Extravagance in Marriage Is a Pitfall (Bell Syndicate—WNU Service.) CRAIG WOOD the sand back to the fairways, I wish you could see uhat my wife got for our baby. Perambulator, high chair, crib, bathinette, sterilizing outfit, blankets—the cost was $200 more than our budget for the child allowed. By KATHLEEN NORRIS H OW many young wives would feel horrified and shocked if their husbands could be identified as the “Tired Tim” who writes me this let- where the carpet is green and j ter? If you happen to be a TheNational Open champion, al-1 y 0un g wife the though always a fine golfer, has j y° u to see one of the^ pitfalls of reached the top spot over the harder way. He has had to fight off the bitterest type of luck, and found his path forward and upward largely through intelligent study in the mat ter of improvement, and this has helped to outfit him for helping oth ers and giving sound advice. A Few Methods Just what does Champion Wood mean by simpler or more direct methods? “In the first place,” Craig said, “I can give you only a brief outline here. I expect to take the matter up in much greater detail later on. “One main point is the matter of how the club’s face comes through the ball. There was a day in golf when everything was pronation and the so-called open face. I am now a firm believer in swinging through the ball with a squared or closed face—which simply means keeping the club face square to the line of flight. “I am also a firm believer now in putting the main burden on the hands, wrists and arms—not the hips or the body. The less work the latter do, the better off you are. “Just watch Byron Nelson, in my opinion the finest golfer we have from tee to green. See how simple his swing looks. It seems to be all hands and arms controlling the face of the club. Forced to Improve “Necessity,” Craig continued, “is the mother of many things. In golf it has become the mother or father of improvement. I’ll tell you about this part of it. Anywhere from fifty to a hundred of the world’s finest playing pros move from Florida to California, then back across Arizo na, Texas arid Louisiana to Florida again. It is a desperate struggle to break even, even if you win a few. I’ve made as much as $2,500 on one of these winter tours, which left me a profit of maybe $200. “Then we began to find that par wasn’t nearly good enough. You’d average par for four rounds and fin ish tenth or twelfth. We began to discover that you had to beat par by six or maybe eight strokes to modern marriage a little more clearly than you do. I say modern marriage, be cause marriage used to be quite a different thing a hundred years ago. A girl was so glad to get a husband then that she practically idolized him. Fami lies were large, having from eight to fifteen members. De pendent mothers and unmarried sisters lived with the young wife, and all together the women handled the tremendous burden of domestic duties. They hung out long lines of wash; cleaned windows; fed chickens; cared for babies; started children off for school; wrestled with coal ranges and dirty grates; made fruit cake and bed quilts; took rugs out to the yard and beat them; put up fruit; nursed the sick, and in be tween other jobs wrote voluminous letters to dear old school friends. It was natural in those days for the older women of the household to advise the younger, and to re lieve the bride of too much house hold responsibility until she knew how to handle it. But it’s different today. Each bride launches out by herself. In the following letter one young hus band explains just where his wife fails him. Wife Had No Training. “Bert is the most adorable girl in the world,” writes Tired Tim, “but she never had any training, and monpy simply doesn’t mean anything to her. We talked budget before we were married, and worked it out on paper, but she’s never glanced at it nor given it a thought since. “We’ve been married two year^ and have a baby, seven months old. I wish you could see what Bert got for the child. Perambulator, high chair, crib, bathinette, sterilizing outfit, blankets — it came to $200 more than our budget for him had allowed. My salary is $85 a week, but I carry insurance and contrib ute $20 a month as rent for my win. Naturally, everyone began to mother, who has a pension; also try out certain experiments. None pay $87 for our house including taxes of us could afford to stand pat on and amortization of debt, and about wbat we had. We just had to get $40 more monthly for refrigerator, better or finish one of these tours stove and so on. anywhere from $1,500 to $2,000 out “These expenses will lessen as of our pocket. j time goes on, but Bert already has “One of the first things I had to found a larger place she likes better, do was improve my putting. There 1 where we will have a room for a YOU MAY HAVE TO PAY If you are letting your hus band worry about money—If you spend his hard-earned sal ary on beauty treatments, bridge prizes and clothes—If you fail to abide by the household budg et you planned long before you were married—Then, says Kath leen Norris, you have failed in one of your most important duties as a wife. For no matter how pretty you may look, if your beauty shop bill is more than your husband can afford to pay, he won’t be pleased. No matter how necessary that extra piece of furniture may be, if it costs more than it ought to, he’ll probably hate the sight of it. In time you may be the one to pay—in heart break and tears. Reuben James, Forgotten XIT’-HEN the radio flashed word ** recently that a ship of the United States navy had been tor pedoed and sunk by a German sub marine, it rescued from the obscu- j rity which had engulfed it for more than a century the name of one of America’s- “forgotten heroes” and gave it world-wide fame. For the destroyer, which now rests on the j bottom of the Atlantic with its crew of nearly 100 officers and men, vie- j tims of the modern “pirates,” was named in honor of Reuben James, “common seaman,” who once ziis- j tinguished himself by an act of gal- ; lantry and self-sacrifice in a battle with the pirates of another era in i the annals of the sea. That was away back in the early days of the republic when we were at war with the Barbary pirates of the north coast of Africa who had been preying upon American commerce for years. On August 3, 1804, young Captain Stephen Deca tur led his command of three gun boats into the harbor of Tripoli to attack some of the pirate ships which had taken refuge there. Out to meet him came six enemy boats, all of them manned and armed twice as heavily as the American craft. Undaunted by the odds against him, Decatur urged his crews to grapple with the pi rates and board their boats. The battle immediately resolved itself into a desperate hand-to-hand strug- never was a golfer great enough to win while putting poorly. I did this by finding a more comfortable bal ance and by going more into the pendulum idea. My approach putts frequently keep running three and four feet by the cup, but I’ll take a chance on holding the next one coming back. * • * “Trying for a shorter cut to lower scoring,” Wood said, “we began to find that one answer was the squared or shut face. One excep tion to this is Ben Hogan, who takes a much deeper or fuller swing than anyone else. Ben weighs only 135 pounds, so he has to use a much longer arc to get those big drives. And distance off the tee means a We now have only dinner maid, help. “Bert is hospitable, and nothing is too good for her friends. In plan ning menus she spares no expense. ‘Let's have steaks again, and a mousse, and alligator pears,’ she will say. Our friends are all better fixed financially than we are, and my wife likes to keep up with them. Very Much in Debt. “Last week my office boss told me that they had considered me for a promotion, but the fact that I was about $2,300 in debt to doctor, hos pital, dentist, florist, and so on, seemed to them a serious thing and they wanted an explanation. Fool ishly, I told Bert this, and her an- , , . . ,, ... swer was to appeal to her father for lot m golf today. You can t keep m0 ney, ‘because Tim was being so usmg number two irons and number; mean - xhe old malli very much wor . four woods trying to hit a green | r i e( j j gave her a diamond ring of five and four irons. against an opponent using number I ^g,. mo t[ ler ’ s t 0 p awrlj and g er { ever since has been anxious to redeem it, for she naturally values it highly. “Now don’t think,” the letter con cludes, “that I am criticizing my wife. But I am working hard, pret ty well burdened, and not satisfied to face a future which may be an indefinite repetition of this sort of thing. Can you make a .suggestion that I can pass on to her in the hope that she will take a different attitude toward extravagance and biUs?” The trouble began many years ago. Tired Tim, when Bert was a little girl. Perhaps because she had no mother she evidently grew up feeling that she had only to want a thing to buy it, and that there was no relation between honest money and dishonest bills. Thousands of women much older than Bert have this failing, and thousands of moth ers let their daughters go ifito mar riage without a hint of the serious ness of this oversight. The simple truth is, any woman who lets her husband worry about finances is a poor wife. This seems like a sweeping statement, but it is true. To be only a money spend er, squandering his hard-won sal ary cheerfully on beauty parlors, frock shops, theaters, club lunches, bridge prizes, is to fail in your job, and more marriages go on the rocks because of this inexplicable stupidi ty on the part of intelligent women than because of any other one thing. It doesn’t matter how fresh, groomed, curled or frocked you are, or how charming your house is, with the new hangings, the new china, the chromium chairs and the Venetian blinds. If your husband is worrying about money, he hates it all. Husbands Like Serenity. For men, surprisingly, aren’t fussy about furniture. They love comfortable old chairs, familiar lamps, “Dad’s old desk” and “Mom's old spoons.” They even get to like the dresses of yesterday; many a wife has been exasperated to answer, “I’ve had it three years,” | when an affectionate husband com- j ments admiringly upon her costume. | What a husband likes is serenity at home, a woman content and busy,! bills paid. I remember one young wife who “fell madly in love” with the pic ture of a nude girl by a stream. It was in the “September Morn” era. The picture cost $30&. It was no prettier than the picture on the gro cer’s calendar that year, but she wanted it, and she had to have it. She paid installments on it for more than a year. Her husband hated it, and friends 1 made fun of it. She told them she was just storing it for Emily. Her husband, run down and anxious, died of pneumonia that winter, leav ing an estate of something less than $2,000. Almost one-tenth of that had to go for the picture. I hope she felt it was worth while. Reuben James saves the life of Capt. Stephen Decatur. (Drawn from the famous painting by Chap- pel.) gle in which the pikes, axes and cutlasses of the Americans were pitted against the scimitars and daggers of the corsairs. Within a short, time Decatur and the crew of the gunboat which he commanded personally had cleared the deck of the pirate ship. But bad luck had overtaken the captain’s younger brother, James Decatur. The leader of the pirate boat which he boarded had pretended to surrender, then had shot James Decatur through the heart. Seeing this. Captain Decatur, mad with rage, shouted to some of his men to come with him in pursuit of the mur derer. Another officer and 10 men re sponded to his call and within a few minutes they overtook the energy’s ship. Led by Decatur, they sprang aboard and cut their way through the corsairs toward their leader. The captain, a giant of a man, swung savagely at the young Amer ican with a pike which he was using as a broadsword. Decatur, trying to cut the blade of the pike from the shaft, snapped his cutlass at the hilt. Dropping his useless weapon, he closed in, seized the pirate captain around the waist and back-heeled him for a heavy fall. As the two struggling men went down on deck, one of the pirates rushed forward and raised his scim itar to deal the American captain a death blow. But before the weapon could descend, Reuben James, although badly wounded, sprang for ward and threw himself across Decatur’s shoulders. The keen blade of the long, curved sword slashed across James’ head, inflict ing a terrible wound. But he had saved his commander’s life. James eventually recovered. Later when asked to name his own re ward, he is said to have scratched his scarred and battered head and murmured bashfully: “If it’s all the same to you, Cap’n, let somebody else give out the hammicks. It’s a business I don’t like.” And with that classic remark Reuben James steps off the page of history, his name to be all but forgotten until 137 years later when a German torpedo sent his namesake to its watery grave. In a certain sense, Reuben James’ heroic self-sacrifice was in vain. True he saved Stephen Decatur for even greater service to his country later. But it is also true that he saved his commander’s life only to have him lose it as a victim to the code duello which Decatur hated but which he was not brave enough to disobey. So in 1820 when his erst while friend. Commodore James Barron, who believed that Decatur had slandered him, challenged him to a duel, Decatur met him on the “field of honor” and died from the wound received there. ■J U a i skirt. And if you dare to wear red—it’s a perfect style for this brilliant shade—or a bright green. Then it will be one of the most cheering-up dresses you have in your new season’s wardrobe! * * • Pattern No. 8034 is in uneven sizes 11 to 19. Size 13, three-quarter sleeves, takes 4 yards 35-inch material. 5 yards braid. For this attractive pattern send your order to: SEWING CIRCLE PATTERN DEPT. Room 1324 311 W. Wacker Dr. C^iLago Enclose 15 cents in coins for Pattern No Size Name Address Use of Days To awaken each morning with a smile brightening my face, to greet the day with reverence, for the opportunities it contains ; to approach my work with a clean mind; to hold ever before me, even in the doing of little things, the Ultimate Purpose toward which I am working; to meet men and women with laughter on my lips and love in my heart; to be gentle, kind and courteous through all the hours; to approach the night with weariness that ever wooes sleep and the joy that comes from work well done—this is how I desire to waste wisely my days.—Thomas Dreier. T F YOU have been admiring -*■ peasant frocks—here’s one for fall which hits a new high in charm and smartness. The long bodice buttons up the front to a round, high neckline which is to be trimmed with bright colorful braid. Repeat the same on the three-quarter sleeves and around the top of the hem of. the swirly Christmas givers who want to be sure their gift is well received have been turning more and more to cigarettes and smoking tobacco as gifts most appreciated by any smoker. Their welcome is always far greater than the modest cost involved. Naturally, Camels, as America’s favorite cigarette, and Prince Albert, the world’s largest- selling pipe tobacco, head the smoker’s gift list. Camels have two gift packages—the carton of ten packages of “20’s” specially wrapped, and a gay package con- taimng four “flat fifties.” Prince Albert is featured in the pound tin and the pound glass humidor, dsc both handsomely packed.—Adv. Christmas f\.. (N.. (V C'-. C'-- O- O'- O- C^- O" O- O- O- O- O" O- O- O" o~ 0- o- c*- o- o- o~ O- O* P~ P-* o- ? ? 7 ? ? ? ? C*-- O- O- 0~ f'- fv. fv. fv. <x. (v. <v. fw. (v. {V. fw. fv. jv. o— O-* C^- I'- O- ASK ME 7 ANOTHER f A quiz with answers offering information on various subjects 1. What state's capital is the largest in the United States? 2. Approximately how long is the period of the moon’s revolu tion about the earth? 3. What great actress had a leg amputated in 1915 but returned to the stage afterwards? 4. Can dolphins swim at birth? 5. Who made famous the adage: “Speak softly and carry a big stick”? 6. What amendment to the Con stitution includes the important “due process” clause? 7. In what sport does the par ticipant rarely see his quarry until after it is captured? 8. In Spanish America, what is meant by a hacienda? 9. When was the United States flag first used in warfare in Europe? Largest ‘V’ A giant V-shaped forest of fir trees, which stands on a hillside of southern England and measures more than a half mile along each side, was planted in 1887 to com memorate the sixtieth anniversary of the reign of Queen Victoria, says Collier’s. Today it is considered a “V for Victory” emblem and, as such, is the largest in the world. n The Answer* 1. Massachusetts (Boston). 2. Twenty-seven and one-half days. 3. Sarah Bernhardt. 4. Dolphins are expert swim mers from the time of birth. 5. Theodore Roosevelt. 6. Fourteenth (“Nor shall any state deprive any person of life, liberty, or property without due process of law”). 7. Fishing. 8. A country estate. 9. The first time the United States flag was used in warfare in Europe was by the American Ex peditionary Forces of the World war, but it was not taken into the zone of the advance. Cigarettes and smoking tobacco have moved rapidly to the fore front as ideal Christmas gifts with Camels as America’s favorite cig arette and Prince Albert Smoking Tobacco, the world’s largest-sell ing smoking tobacco, well to the fore. The beauty of these gifts for smokers lies in the fact that their cost is modest and their welcome always assured. Local dealers have been featuring Camels in the carton of ten packs of “20’s” and a special gift of four “flat fifties.” Prince Albert is available in the humidor specially wrapped for Christmas giving.—Adv. Blessing in Disguise Nowthen—I see where the de fense tax bill puts a new tax on rouge. Afterall—Well, it ought to keep more people out of the red. Telling Him “nothing but the law makes me keep my hands off you.” “nothing but the law makes you keep your hands off a lot of things." Some' girls rather like the strong, silent man — especially when his money does the talking. That’s Two “Willie, what is the plural of man?” “Men.” “And the plural of child?” “Twins!” DISAPPEARS That’s what stain less white Penetro does when rubbed on your chest, throat. Disappears like a vanishing cream. Almost in stantly sets up gen tle counter-irritant action, speeds local circulation. Inb medicated vapors help you relax and sleep! Rub tonight with Penetro, get better rest . . . one of Nature's greatest cold misery fighters. PENETRO FOR GOLDS’ COUGHS soothes, nhaled PENETRO Happiness at Home Happiness grows at our own fire sides, and is not to be picked in stranger’s gardens.—Douglas Jer- rotd. For Only 10/Now Less than a dose be as directed on label Dr. Hitchcocks LAXATIVE POWDER Dominion Over Self You can never have a greater or a less dominion than that over yourself.—Leonardo Da Vinci. —— -FOR WOMEN, mi It you suffer from monthly cramps, headache, backache, nervousness and distress of " Irregularities ”— caused by functional monthly dis turbances—try Lydia Plnkham’s Vegetable Compound—famous for relieving pain and nervous feelings of women’s 'difficult days.” Taken regularly—Lydia Plnkham's Compound helps buUd up resistance against such annoying symptoms. Follow label directions. WORTH TRYING! Lacking Will People do not lack strength! they lack will.—Victor Hugo. RHEUMATISM^mbaTo Our Imagination Sentiment is the poetry of tho imagination —LaMartine. EVERY TIME. THEY'RE EXTRA MILD AND THEY’VE GOT THE FLAVOR THAT ALWAYS HITS THE SPOT” ★ THE SMOKE OF SLOWER-BURNWG CAMELS CONTAINS 28^ LESS NICOTINE than th<* average of the 4 other largest- selling cigarettes tested—less than any of them—according to independent scientific tests of the smoke itself! f* G4MEL THE CIGARETTE OF COSTLIER I TOBACCOS