The herald and news. (Newberry S.C.) 1903-1937, April 26, 1904, Page 6, Image 6
MEMORIES OF HOME
Why They Linger and When Thiey
Linger Longest Fresh
and Sweet.
N'ot many days ago a number of
old friends chanced to meet together.
They formed a ,;omewhat noteworthy
group, for. in one way or aaiher.
all had won more than the ordinary
measure of success. They had all
been born and bred in Georgia. and
all had kno-wi' one another in boy
hood. The most of them came from
:he samie county,. and three had at
xended the same school. In the group
'zhere was a successful civil engineer.,
a r'aiway manager. a prosperous tar
rner ;nd a business man. It seems
that an opportunity had come to each
to revisit the scenes of his child
hood, and each was taking advantage
of it. These old friends all met in At
lania in the most casual way and
they accepted the fact as a piece of
good fortune. for it enabled them to
deal generously in reminiscences
while they looked about the town:
viewing the improvements that seem
ed so wonderful to them.
They were amazed at the growth of
Atlanta. and proud of it. but their
amazement was not strong enough
to'smother their reminiscences. Their
chief talk was of home, not the new
homes they had built in different parts
-oi the country. but the home of their
-childhood. Curiously enough. the man
who had the shabbiest home when a;
boy was more persistent in his re
niniscences, and dwelt fondly on the
memories he was able to coniure up:
Sil some of the others. who were fa
miliar with the shabby home of his2
youth agreed very heartily with all
that he said, and . indeed, helped him
out with his reminisce'nces when his
own memory seemed to be faulty.
This home that was so glorified in
. the memory of the man was shabby
only in appearance. It consisted of a
modest three-room cottage, devoid of
paint and free from all the comforts
that seem to be a necessity of modern
lome-builders. Inside and out every
thing was severely plain. There were
-no carpets on the floor, and none ot
the accessories that are no.wadays
'found in the humblest home.- It was
-apparent at a. glance that the home
was under the pressure' -of poverty.
All this, however. seemed to have
been forgotten by 'the man who had
been raised' there as well- as by those
who had been familiaNi with it.
How. then. -could a home so bare
and poverty-stricken-so devoid of
-comforts-app'eal 'so fondly to the
zmemories of th'ost whp were familiar;
-with it? There. is on'e simple ex
planation that we desire to call to the
:attentiop of every mother and father
in the land. namely, that a house and
its surroundings. its - furnishings, or
irs- lack thereof, do not represent a
home, A dwelling may be as fine as
money can mak~e it. or as poor as pov
erty itself, and still it may fai.1 to be
a home in the true sense and meaning
of the word. On the other hand.,
whether fine or common, it may re
present the very essence of home.
-The little house that the man and'
his friends remembered so well and'
talked of with so much delight had
'been swept away by time, and another
more in .keepin~g with guir modern!
ideas ~had takien its plac6: but that
fact made not th'e least difference' in~
the w.orld to those who had been fa
mniliar 'with' it, for they were glad to
.admit that it had been the ideal home.
-and their ,memories played about it
constantly. It had been transfigured
in their minds. .and occuipied a place
"by itself.
What a happy wvorld this would be
ifwe could order a home as we do a
ton of coal! How many, stuffy pro
blems of humanity would be solved~
if it were p'ossible to have' a home
'made by merely leaving an order with
-''the architect or contractor! And
'what a liberal, what an uplifting art
'that would be which could guarantee
'a home with every dwvelling erected!
Not for long would the millenuium
be delagred; not for long would our
many. and various reformers be com
pelled to wander up and down the
world hunting for remedies.for social
and political evils. But conditions
being what they are, we are obliged
to make the most of them and to
shuffle along as best we may. They
are not so bad that we are left no
choice -in the matter, for sve are still
free to make our dwelling places the
centers of joy and happiness, to be
long remembered by our children and
our friends with emotions the most
,lam;ng or we may utilize them
merely as places in which to eat and
sleep-a resort for us when all other
doors are closed.
A hune that wili be long renem
bered by those who have bathed in
its a'.miosphere and partaken of its
spirit is not dependent on considera
uions of luxury, nor on any of the
acces1ries of wealh: nor on rich ap
po)intnents and furnishings, nor on
the ostentatious display of prosper-.
ity. These things are frequently only
a painful exhibition of lack of taste
and re:inement. for where pride or
purse taints the atmosphere. the hut
lest pers in n tle worl,l has all the
advantage.
\\hat is the secret of hoine-mak
ing? It is not to be published to the
wcrld. nor is it to be whispered to
your neighbors. What are the char
actrstics which. taken together. go
t- the making of a home? The
mind n mar. can hardly compass
thtm. such is their elusivehess. It is
well known that our thoughts are cap
able of iying out of reach of human
speech. and so there are elements of
character. postive. and yet so ether
ial that th.ey have never been pinned
to a name or a quality. We say that
a certain person is charming. or has
a strong character. or a marked in
dividuality: and we . feel that the
terms we employ are not in the least
descriptive of the qualities we have
mentioned. We have merely given
hints and vague intimations.
So it is with the characteristics of
a home. We cannot describe them
in words that are fit and apt. So
few of these characteristics are ma
terial :hat we are at a loss; the things
4n which the nnger may be placed are
material, and so do~ not count. The
real characteristics are psychologi
cal in their nature and effect. It is
an experience common. to us all to
enter a house and be chilled by some
influence, we know not what, or. on
the other hand, to be warmed into a
glow of enthusiasm quite unexplain
able at the time. It is impossible to
mistake the spirit and atmosphere of
home. We recognize it by some
sense or instinct that is superior to
reason and baffling to logic.
Every man and every woman owe
it to their children. to their friends
and acquantaintances. and to them
selves. to so order their households
that -the very memory therof shall
give pleasure in the years to come.
The child is born with an instinctive
love of home as a place of refuge, and
it is the duty of the parents to see
that this instinct is not shocked and
destroyed when the child comes to the
age when it can reason out matters
fi(r itself.
We do not discredit hospitality,
but give it a new importance. when
we say that the home should be or
dered for the pleasure and conven
ience of the children. subject to such
retraints as will naturally suggest
themselves. In such a home the moth
er has no need even to inquire in,
the words of the song. "Where is my
wandering boy. tonight?" for she will
know, and in that knowledge will re-2
side her pride, her pleasure and her
consent.- -
Igow Louisinna Became Ours.
Southern Lutheran.
Before this number of the Southern
Lutheran reiches. our young people,
the great Exposition at St. Louis will
have been opened, in commemoration
of one of the most important events
in the history of the United States.
That event was the acquisition of the
great Louisiana country.by purchase.
This territory extended from the Mis
sissippi river on the east to the
Rocky Mountains on the west, and
from the Gulf of Mexico and the
Red river on the south- to the Domin
ion of Canada on the north, and in
cluded also the island of New Or
leans. It' had been part of that ex
tensive country which wvas named and
taken possession of in the name
of and for the king of France
by .La Salle in 1682, stretching
from the Alleghany to the Rocky
mountains and southward from Can
'ada and the Great Lakes to the
gulf.
In 1755 there commenced in Europe
a wvar, which Thomas Carlyle de
scribes as "a tornado springing doubt
less from the regions called infernal:
and darkening the upper world from
north to south, from east to west,
for seven years long, such a strife
as the civilized world had not seen
since the Thirty Years war." In it
were involved Germany and England,
France and Spain and Portugal and
other nations. The Seven Years war
termitd with the Peace of Paris
in 1762, and one of the results was the
ceding by France of the Louisiana
country east of the Mississippi, ex
cept New Orleans, to Great Britain;
and west of the Mississippi, with New
Orleans, to Spain.
That part of it cast of the Missis
sippi of course became ours through
the Revolutionary war and the Treaty
of Peace with Great Britain in 1783.
During the war for independence
settlers in great numbers had crossed
the mountains into Kentucky and
Tennessee. At once it became a ques
tion h,w these people could find an
avenue of commerce with the outer
world. The natural way was by the
Mississippi ri.-er. The east bank of
the river as far south as Florida,
(which then included parts of what
are now the states of 'Mississippi, Ala
bama and Georgia) was the property
of the United States: but the west
bank of the river with the island of
New Orleans and Florida on the east
bel>nging to Spain. So the people of
the United States could not reach the
Gulf of Mexico without going through
Spanish territory. This the Spaniards
would not let them do unless they
paid heavily for the privilege. You
may be sure that the settlers would
not submt to this willingly, and conse
quently all sorts, of trouble arose,
The story is too long to be told here,
but every American boy should study
for himself the history of these thril
lingly interestitig years from 1785 to
i8oo. Had,- Spain continued the
owner of Louisiana war with the
United States must have resulted but
in i8o1 the territory was receded by
Spain to France.
Thomas Jefferson had becqme the
president of the United States. He
saw that the change of owners of
the Louisiana territory did not and
could not relieve the situation. On
April i8th, 18o2, he wrote .to our
minister in Paris, Mr. Livingston
"This cession completely reverses all
the political relations of the United
States, and will form a new epoch in
our political course........There is
on the globe one single spot, the pos
sessor of which is our natural and
habitual enemy." Mr. James Monroe
was sent over to Paris to join Mr.
Livingston in an effort to persuade
France to sell us that spot, which was
the island of New Orleans.
But Napoleon was now the ruler
ot France, dreaming dreams of a new
France in America, and seeing vis
ions of his own power extending not
only over all Europe but over. the
estern continent as well.
To carry out his ambitious designs,
he planned to send an army of 25,000
men into Louisiana and a war fleet
to the Gulf of Mexico to guard the
coast. But you know what often hap
pens to the best laid plans'of mice and
men. England and France seemed
about to be engaged in war. The sol
diers he intended to send to Amer
ica were in San Domingo, and had
been so weakened by war and sick
ness that on the day that had been ac
tually fixed for the movement to
Louisiana, not a man was able to go.
So Napoleon suddenly changed his
mind, sent for Mr. Monroe and Mr.
Livingston and offered to sell them
not only New Orleans but also the
whole Louisiana territory.
There was no cable or wireless
telegraph in those days, and there
was no time to write to Mr. Jeffer
son for his advice, so Monroe and
Livingston took the matter in their
own hands and signed the contract
whereby Louisiana was transferred
to the United States for a considera
tion of $t5,ooo,ooo
For a history of the great constitu
tional questions involved, and resulting
therefrom, our older readers are refer
ed to Judge Cooley's "The Acquisition
of Louisiana" (Indiana Hist. Soc.
Pamphlets. No. 3.)
Ex-Senator .\ason of Illinois was
seated with a party of friends in a
Washington cafe one evening, when
the circle was joined by the son of
a big western capitalist, whose main
aim in life seemed to be a continuous
jubilee. He was of that class inele
gantly known as "butters in", and
it was soon evident that his presence
was distasteful to the senator. "My
old man doesn't put up a cent for me,"
said the young man displaying a fat
roll of greenbacks. "I'm on my own
rescources." How do you manage
it?" asked one of the party. "You
musthave some sort of 'snap.' "
"This is my 'snap' " said the gay
spendthrift, impressingly touching
his head. "And there's not a softer
'snap' in the world" assented Senator
Mnan.
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Typewriters', Office Supplies, etc.
+ 1334 Main Street, Columbia. S. C.
HUDGENS BROS., LAURENS, S. C.
Foundry, Machine Shops and
Hay Presses.
We are selling agents for the Rapid Fill Hay
Press, which has proven to be the best press
on the market at the price. These Presses
can be seen at Mr. G. M. B. Epting's cotton
platform.
arw F'ma.-rna.
We now employ one of the best Architects in the
South, and are prepared to furnish Plans and Specifi
cations to any who contemplate building.
Full line of Castingsandsupplies kept in
stock..
The mail puts you next door to us.
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stock of wall paper, feather beds and feather pillows. We will +
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We Desire
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be bought..
Loose Buckwheat. Raisins. Nu
Figs. Dates. Grated Cocoanuts, Cranberries
Mince Meats, etc.
DAVENPORT & CAVENAUGH
Phone 1 10. Main Street.
. . . MILLINERY ...
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