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THE PATHOS i
Indignity of the Ee
"Wife in Marmor
Set ]
Dr. George II. Hepicor,
SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH.-It has
been my privilege to converse with
some plural wives.
There are three classes of them
those who defend the system, or rath
er who pretend to defend it, on physi
ological grounds: those who accept it
just as a woman marries 'for money in
other parts of the world, and whose
person is practically her capital in
trade, from which she acquires ahorne
and pleasant and luxurious surround
ings, and lastly those who regard the
relation as a great .sacrifice of self in
the name of religion, because it is the
revealed will of the Lord, which will
ultimate in a great reward in some oth
er world.
For the first class I have only con
tempt, and find it hard to believe in
their sincerity; for the second class I
have the same feelings that are engen
dered in New York or elswhere when
I know that the bride has bartered her
honor for social position and wealth,
and for the third class I haye so pro
found a pity that I can find no words
to express it.
Polygamy exists in contradiction to
a woman's nature, and some over
whelming motive mu?t be brought to
/"> bear to compel her to submit to it.
( So true is this that ii was many years
after it bad been revealed as a dnty
before the head of the church dared to
make public proclamation of it. Mor
monism had nothing of polygamy in
it during the first few years of its ex
istence.
In 1843 the revelation was made to
Joseph Smith, and it began to be
whispered that the Lord had something
new for his people. When the nature
of this something new was transmitted
from one to another there was not
only excitement but aversion among
the women, and aversion so vehement
that it was not considered safe to re
fer to it in public. The poison wa*- ,
allowed to circulate through the com- \
inanity for nine full years. At the
end of that time it was thought that
the secret leaven had sufficiently lea
vened the whole lump, and then, but
not till then. Brigham Young, who
was then the great genius of Mormon
ism, a very Napoleon, in miniature,
issuei a manifesto, in 1862, so strong
in its language and startling in its
statements that it took the people's
breath away.
The revelation declared that polyg
, amy was to be established among the
faithful. That it was not only an act
of righteousness to take plural wives,
but a command so imperative that, to
quote its language, "if ye abide not
that covenant then are ye damned,
for.no one can reject this covenant,
and be permitted to enter into My
glory."
In spite of the fact that it has the
odor of sanctity about it, polygamy is
pure animalism, and has produced very
little happiness. Of course, this is
denied, bu Ixam profoundly con
vinced of tue truth of both of these
statements.
I have heard of one woman who de
clared she would rather be the wife
of the poorest Mormon in the land
than of the President of the United
States, if he was not a Mormn. I
suspect there is a bit of evasion here,
however. Did she refer to being the
first wife, who never fails toboast that
she is the legal wife, or to the third
or sixth or nirth wife, whose children
even here suffer from the fact that,
while ecclesiastically legitimate,
there is otherwise a half cloud over thc
claim.
I have heard of another Mormon wo
man-I say woman becouse I dou t
lik^ thc word lady-who asserted that
in all her acquaintance she did not
know a single happy polygamous
household. Perhaps these are both
extreme statements, and the truth lies
somewhere between them.
A very significant and very pathetic
story was told me the other day, from
which you can draw jour own inferen
ces concerning this system. A child
of nine years was greatly puzzed by
the relations between her father and
mother, and asked her mother to ex
plain it, but in some way the question
was avoided. Not satisfied, she sought
information elsewhere, but still found I
evasion. When later on she was at
play with a Gentile schoolmate, she
burst into tears and cried out: "I |
don't knofa why it is, but I haven't
any really real papa a-< you have. My
papa only visits mamma once in a
while, and that is all I ever see of
him." As avery g ?od illustration
of family life among these Mor
mons this true incident serves its sad
purpose.
When a young girl in the east mar
ries her lover, there are dreams and
visions and plans in which the two are
all in all to each other. They begin
life that way, and there is romance
and poetry in it; there is also a sa
credness which only the conscionsness
OF POLYGAMY.
lafcions of the [Plural
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of fidejity can afford. Each has thc
whole of the other without auy subdi
vision of affection. Herein lies do
mestic bliss. Not so in Mormon ter
ritory. Thc whole experience takes a
different complexion. If the womau
is thc mau s first wife she is compara
j lively happy, but a black cloud hangs
j over her nevertheless. Another wo
man may at any time intrude and gain
; the affection of her husband,
j If the second is more attractive than
I the first, then thc first suffers neglect
When the number gets to bc six or
seven, with an equal number of estab
lishments to maintain, there is either
domestic despair or pandemonium, and
a painful rivalry as to which can cap
ture the mau and obtain from him the
largest gifts. As to home life, well,
there can he no home life to a man
who has six families. He flits from
one to the other and leaves jealousy
and bitterness in all.
The level on which these things ex
ist is shown by the remark of a young
girl the other day. Pointing to the
residence of a plural wife who seemed
to be well provided for, she said: "I
would rather be the third wife of that
man and have a horse and carriage
than the only wife of a poor man
who would make me do the house
work."
That is the commercial view of mar
riage, but where is the glory of it, the
sanctity of it, the happiness of it?
The marriage certificate is nothing
more than the legal document which
compels a man to support a mistress,
and to issue such a certificate as this
in the name of religion is pure blas
phemy.
There is not a woman on the face of
the earth whom I pity as I do a plural
wife. I mean, of course, a woman
who submits to thc indignity of the
relation from religibus principle. She
has to tear herself all to pieces before
she can pield to it.- Being a woman
she craves all the love her husband
gan give, but it is denied her by the
Lord. She accpts her fate as she
would any other affliction with what
measure of resignation she can corn
command, gives her affection to her
children, educates them as best she
may, sighs her way through life and
eagerly looks forward for some reward
in another world which shall sufficient
ly repay her for her awful sacrifice. I
have had several interviews with cul
tivated Mormon plurals, and I did not
leave them without feeling that a wo
man can do anything, however horri
ble it may be, at the the call of what she
deems her duty.
One woman said to me: "I don't ac
cept plural marriage. A great many,
the majority of Mormons do not. I
suppose I am not exalted as I should
be. I can't be good enough for that.
I don't believe there is a house, not
even a to tu, large enough to hold the
two wives of one man."
"How. then, does it come about?" I
asked.
"Well, if a child is brought up that
way, lives in that atmosphere, she
naturally thinks of nothing else. If
there is a certain moral standard in
the community, you measure yourself
by that standard. If your elder or
bishop tells you that somehing is
right, if it is preached'as a require
mer.t of God from thc pulpit, why,
whom can you trust if not your spirit
ual adviser? And yet in spite of all
that three-fourths of thc Mormon wo
men refuse to be second or third wives.
The younger generation vehemently
repudiates polygamy."
When chatting with another, I said:
"Can several wives be happy under thc
same roof?"'
"I have known of cases," she an
swered. I was intimate in thc family
of Brigham Young when I was in my
teens, and a happier family I never
saw. There was never any bickering
there. But then he was a most
remarkable man, and any woman j
would be glad to own a tenth part of
him."
"Yes, but as a general thing?" I
suggested.
She threw up her hands. "Well,
you have perhaps noticed that the
different wives li ve in diff?rent hous
es. Each has an establishment of her
own. It works better in that way. It
is a law of nature that women don't
like to share their husbands with oth
ers, but if they must do it, they don't
want thc matter brought to their at
tention, as would bc the case if all thc
wives were under one roof."
The two motives which lead to
plural marriages may be illustrated as
follows, if I may be permitted to reit
erate:
A young girl is induced to leave her
home, say io Norway. She has had
to drudge for a living. Her environ
ment here has the charm of novelty.
She has not known any thing of po
lygamy, or has had no appreciation of
the reality. She has a pretty face, is
healthy, wholesome, and therefore at
tractive. Tier knowledge of Mormon
ism is of thc most superficial ch ar ac
ter. Her education in any direction
is slight. She is in a community
where plural marriages arc regarded
as sacred. Her natural abhorrence
gives way before public opinion. Ev
erybody believes it, can it then bc so
bad? She sees plural wives living in
comfort, possibly in luxury. They
are received in society and welcomed
as thc most advanced religionists.
Some man offers her a home. To ac
cept will not hurt, but rather add to
her social standing. Love, of course,
as wc understand it, is out of the
question, and as to conscience, why
not do as others do? Thc conditions
of affairs herc convinces her, and if
later on she has any regrets, and they
often do to my personal knowledge,
why she has taken the step and must
live her life as best she can.
That is one instance. Now for thc
other.
A yoting girl has a profound relig
ious nature. She wants to do some
thing for the Lord. Even martyrdom
has its attractions. She would live
for heaven not for the earth. She is
told that Christ is very soon coming
to the earth to reign, and that souls
are waiting in the other world to be
born into this, that they may take
part in that kingdom. She can assist
them in this noble object, and it is for
this reason that men marry many
wives. She may long for the love of
a husband, for the exclusive right to
him, but duty should come before self
To be sealed to a man, to rear a family
is God's work, and she has been called
to it. She will have the gratitude of
angels if she submits. So, from a
purely religious feeling she surren
ders. Home? That is a secondary
consideration. Happiness? That is
another word for selfishness. Poor
creature she starts at the wrong end of
natural law and reaps tears and sor
rows, but she does her duty and will
be blessed of God.
There are other motives, some worse
than this, but none better. It is indeed
martyrdom.
I can't understand how intelligent
people can think along these lines,
but they do 2nd they think honestly,
too.
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The following was taken from one
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"But now the struggle is over, lean
survey the field and measure the loss
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crossed the threshold of the drunk
ard's office. I had money ample for
all necessities, but it took wings and
went to feed the coffers of thc devils
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might wander, overcame back to them
on thc wings of a father's undying
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and to know her was to love her.
Thirteen " ears we walked the rugged
path vi life together, rejoicing in its
sunshine and sorrowing in its shade.
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spare me this. I had a mother who
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a victim of suffering and disease. Her
choicest delight was reflecting that the
lessons taught at her knee had taken
root in the heart of her youngest boru,
and that he was useful to his fellows
and an honor to her that bore him.
But the thunderbolt oven reached
there and did its most cruel work.
Other days may cure all but this. Ah,
me! never a reproach from these lips;
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crcd on her dear old face; and ouly ;
tender hand laid more lovingly upon
my head; only a closer clinging to thc
cross; only a piteous appeal to heaven
if her cup was not atlast full. And
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