The times and democrat. (Orangeburg, S.C.) 1881-current, June 14, 1910, Page 3, Image 3
t MANNERS AND ?
* CUSTOMS IN ?
* TRAVELING ?
* ?
- At the first glance It might seem to
the casual reader that manners in
traveling correspond with customs,
hut a little thought will prove the con
trary. People who are sadly deficient
in manners may be very exact in fol
lowing what they think are customs,
and those who know very little about
customs may be careiully courteous
In manners.
For example, a person who has good
manners in traveling speaks in low
tones, does not laugh loud, dees not
talk for the benefit of the public or
xnention names, does not push forward
aggressively; yet this person may not
, know, simply from lack of experience
in traveling, what to do, what to wear.
-?in a word, what are the customs.
But, at the outset, I may state that a
person of refined taste and good man
ners is absolutely sure to avoid con
spicuous dress in traveling.
An instinctive sense of the fitness of
things is always part of the possession
of a person of refinement, even though
practically inexperienced in the ways
cf the world.
On the other hand, a person may
have ? practical knowledge about , tick .
?ts, luggage, customs at hotels, lees,
etc., and yet may be loud-voiced, or
assume superior airs, or monopolize
more than a fair share of space on a
train, for instance, by filling an ad
Joining seat with bag or wrap, while
Ignoring the fact that another person
is in search of a seut. This mark ot
rude manners is one of the most no
ticeable things in traveling.
In regard to dress for traveling,
while it is true that lighter colors are
worn now, and tfiat thin materials are
sensibly chosen for warm weather, it
is not to be denied tnat perishable j
materials, and those that soil quickly, j
are not desirable for one who must
practice economy. Dainty dresses of
pale shades, delicate and expensive
wraps, are not for the vornan of mod
crate means, and it would be an ex
travagance, an affectation, and in bad
taste to assume attle which is not in
accordance with one's purse, and
which is not appropriate to circum
stances.
A gown which might be wem for a
short trip in a drawing room car is
not suitable for a long journey in an
ordinary car, and, as I have said, any
thing that is very conspicuous in trav
eling is not good taste. Showy gowns
or hats are as much to be condemned
as loud voices and marked gesticula
tions.
Serviceable traveling Cresses may
be of pongee, voile, panama or mo
hair, the little jackets or boleros giv
ing a becoming effect over a dainty
blouse. Linen, gingham and other
washable fabrics are for occasional
wear in traveling. One's attire may
he very simple, yet never severe, and
tt must be immaculately neat.
Shabbiness in dress is unpardon
able, and the woman who thinks that
"'anything will do" for traveling is
grievously mistaken. II one cannot
afford a variety of gowns, one can af
ford a plentiful supply of washable
?waists. Even when traveling rapmly
and remaining but a few days in each
place, one can have one's clothing
washed promptly at a hotel laundry.
For the evening dinner at a hotel
or on an ocean steamer, a dress of
foulard or other soft silk, high in the
neck, may be worn, the present fash
ion of lace yoke and collar making a
becoming touch; or a lace waist with
a skirt of silk or voile may be chosen.
It is a mistake to think that evening
dress is worn at dinner on ocean
steamers.
Americans of a certain type are
plentiful in traveling, but are not to
be regarded as examples of good
breeding. Costliness and elaboration
in dress, jewels worn while traveling,
are not evidences of refinement, but
the reverse. Sensible women, these
who know that the tendency to display
is on the increase and is ruinous in
its effect3?women who are sure of
themselves?know that culture and re
finement go hand-in-hand with simplic
ity in dress and demeanor.
In these days women travel about
"very independently, and they will be
treated with respect always, provided I
they are quiet and uigni.ied. Young
girls do not travel about alone on long
journeys, nor do they stop at hotels j
alone, but should be accompanied by |
an older woman, who?e presence
saves them from criticism.
On a journey in cur own country it
is customary to cany as little as pos
sible by hand. A small bag and an
umbrella are allowable, but bundles,
boxes, baskets or numerous packages
of any sort are not correct to carry,
luggage is checked, and it is a con
venience to purcha&e one's railway
ticket in advance, and for a small fee,
have one's luggage checked through
Trom one's residence, or hctel, to des
tination. This saves the trouble of
/ looking for one's trunks at the station
before starting, but if this cannot be
?done, it is important to attend per
sonally to checking one's luggage at
the station in order to avoid mistakes.
For the benefit of those who intend
to travel abroad, a few nints are in
cluded here:
Xriilde books are necessary for for
eign travel.
"On a steamer one nas a stateroom,
where one undress* s comfortably as at
home, and goes to ?)ed. A warm wrai>
per may be laid on the foot of the
Pinehurst Tea
South Carolina Grown
A delightful blend for Ice Tea
25c per 1 -2 lb package.
E. N. Scoville,
44 W. Russell St 'Phone 18
oed or placed conveniently near, in
case of necessity, and there are al
ways little racks, or places where one
can tuck away warm slippers, shoes
stockings, etc.
It is important to arrange, with th?
stewardess soon after going on board
about the morning bath, and unless
the weather is unusually severe, and
stormy, one would go to the bathroom
and take the regular morning bath as
at home. A steamer trunk is neces
sary for a sea trip, because it slip?
under the berth in a stateroom and is
out of the way, and can be drawn out
when required. A large trunic would
be sent down to the "hold."
These trunks are labeled "state
room," or'"hold," the labels being pro
cured from the steamship . company
when obtaining tickets. A bag in
wh'.ch to carry a variety of small ar
ticles is required. A steamer rug and
a warm wrap are essential. It is im
portant to engage a steamer chair
from the ieck steward as soon after
going on board, and to have it in an
agreeable place?the south side being
preferable. A fee is charged for the
use of the chair* The chair is marked
with one's name, and is tnus easily
distinguished.
Fees are always given to the deck
steward, table steward, stateroom
steward and stewardess when leaving
the ship.
If one is obliged to occupy a state
room with another person, one is care
ful to be very considerate in one's
..manners.
When purchasing steamship tickets,
one may secure a railway ticket for
the first city to be visited.
In England it i3 correct to travel in
second or third-class railway carriages
in preference to the more expensive
first-class. On the continent it is nec
essary to travel either first or second
class.
I It L? a convenience to purchase rail
way tickets at one of the agencies or
companies, where explicit information
can be had about trains, routes, etc.
No extra charge is made. Tickets so
purchased do not identify the holder
with any special paity; the tickets are
the same as those at the railway sta
tions.
Foreign railway travel differs mate
rially from American customs, and it
Is advisable to carry only such lug
gage as may be easily placed by port
ers^ in the railway carriage. A large
portmanteau, or a suit case, will be
convenient. Porters are always at
hand at trains to carry one's belong
ings from cab to train or vice versa,
and they are quick and obliging, and
expect only a small fee.
Trunks are troublesome things for
constant use in Europe. They are
weighed and extra charges are made
for them. Checks such as are known
in America, are not obtainable, al
though certain methods prevail "bf
sending "registered" luggage. When
making trips, therefore, it is best to
have one's trunks stored at one of the
agencies in large cities, and to carry
only such luggage as can be conveni
ently handled.
Fees to servants at hotels are given
at ' the close of one's stay. These
should be ample, but not excessive.
New Missiles for Weddings.
It is quite singular how of late
years a decided objection to the an
cient custom of rice and slipper
throwing after the bride and bride
- groom has sprung,up, so much so
that several comparatively new ideas
have of late come almost universally 1
into vc gue.
Instead of the hard rice pellets,
which occasionally are thrown with
too much vehemence to be pleasant,
some brides go in for substituting the
tiniest ladies' slippers as well as
horseshoes made entirely of soft sil
ver paper. These resemble a spark
ling shower of silver. Other brides
lean to providing their friends with
dried rose or other sweet smelling
! leaves to be thrown after them.?
Gentlewoman.
Why Not?
An exchange says: "To boil eggs
when camping sing to verses of "My
Country, 'Tis of Thee:" It dees not
say why to do this, but it is possible
it tuv&L , mat ine egga win jvne
when th;- singing is over. Very good,
and let us all sing 'When Johnnie
Comes Marching Home" while wait
ing for the down towners' return, and
if the chops are not done, then sit
down by the stove and bum "The
Maiden's Prayer." Nothing like be
ing cheerful and doing housework by
note.
Cream of Corn Scup.
Ore can of corn, three cupfuls of
colu water, cue chopped oniun, two
cupfuls scalded milk, one teaspopnful
of salt, a little celery salt and red
pepper, four tablespoon fuls o:' bitter,
four tablespoon f . .Is of flour, tne cup
ful whipped cream.
Cook corn in cold water for thirty
minutes. Press through a sieve, add
scalded milk. Cook chopped onion in
butter, add flour, corn, mixture, sea
sonings, cook eight minutes, strain
. add whipped cream, and serve hot.
! Cooking Potatoes in Camp.
Wash the potatoes clean, wrap in
oiled paper, and put in the hot wood
ashes. Wet the potatoes and the pa
per before wrapping them. Any heavy
paper that does not have printed mat
ter on it can be used in this way.
How to Repair Garden Hose.
I When the garden hose begins tc
leak give the worn place a coat of
shellac. Asphaltum can also be used.
Some mend the hose with gum tissue
applied with automobile gh:c. a g-.:m
elue which is not affected bv water.
Wall Paper
AH the latest designs and colors
A large stock carried at all times.
E. N. Scoville,
44 W Russell St 'Phone 18
Thursday Morning, June 9, at 9 O'clock
We started a sale which means much to every house keeper
in fact to every wearer of Cotton Fabrics. The
Sale will run through to
SATURDAY, JUNE 25th, 1910
The policy of this store in the past has been averse to indiscriminate sales, but we offer you a suf
ficient and good reason for this GREAT ALTERATION SALE, tis this, we find it necessary to en
large our present store and are now adding 30 feet to the length, which will give us a chance for
better displays, of our merchandise and the room needed for the new department we intend install
ing in the Fall also other comforts much desired and demanded for the comfort of our customers.
To say that we are grateful for your past support, but poorly expresses it, may we not ask you to
continue with us? "The Alteration Sale" is for the purpose of converting much of our very desira
ble stock in ready cash. Just now we can find good use for it, this is the reason coupled with our
building, that the sale is put on. To mention every item we have reduced is impossible, suffice it
to say. No part of our entire Summer stock will be reserved. We intend to sell the good.
Come We Ask You. You'll Be Glad.
1 Case of 36-in Androscoggin L.
Bleaching (20 yards only to a cus
tomer. . . .10c yard.
1,500 yard best Chambrays and
Ginghams in Dress Patterns and
Solid Colors at.6c yard.
One case Apron Ginghams, good
fast colors, all checks, at. . .5c yard.
\One 36-in Sea Island Homespun, a
very special value. (Only one bale)
.5c yard.
50 pieces of standard Calicos in
medium and light colors (Special)
.5c yard.
25 pieces of 27-inch Zephyr Mad
ras, washes and wears well, 10c v.'xl
ue, at.6c yard.
500 yards 36-inch Cambric?a
great saving for you on this only
.10c yard.
40-inch White Lawns, some fine,
but mostly heavy weights remnents
.5c yard.
;40-in White Lawn, 2 to 8 yard
lengths, goods worth 12 1-2 to 18
cents a yard. Sale price. . .7c yard.
We have hundreds of Remnants
to offer in Percals, Colored Muslins,
White and Colored Madras, every
piece will be marked yards and
price. See this Lot.
'100 dozen Ladies' Ribbed Sum
mer Vests, 6 for 25c, with tape in
neck.
Special Tahle Linens and Napkins
will be reduced If you need any now
is you time.
In white Linens we have the larg
est stock ever shown?all at special
prices?we mention only a few: ?
90-in Linen Sheeting.. ..50 cents.
72-in Linen Sheeting.. ..40 cents.
Linen Cambric, 36-in wide 25c to 40c
45-in Cambric Linen .. .45c to 68c
Linen Lawns.20c to 75c yd.
Sheets, Pillow Cases and Bed
Spreads, all come into this attractive
sale quite reduced in price.
Curtain Swisses and nets will be
offered you. A full selection priced
to please.
3 6-in White Madras and Pajama
Check?at 10 cents?value you can't
match.
The best 5c quality of Pearl But- .
ton you have ever bought?any size.
Our Stock of Embroideries and
Laces?as usual will form a very
interesting part in this alteration sale
?every piece will be marked plain
figures. We have plenty desirable
patterns, new and up-to-date?a fuli
stock of Laces, just in. Lace Col
lars and Jabots, all are here ready
for our sale.
We again ask you to visit us during our Sale. Thursday Morning at 9 o'clock
the Alteration Sale opened and closes Saturday, June 25, 1910. Goods will
he sold for cash at sale prices only.
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Mr. F. N. Rickenbaker, of Orangeburg, now represents
The Southern Marble & Granite Co.
of Spartanburg, S. C.
The Leading Manufacturers and Dealers in
Monuments, Coping and Headstones
This firm has erected some of the largest and most handsome mon
uments in the Orangeburg Cemetary, and we ask your careful inspection
of sme.
See their designs and get their prices.
LOUIS COHN & CO.
322 and 234 King and 203 Meeting St., Charleston, S. C
Charleston's Great Department Store
Largest wholesale and retail mail order house in the South
At Wholesale or Retail We Offer the Largest Varieties of
Dry Goods, Notions, Shoes, Millinery,
Carpets, Mattings Upholstery Goods
Floor Coverings of all kinds
Write for Samples. Visit our Store when you
Try us on a Mail Order. to the City
New Bargains Every Hour of the Day
SPECIAL
Balance of our ladies spring tailor
made worsted suits are now on
sale at
HALF PRICE
Ladies and Children Ready to Wear Garments a Specialty
"Satisfaction or Your Money Back"