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> #; '} SWEETHEARTS < <!< '$$'&<$<$><$G><$><$<$<$><$><&<$?<$<$> r *' (The State acknowledges its obli- } galion for the charming essay below \ toMaj.J. F. J. Caldwell of Newberry, A and it is sure that its readers will be . grateful to him for the pleasure that ] its perusal will undoubtedly afford 2 iHtm.) |( & Perhaps I am disqualified to discuss A. V? ? -? nsv/t n-n/-] O /">Vl Q n cr_ in 13 SUOJCL'l uy illy Age anu iiiv ^ ei. m persons and- things about us. t , fufci fancy that I am still acquainted j . i??1' thoughts, emotions and mo- ] tlfjEs oi Wm' the - very young; and j that mkri^Wid women- are influenced i Jew as* was jarojb when he ioVe-d Ra- j when stae loved j , tHvicT "A'nd I am sure that when a f tt&kts marriage a business j itiiisictibft, she is following the ex- : imple of WicTbw Ruth in her courting c c^TOaltfiy Boaz/ And the subject is \ . ?<pgfe*itnportant than most persons t attached to the old word ^ Sr^ethearl.' I belifeve that no other * .. Mftkuage among .those I have studied c . ^ f&ir quite its enqjuivalient. The Greek,' ? , Lai:n. French, ^German, Italian and ( ^^his)ih'sLve Words signifying a lover, s fcpjf a loved one r but all of these, in r their "petting diminutives, seem \ fall short of our tender old ^ #erxf. The Italians approach it in the c .tfcntiS etiar mio^my h6art; but there s is. lacking the finest word, sw?et. ia : ( 1 "ofieh recur to the fable-told by a Atistophan#s in Plato's "Banquet" to I w effect that originally the human ii embraced all -that: now consti- S tJaetwos^xs*, but that that be- c Sifc was" afterwards divide^ into two u one 01 W?se maie, wk uvu^ $?oLale, and- that" each oTthese halves o nl$ been meeting union with the other n i^:jev*r sincfc. ?3m$- imjrolsf begins s -^o'njove boys, generally, pretty early f ftfe, a&d I susp ect that the girls- are c irimi^arly affected. ?>oipe persons are a rof ^rom 'lt for a good inany years, si puf $iyobsemtk>ii- & that when it h them, it -hits l}ar<J. Experience ? ihly enable pi en or iyomen to handle ? ifcy iinptflse discreetly, but I have c 8Sn persons as frantic during the sJ A ->? "JTAX wiait'ofiftri P, SfCOl^i UlUiV? W C.?CU l^iujugjwwv.. ii^i' boy"& girl in his or her first one. j j ^|irs,a|o, at a summer resort, I ob- jr llSved -a shaky old .widower courting a s< ||i&&r ofikout"fifty.' His grinning si jfecjpng'and fumbling were very 9i *teii$fng,'" -and Jier half-encouraging ti simpering and coquetting were e: pretty. Mis. Ca&fwell .in^gjed ft .the affair was alibgethp-iii^-^I fi^^vtome it was only funny. j?i persons havf been thought ri xtmpf, through life, from the ejno- ii f -,?ch. ft ^ is n#t -?nly ci / \'&itter tohape loved ami l$st >ban C liJSS ia fc^fe l?ve4 at W* better a: ife-'iiv* kfrpg* than failed Q' &the Iwliiyf. j.t( -Cfiie of the rne^ ijijteresting p^r- p< *<$rtSJiak tfe ^orht is the boy lover; J* th| boy ^wwyhiy in tove. ? girl is'.juei pe*j^<rta.o?i. It ir ^aggeratioii ip sa^ tiajj; &e si i? iheT^prettiest, d' t&d&tst, $pst thing imaginable. Of- H< JS%l'W aot'tBink ot getting po!s- p< (jf /jier; she is toe- superior a ti jbei?&fcojbe appropriate^ by anybody, u jp^'^inks- it" yould be unwarranted tl 'jfei&Mtff to. declare hispa'ssion to her. is ill Jhe condition described in e yi$jt&s which; I read st>m* sixty years a; they by Chiles Mackay? a: ?? 7 ^riio l?ve a maiden> In 8aj?i$nt, rare* and beauty-laden, ' no: ftrjpW t&e world anj all "ihat^ i# i?, 'e" jjfrlss' her" fcatTd k liaioufce.! Ill $iie not if love h$rT ^ ftell the sweet "If jXjjfe hut to the itars. above h^r, - &' pif^e floors that Vi$9 ber fe$?" * * ; f doiibt thgt any ?rrl, at least in n day* ; of old, ever was so infatuated n if^frat. Th?n, when modesty, self- "V tfliWfrSmt and guarc^eclness. were so n Sedulously inculcated' on girls fey ma-' ti tare women, I think that .these les-.S1 iani, backed by the girl's'shrewdness, u "Bh-b ftRlt? IaH h#>r tor nraetice'reserve e f^^pkhhers, but also educated1 her in iof feeling. She knew that 0 3fcfe%**rage' troy would" aboi^ate a ^ m %lfe?niade Jove" to him, and soon h one who promptly redtprocated ? a^getfon . His feeding Was: j a * ^ffe ^fhiit tfiat ' can flali without v -J ^ ^hlking o Is-indeed tuo mellow for me." a may be that the "recent changes t of-woman'* status will soon alter the a ijftationS of tile two sexes to each F &tidtv; so that women will do much t ~;to*rfing (as I suspect som^' <? ar* already dbing>T, and that c x nor infrequently be as re- r Bulwer'fc: "Strange Story,'* i j jfoung^ man is distressed by|t tbjjr jfferiistent -wooing of a young wo-11 $ees to-his mother for pro- 1 x c ^Lrf?rs' quarrels are very interest-:1 ifi- ' How sharp and bright a woman * i* iii a good, stiff wrangle! What i flithes of the eves, and tossing of the < aJfd shriHing of the voice, and l U&fttrsable utterances! And how 1 itiittifi#}? bungling is the man! And i tfctn, -the? "make up," how 1 V*'~' y :i - ' ' ovely her half-shed tears, how sweet ler sighs, how captivating her gentle concessions! And how diverting his contrition, or, if he is "stuck up," his lirs of importance! And how much setter they love each other after a ,'igorous row! The disturbance has veil been likened to a thunderstorm ?"full of sound and fury" while it asts, but productive of a live enjoyible atmosphere. Terence has properly styled such quarrels the renewal )f love. t**~ 1? L v.n focVtinrt fnr hun it nas ufcu mr ? ? Ireds of years, to charge women, both :he married and the unmarried, with nconsistency. Greeks, Romans, Engish, French, Germans, Italians?well Tien of all nations so accuse women. vVhy, "even Petrarch, the infatuated over who wrote thousands of lines in )raise of his Laura, calis woman "a ickle thing/' by nature, and her love lot lasting. Perhaps she is, in some natters, more* variable than man, be. ause of her more- emotional nature; >ut I am inclined to agree with Medea 'hat this censure comes from men vritirig things,and that if women had 'a singer,"k.v the song would be very lifferent. And why should not wom>h vary in their feeling toward lov-l >rs? I do not mean to defend the iystematic flirt who makes sport of nenJs hearts, like the girl addressed, y the Greek Macedonius, who quits; he man who loves her, to run after, me wlio does not, and then jilts himj is soon as she gets him. That shows l diseased appetite. But as ali love ffairs between unmarried person^ ook to matrimony, and as marriage = so serious a thing, esperia!Jy in louth Carolina. where it is dissolvable niy by death, why should nor a woaan "fee* wound" for her mate, and; Drop one lever when a more congenial j ?e presents himself? A mafc'canj aake hiichdice, and seek the woman,f iid should therei&re be constant; but! or the present, a woman has to j hoose among the mates' offered her,! nd when a ?ner man *than the scrub j he has encouraged comes courting er, why -^heuHin't she accept' him?; Eer duty, when*the evolutions in the; uture shall authorize her to do ther ourting, will be different. Then shehould s^and to her choice?if she an get him. The jilting of either a male or felale lover is seldom productive of >rious consequences. The' human riritual heart is very like the phy-j ?al organ?jexcedingly tough, elas-! c and resilient. A "kicking," or sev-j - , , j rai "kicking,?," may often be good I >r a man, and a jiltang 'may serve to J bate his .self-conceit, and teach him] ^ r ' *' arefulness and appreciation of the! ghts of others. Of course there are istances of heartbreaking, as in the ise "of the young woman^tQld of by harles Greville, wfcose fiance, Tl^m5. La^renc^, the distinguished arnst, uit he'f, ?o court and become engaged ) her si?jg^r?ike discovery of which erfidy si><5n brought her to the grave. ; is gratifying to learp that the sister ept her promise to the dying one, ot to marry the faithless man. But ?V ... . ' T JCii cases ate veiy, vei) iait. x fai^t thnfc that I ever knew a brokeneajied lover of either sex. Some . r ., * < Cxr X j efrplfe' require rough treatment, to be j luglrt good behavior. Very few of s . mortals, "indeed, ,care much for lings easy to obtain, but prize what ; difficult to secure, and crave whatver 4s denied us. Not a few of us ' re like Paulus Silentiarius, who, ftej Galatea had slammed the door ihfs face, declared that her rudeness i nfj 'stimulate3 his love-frenzy? rtfmaiiiai Jealousy is frequently a prc>1!rinent Batifre in love campaigns. And it is Weapon which women generally andte more successfully than men; rmc +r? tu+nVh T +V>inV tViPV rpsnrt. lore often than do men. A young lan generally bungles in his effort to xcite' jealousy in his innamorata, by lakingtoo much display of attention o --another girl?which the woman ees through; while the woman is sualiy more adroit, making a modrate show, by all sorts of little'manifestations, of taking a liking to anther man. The feeling is painful., filton calls it "the injured lover's ell," and seems to congratulate it dam on hpin? clear of it. But it is , useful stimulant, helping man or poman lover to appreciate the object f his or her affection. There is such thing as the course of love running oo smooth, and getting monotonous md dull. And Horace is wrong in his raise of uninterrupted harmony beween lovers. Pepper, spice and '!ov?s are fiery things that will not to for diet -of themselves; but they nakre excellent seasoning. Yet this ealousy requires careful handling, by >oth the person provoking it and the >erson suffering it. Some gentle felow mourns a while, and then draws >ff, in despair; some rage, and make he woman think them domineering, ind therefore dangerous to mate vith; while others, whether causers )r victims, maneuver along, and firialy get things settled 'to their satisfaction. Some women, bent on agoniz,ng a lover, are so conspicuous in ikeir treatment of another man as to disgust and drive awav anv lover of v | 1 taste; some simper and fiddle about, ' so as to .4how their hands, and lose !' the game. Some, when they are vie-' ( tims, break down, and lose; while others work a counter-game, get the lover uneasy, but still l*eep sight of j him. ar<d finally get him. The advice ] I would give to meet all cases is, keep ' vour head level?if vou can; and : * * * ? study th(* man or woman you deal ( with. 11 i Some one may ask what I have to J say about the pleasures of lovers. I They are beyond my power of de- { scription, or even of enumeration; but^ some of them are employment, enter-; tainment, fun, excitement, joy, ec- \ ' stacy! In conclusion, I say, to all my (' young, unmarried friends, male or ( female, get yourself a swetheart. He, j or she, will fill a place in your life; which nothing else can ever occupy, j and afford a kind of happiness derived from no other source. The court- ! ing and being courted, with the ac- ( fcompanymg pleasures and pains, will ', not only flavor and brighten your : 'youth, but will also furnish sweet memories even when you are so old ;as to have outlived all desire or i capacity for such enterprises; so that 1 you may say, with Schiller's Thekla: [ "Ich habe genosiem das irdische t ( Gluck: Ich habe gelebt und geliebet"? "I have enjoyed the felicity of earth:;, I have lived and loved." ! NEWBERRY TEAMS PLAY CLOSE GAME West End Defeats Mollohon by The Score of One to Nothing ' West End defeated Mollohon Sat*' urday on the West End ground by. the score of 1 to 0. The features of ; the game were the fielding of both , teams and the batting of Dean fori Mollohon, he getting three hits out of four times up, and also Hiller and J. Werts for West End. J. Werts, jj " * - - - T" ^ * 1- -* x 1 i pitching tor West una, was nu uy a, bail. He was relieved by Cartledge j in the fifth inning. This wah one of J the best games played in Newberry, j Mollohon .. : ...0 3 2 ? West End 1 8 2.| Batteries: Mollohon, Wilson and j] Neal; West End, Werts, Cartledge, Livingston and Oliver. * j. West End will take a week away j from home to play the Sumter team! oion n.??or?itAvil]a fnr the state J1: (TJ1U CliOU VJtuiti.v.n.v T ? ~ J . amateur championship. $ 1 j A little learning is a dangerous ' thing, but a lot of ignorance is still J' more dangerous. j K v' ^ 4s The Stillman case al$o reminds us r that -those'who live'in glass houses should not go into the divorce courts. 't 'NOTICE .All parties Interested in King's j: Creek graveyard; will please meet[ there Tuesday,- August the 9th at s 8:30 a. m., to work it- off. |i 7 W. C.'BROWN. The State of South Carolina, County ' of Newberry/ WHEREAS, a written petition or request made and signed by at least ; one-third of the resident electors and j a like proportion of the resident free-; holders of the age' of twenty-one [! -h-qovc rk-f cohnnl Hi strict No. 26 of N J' CHO WO. Newberry county, the state of South Carolina, haying been duly presented I ta us requesting us to order an elec-' tion submitting to" the qualified voters f or electors of said school district the j question of issuing and selling cou- Ij pon bonds of said school district, pay- j, able to bearer, aggregating the sum; of two thousand ($2,000) dollar^; in such denominations " as we may , deem necessary, not to exceed eight j per cent of the assessed valuation of f the property of said schoor district jj for taxation, .bearing a rate of interest i not exceeding six per cent per annum ij payable annually, at such times as we j" ,mav deem best, to determine whether 1 - " ' * " ' J I; sal a Donas snan oe issueu ox hol <? | provided in Section 1743 of Volume ;. I of Jhe 1912 Code of Laws of said state * AND WHEREAS, a plat of said p school district'was made in 1912 by '1; E. 0. Counts, a competent surveyor and is of record in the office of the .clerk of court in Newberry county in the said state in'Plat Book 18 at pagej"9 ' ' ' ' 21 ' ' [ SfCURIH Resoui The Natioi i n r " Ne\t B. C. MATTHEWS, President. Y - | Ml I I J??? Ml IMI Now" be it resolved that for the! purpose of determining the issue of said bonds as authorized in Section < 1743 of Volume I of the 1912 Code 11 of Laws for said state, an election ish hereby ordered to be held at the 11 school house in said district on the j i 16th day of August, 11)21,. the polls to 11 be opened at 7:00 o'clock in the fore-H noon, and closed at 4:00 in the af-j: ternoon, on the question of whether;1 such bonds shall be issued or-not, in j * which election only qualified voters M or electors residing in'said school dis-j1 trict shall be allowed to vote. 1 i J. B. Bedenbaugh, L. A. Shealy, j W. D. Hatton'are hereby appointed ( managers of such election. The ballot cast must have written;' or printed on it the words, "For Bonds" or "Against t>omis. . < J. C. Aull," i? J. J. Hentz, j < Thos. A. Setzler, Trustees of School District No. 2G of H Newberry County, the State of I1 South Carolina. August 1st, 1921. ! NOTICE OF FINAL SETTLEMENT , I will make final settlement of the estate of H. L. Dominick in the Pro-j bate Court for Newberry County, S. 1 C., on Saturday, the. 27th day of ? August, 1921, at 10 o'clock in theforenoon and-will immediately thereafter ask for my discharge as admin-; istratrix of said estate. All ncr?nns havintr claims against the estate of H. L. Dominick, deeeas-; i ?d, are hereby notified to tile the < same duly verified, with the under- < signed, and those indebted to said estate will please make payment like- . wise. < - MRS. ELVIA DOMINICK, Administratrix. H : : |< State of South Caioiina?County of j j Newberry?Court ' of Comon 1 Pleas.' * j! J. D. .Quattlebaum, Master, plaintiff, | against J. G. Lowe, J. W. Lowe,' 1 Roy L Lowe, J. Chesley Lowe, Har-|-' old Lowe and Nina Lowe Stone,; am 0 " ' | ?s<ricxiuaiiio* SUMMONS FOR RELIEF. To t^ejAbove Names Defendant Nina; ??hi i ? mi urn . ??. <?* m- on ii ' . ? | 1837 | ERSKINE i Due We ?? ? ? ? m ^.v i r n * r\ r% /\r? ?lGHTY-rU|UK Y tAK3 ur v? / * < . m Unwavering Adherence to * jj' -* J Thorough S 'V : Gourdes: A. B.( B. S., M. Literary Societie Intercollegiate Contests in ? ;fv*' ~ feticsWorthy o v ? Adequate Equijpmen Board in College Home a] ^ ' ' Homes Mi For Catalogue >nd Appl Due Wes * A? ? tC ? * Trr rr~rmri w i u* i i -n? ,i .ii .l i. J,n- fr. Summer Exci jr.* - : v * ?? ? jj Announced by Souther Numerous Mountain ai ?.? .n- ?- - , ' * - ? r- s Tickets on sale May 15t ! ... . ! final return limit, October privileges. > Following fares applying Asheville, N. C Black Mountain, N. C Brevard, N. C Hendersonville, N. C Hot Springs, N. C Lake Toxaway, N. C Ridge Crest, N. C Saluda, N. C Waynesville, N. C Isle of Palms, S. C Walhalla, S. C (Plus 8 per cer Fares to other points, sch tion on application to ticket Disl i No* 1844 r * , ' SERVICE-PI fees Over $2,QO0,<O( lal Bank of ^berry, South Carol T. K. JOHNSTONE, Cashier. Lowe Stone: j You are hereby summoned and re- j luired to answer the complaint in; :his .action of which a copy is here-j ivith served upon you, and to serve :ij :opy of your answer to the said complaint on th^ subscribers at their offices on Law Range, Newberry, S. C'.,| lereof, exclusive of the day of such j service; and if you fail to answer the, ivithin twenty days after the service: complaint within the time aforesaid, ( the plaintiff in this action will apply; Lo the court for the relief demanded; in the comolaint. DOMINIC It & WORKMAN, Plaintiff's Attorneys, j Dated June 1, 1921. tv. .v./-. rio-fovirinnf I nwp Stone! 1U LUC Ay11UUI11/, .. ? I Take notice that the complaint in j :he above action with the summons-l [)f which the above is a copy is now on file in the office of the Clerk of | the Court of Common Pleas and j General Sessions for Newberry County, South Carolina. DOM I NICK & WORKMAN, Plaintiff's Attorneys. 6-24-Gt-ltaw. Subscribe to The Herald and News $2.00 a year. CITATION OF LETTEkS OF AD-! MINISTRATION - | rhe State of South Carolina, Countj j nf Newberrv. bv W. F. Ewart, ] Probate Judge: Whereas, Ada M. Lawson hath; made suit to me to grant her Letters; of Administration of the estate and; effects of Thomas Lawson, deceased. | These are therefore, to cite and! adihonish all and singular the Kin-1 Jred and Creditors of the saidj; Thomas Lawson, deceased, that they! be and appear before me, in the: Court of Probate, to be held at New-j berry. South Carolina, on Monday,; the 18th day of July, next, after pub-1 tication hereof, at 11 o'clock in the j forenoon, to show cause, if any theyj have, why the said administration' should not be granted. * ' - .] m\7 hanH 28th davV. UJVC11 uiiuv^ ... Df June, Anno Domini 1921. W. F. EWART, P. J. N. C. 11 I ? mimi < n i IIB^HI 11 vaMwmmmL* 1S21 COLLEGE st, S. C. CONTINUOUS SERVICE j' Christian Character and cholarship * * I , A., Pre-Medical, Special is Emphasized. )eba?es, Oratory and Athf Comparison. t and Endowment. t Cost. Price in Priyate oderate. ication Blank ,Write to t, s. c. r \ ursion Fares n ! c?_.i i. n nanway ay mm 10 lid Seashore Resorts h-September 30th, with 21st, allowing stop-over from Newberry: ? 9.22 1 A OA II. 1U.OU 9.22 7.85 11.74 > 10.52 10.44 f 7.06 11.09 11.38 '7.49 it. War Tax.) edules and other informaagents. S. H. McLEAN, - * i. I i irict Passenger a gem, Colurribia, S. C. ' iOGRESS / )0 00 Newberry ina W. W. CROMER, Asst. Cashier. \ 11 ! ?cccaa WW V < : " i 1 Cake Klenzo SoaD \ with each 50c tube J Klenzo Tooth Paste Also Special Price " 35c Prophylactic Tooth Brush, U. S, Army Stock. I I $1.00 Lather Brush $2.00 a rlo a narAnfpPll . \! r* rl -.. 9 ? / 7 . % - 1' sv ? ' ? ~ - & : -. i y * * r tv , for 2 years. \ ? ' ' / i \ # .ii i -' i : 7 ' v 4 n n .If Von t 5pare t&e spoon in time of.sickness. Doses of medicine must be taken fo , get well again, but a lot will depend upon the quality of the medicine the spoon holds. Bring your doctor's prescrip tion here and you will get just .1 ' k what his order calls for, made up of the purest and freshest drugs, with consummate care and skill, yet charged for most ?- i reasonably. Prompt service. Mayes Drug Store Newberry, South Carolina " ~ 'I *