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VOL. 2. YOEKVILLE, S. C., THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 1856. NO. 46.
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THE LIGHT AT IIOHE.
The light at home! how bright it beams
When evening shades around us fall;
And from the lattice far it glenms,
To lovo, and rest and comfort call.
When wearied with the toils of day,
And strife for glory, gold or fame,
How sweet to seek the quiet way,
Where loving lips will lisp our names
Around the light at home.
When through the dark and stormy night,
The wayward wanderer homeward hies:
How cheering is that twinkling light,
Which through the forest gloom he spies.
It is the light at home; he feels
That loving hearts will greet him there,
And softly through his bosom steals
The joy and love that bauish care
Around the light at home.
The light at home! when ere at last
It greets the soaman through the storm;
He feels no more the chilling blast
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Long years upon the sea have lied,
Since Mary gave her parting kiss,
Bat the sad tears which then she shed
Will now be paid with rapturous bliss,
Aroand the light at home.
The light at home! how still and sweet
It peeps from yonder cottage door?
The weary laborer to greet?
When the rough toils of day arc o'er.
Sad is the soal that docs not know
The blessings that the beams impart,
The cheerful hopes and joys that flow,
And lightens up the heaviest heart
Around the light at home.
HOW TO BUY A HOUSE.
"I tell you, my dear, it is utterly impossible
1 Save three hundred dollars a year
out of my salary ? You dou't understand it,"
said Charles Converse to his young wife.
"Perhaps I don't" replied Mrs. Converse,
"but my opinion is very decided."
"Women don't understand these things.
You may think my salary of eight hundred
dollars a year a fortune.'
"No such thing, Charles."
"But eight hundred dollars, let me tell
you, won't buy all the world."
"I had no idea that it would ; yet if you
only had the habit of saving what you spend
for things that you can get along without,
you would be able to build a house in a few
years."
"Build a house ?"
"Yes, build a house, Charles."
"Well, that's a good one ?"
The young man laughed heartily at the
idea?too chimerical, to absurd, to be harbored
for a moment.
"How much do you suppose it cost us to
live last year ?"
" Wbv, eight huudred dollars of course.
It took all my salary ? there is none of it
left."
The young wife smiled mischievously as
she took from her work-table drawer a small
account-book.
"You did not know that I kept account of
all these things, did you ?"
No; but how much is it ?" And Charles
was a little disturbed by the cool way iu which
his wife proceeded to argue the question.
"Four hundred and ninety-two dollars."
answered Mrs. Converse.
"Oh, but, my dear, you have not got half
of it down."
" Yes, I have?everything."
"My tailor's bill was sixty-five dollars."
hnvft it her<v"
"Hat, boots, and "
"I have tliem all."
"The deuce you have ?" r"
"When you had any new thing, you know
I always asked you what you gave for it."
" I know you did; but I will bet five dollars
I cau name a dozen things that you have
not got down."
"Done !" said the lady with a laugh, as
she took from her drawer a five dollar bill,
and placed it on the table.
Char'es Converse covered the money.
"Capital idea for you to bet against me
with my money ?" said he, good-humoredly.
"If I lose, I will do without that new barege
I am to have."
"Nay, my dear, I don't want you to do
that."
"But go on."
"Pew-rent, six dollars," said the husband,
promptly.
"Here it is," answered she, pointing to
the entry in the book. "Try again."
"Season ticket ou the railroad, twenty."
"I have it."
"Sawing the wood."
"Entered."
Charles reflected a moment; the case began
to look desperate."
"Now lining for the cooking-stove."
"Here?two dollars."
"Cleaning the clock."
" One dollar?here it is-"
"My taxes."'
"Well, I have not got that."
But that was the only thing he could mention
of these necessary expenses that was
not found to be regularly entered on his
wife's book. Still Mr. Converse was not
satisfaed.
"Your figures cannot be correct, Mary,"
said he.
"My salary is all used up, and you can'l
account for only four hundred and ninetytwo
dollars of it."
"You must explain the balance."
"I! Why, Mary, I have not been extravagant.
It is true, I buy a great many
little things in tho course of a year, but they
are hardly worth the mention.
" Ah ! there's the mischief. That is where
the money goes, you may depend upon it."
" Nonsense! You women don't understand
these things."
" Of course we don't ?
? Well, your figures show that you don't
Where has the three hundred dollars gone tc
then?"
"I don't know, Charley. I haven't th<
least idea. I am sure that I have got dowi
all the items that came within my knowledge
I am positive that you have brought hom<
no article of any description that has no
boon entered upon the book?I mean the articles
of food and clothing, and tkiugs for
the house-"
"But just look at it for a moment. You
don't mean to say that I have spent three
hundred dollars over and above our necessary
expenses ?" Said Charles, a little warmty
"I don't mean to say anything about it, for
I don't know anything about it."
"Xow I thiuk of it, there's my life
insurance?have you got that down ?"
"I have" not."
"There is forty of the three hundred."
"But it leaves two hundred and sixty-eight
dollars unaccounted for."
"It would take a great while to collect
money enough to build a house, even if the
whole of this sum was saved."
"Not a great while, Charles. You know my
father has promised to give you the land
when you have the means saved to build a
I house unon it."
"It will be a long while," laughed the
husband.
"Five or six years, perhaps, if you are
prudent. Hasn't the president of your bank
promised you a thousand dollars a year?"
"Yes."
"Then you can certainly save four hundred
dollars a year."
"There isa thousand things we want when
my salary is raised."
"But we can do without them."
"I suppose we can."
"Just look here, Charles."
Mrs. Converse took from her pocket a circular
issued from the "People's Savings'
Bank," in which the accumulations of several
small sums deposited weekly and quarterly,
were arranged in a table.
"Fifty dollars deposited overy quarter will
net, in five years, one thousand one hundred
and forty-one dollars and twenty-five cents!"
continued she reading from the circular.
"Bah !" added Mr. Converse.
"That sum would build a very comfortable
house; and when your salary is a thousand
dollars a year you can save more than
fifty dollars a quarter."
"A five percent institution, is'ntit" asked
the young man."
But he was much impressed by the reasoning
of his wife, and in the course of the
evening he carefully read the circular of the
"People's Savings' Bank."
Certainly he had every inducement for being
saving and economical. lie had lived very
cheaply in a small house belonging to his
father-in-law, for which he paid a merely
uominal rent.
His wife's futher was a wealthy farmer, or
rather he had been a fanner, before his domain
was invaded by the march of improvement,
and his pastures and mowing lots laid '
out in into house lots. As it was, he still,
from the force of habit, improved a few acres,
kept a couple of cows, a "henery," and half
a dozen pigs.
Charles Converse found his proximity to
the "old folks at home" rather satisfactory,
in a pecuniary as well as a social point of
view, for his larder was partly stocked from
the farm ; and, of course, no account was
ever made of a barrel of apples or potatoes,
or a pair of chickens. Milk and eggs were
I so much better from "pa's," that of course
the young couple never desired to obtain
them from any other source.
They lived cheaply, and lived in clover besides.
Charles never liked to talk about financial
matters with "pa," because the
worthy old gentleman used to tell how he
lived on a hundred and fifty dollars a year
after he was married?thought he had a fat
salary, and supposed, of course, be saved
four hundred dollars a year out of it?and always
wouud up by saying that he would give
j him a lot?might take his pick out of all
he owned?whenever he got ready to build.
All these things rather worked upon Charles
Converse. He hadn't saved a dollar,
and, what was more, there was no present
prospect that he would ever do so. The
promised advance in salary was already ap!
propriated to sundry luxu^ps. The idea of
'taking Mary to the opera, or a pleasant trip
to the Niagara, and other amiabilities, had
taken possession of him.
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duced a strong impression upon his mind.
She had been brought up in the strictest
habits of'economy. Here father, though
rich, had an army of children ; but they
were all wealthy in their thrifty habits.
Charles read over and over the circular of
the Savings' Bank in the evening, figured
up the statistics, and wondered what had become
of that two hundred and sixty-eight
dollars.
Before he went to bed he had matured a
resolution, though he did not say a word to
his wife about it.
The next day Charles Converse received a
quarter's salary, and his first step was to visit
the People's Savings' Bank where he deposi,
ted fifty dollars.
, But the hundred and fifty dollars which
. he had left burned in his pockets. It was
all he had to carry him through the ensu>
ing three months. There were a dozen litthings
that he wauted, and a dozen big ones
; for that matter. Against the latter he resolutely
set his face, though, in consideration
of the fact that his salary would be a thousand
dollars a year, after the next pay day,
he had a week before made up his mind
r to have them.
Among other things, his cigar case was
empty, and he stepped into Seavy's, in Con!
gress Street, to have it replenished. Segars
were a luxury?in iaoi, a necessity iu uim,
. in his own opinion.
The gcntlemany proprietor of the establishment,
placed a box of the fragant rolls
. upon the counter.
) "Something new/' said he.
Charles took up a handful and smelt them.
3 "Bast segars in the market," continued the
i veuder.
"Tip-top," replied Charles, inhaling the
3 grateful odor. "How do you sell them?"
t "Four cents apiece."
"Six of than wore transferred to the case, <
a quarter thrown down, and as it was not 1
magnanimous to pickup a copper's change, .
he left the store. But then a little fellow
inside seciued to say:
"Charley, you can't afford to smoke such
segars as those. They will hardly last you !
two days If you must smoke buy a cheap- '
er cigar than that. You will not be able to
build your house iu ten years at this rate."
"He did not pay much attention to the
monitorial voice, however, and as he passed
along lie drtfnk a sherry cobblerhituself and
paid for three friends, whom he could not
help asking to drink with him, at Barton's.
" At Vinton's a Charlotte Husse was disposposed
of, and so on to the end of the chapter.
And these were his daily habits. It
was onlv a sixnence. or a ouarter at a time,
y f / - A r
and those so ridiculously siuall that they never
caused him a thought. The idea that
they absorbed any considerable porlion of his
salary, never occurred to him. He had always
gratified his appetite or inclination in
these matters, till they had come to be regarded
as necessities.
Still, Charley Converse had turned over a
new leaf, lie refrained from purchasing a
great many articles which lie had intended
to get when he received his quarter's salary,
and as he seated himself in the cars he
congratulated himself, on the firmness with
which he had carried out the resolu- j
tion of the previous evening.
"You are late, Charlos," said Mary, wheu ^
he reached his sunDy little cottage.
"I have been paying my quarter bills,"
replied he, with a smile. "Here they are,
my sweet accountant."
lie threw the bills upon the table, and 1
while she was examining them he threw his i
bank-book in her face.
"What!" exclaimed she, in astonishment, .
as she saw the book. "Fifty dollars !"
"Yes, my dear, woman's influence?the
influcucc of a wife"?and the husband play- ]
fully kissed her. "I am convicted of sin, j
and converted too, which is better still. I j
am resolved to be prudent, economical, saving,
even parsimonious."
"I am glad to hear it."
"And the house will be built in just five '
years, according to the programme of the
Saving' Bank."
As be spoke, he took from his pocket there
of the city evening papers.
"Not quite cured, Charles," said Mary (
with a smile.
"What do you mean ?"
" Journal, Transcript, and Traveller,
two cents each," laughed Mary. "You are
determined the publishers shall live."
"Why, Mary, you wouldu't have me live
without a newspaper, would you? That
would be a depth of barbarism to which I
would never descend," replied Charles,
with a look of astonishment at the interesting
mentor.
"Certainly not; but is not cnepaper a day
enough?"
"That is but a trifle."
"The rain falls in drops, but washes the
whole earth. Four cents a day, for a year,
amounts to about twelve dollars."
Charles scratched his head. It was a most
astounding revelation to him.
'You are right, Mary, one paper is enough.'
Charles ate hissupper, but was moody and
abstracted. A new idea was penetrntinghis
brain, which, he began to think, had been
rather muddy on financial affairs.
As he rose from the he took cut his cigareasc,
and as he did so, the little fellow within,
who spoken to liini when he came out of
the cigar-shop, began to upbraid him pretty
sharply. lie burned his fingers in attempting
to light the fragrant roll, and then relapsed
into a fit of deep musing.
"What arc you thinking about, Charles ?"
asked Mar)*, after she had cleared away the
tabic.
"Eh ? Oh, I was thinking how much
twelve times three hundred aud sixty-five
yf
arc.
"Twelve means twelve cents, I suppose?"
said she, performing the problem on the margin
of one of the newspapers. "Ilcre it is ?
forty-three dollars and eighty cents."
"For cigars," added he, blankly.
"Which added to the sum paid for superfluous
newspapers, makes fifty-six dollars
and twenty-eight cents."
"And twenty for slutving?which I may do
myself, are seventy-six dollars and twentyeight
cents," continued he, taking the pencil
and ciphering away with all his might for a
few moments.'
" Gleasons's Pictorial, Hume Jou rnal, and
Saturday Courier, and your country paper,
come to "
"But, my dear, we can't do without our
country paper," exclaimed Charles, looking
with amazement into the face of his wife.
"I don't want you to do without that,"
said his wife.
"Sherry-cobblers, ice-creams, and oysters,
over a hundred dollars, by thunder !" continued
he, turning to his figures again.
"Indeed !"
"I begin to see where the two hundred
and sixty-eight dollars have gone to," said
he.
"And sherry-cobblers are worse than use
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less. I naci no idea you a rants, unaries.
"Say no more, Mary; I am done."
And he was done. The idea of "saving
up," something took complete possession of
him?not so far as to make him niggardly?
but far enough to make him abandon the
four-cent cigars, three evening papers, Vinton's
compound, and especially sherry-cobblers.
On the next quarter day one hundred dollars
was added to his deposit at the Savings'
Bank, and as his habits improved afterward,
his salary still further increased, much greater
sums were added.
In four years the house was built, new
furniture bought and paid for, and now
Charles is considered one of the most thrifty
young men in the town?all of which
propitious events, we honestly believe, had
their origin in the Savings' Bank, whose
circular had opened his eyes and stimulated '
liim to carry out his resolution.?Hunt's I
Maxims and Morals for Merchants. ]
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"WHAT IS WOMAN?" ,
We have never seen the question better
inswered than in the subjoiued verses by <
Max," of the Spartanburg Express: j
What 13 woman ? Not a bauble, ]
Lightly to bo toyed and played with ; ,
But a partner of man's bosom,
Whom he goes through light and shade with. !
I
What is woman ? not the creature j
Of a day or joyous hour;
But a Sun beam brightly gleaming,
When the darkest tcmpv>?*:lower. 1
What is woman T JNot the being
Of to-day or of to-morrow, '
But through life the patient sharer <
Of man's sunshine, of man's sorrow. I
What is woman? A fair flower
Whom our gracious God hath planted 1
In this beauteous Earthly garden, * ^
Till in his own palace wanted.
What is woman ? Hark ! the angels <
Come their choral anthem singing,
While the golden bells of heaven,
Loud their joyous chimes are ringing! I
Thus they're singing: She's an angel,
Sent to man from God above him
From the shining courts of glory, I
And her mission is to love him. i
WOMAN'S RIGHTS.
A young southern Lady addresses the fol- ,
owing communication to the Edgefield In- ;
farmer. It is written with much spirit and ;
lisnlnvs n fine ,'innrenifltinn of the onnnhlincr
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luties of woman as wife and mother : ,
"What are Woman's Hioiits ?"?To
itand in the public hall and let her voice,
raised above the lovcd-toued key of home
vibrate through the eagerly listening crowd,
who smile, shrug their shoulders and feel so
comfortable under the knowledge, that, she
is not their wife, sister, or even anybody
with whom they are acquainted. It is fine
sport for them to sit and listen to her, a
stranger, descant upon a nation's affairs, a
subject of which she knows so little that her
half-formed ideas do not even meet with
criticism, contempt, ridicule, and pity, are
the only feelings which woman can excite
is an orator. It is a task for which she is
not fitted, nor indeed ever can be, even
were they to mingle daily in the society of
men, and hear hourly expressed their ever
changing views. No, t/u's is not "Woman's
Right," nor should it ever be her pleasure.
To dress her smiling baby in the morning,
and then feeling that she has discharged her
duty towards it for the day consign it to the
care of a hireling ? Smooth the bright curls
cf her three year old daughter, and send
her off to school, when s^e had so much
rather play in the green shady park and recite
those few easy lessons to her dear mamma?
Hurry off her husband before he has
finished lighting his morning cigar, tell him
as he goes down the steps that he has overturned
her work-box and left his hat brush
upon tho bureau? Give a few hasty and
half intelligible direction to the servants,
then draw down the blinds, and throwing
herself upon a couch, commit her husband,
her children, and her household affairs to
the Goddess of chance, and bury her
thoughts in the contents of some light indifferent
novel !?These arc not 'Woman's
Rights' (for they are trampling upon the
rights of those who arc nearest and dearest
to her heart,) but they are alas too often her
pleasure.
Proud man asserts, that 'Woman' has no
business with political matters, that 'home
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is ner s^pnere. ics, 'iiouiu 1a net spu^m,
and a true hearted woman would wish for no
other; but home is composed of husbands,
brothers, sons, and if she has no business
with these relations in life.
Where is the American wife that does not
wish to be the intelligent companion of her
husband ? or the mother who does not wish
to be the first instructress of her children ?
Where is the wife who had not rather be capable
of entertaining her husband at home, in
preference to having him seek the constant
companionship of his male friends ?
The husband sits down to his table, asks
the blessing of (rod upon his food, and then,
feeling in good spirits, he commences his
dinner and a capital cotton story, both at the
same time; his wife does not much relish
the joke because she cannot understand it,
but she will not be so selfish as to tell him
so, his mind and all its energies arc constantly
devoted to honest labor, and if he talks at
all, he must speak of what he is thinking,
so she raises her eyes now and then to his
face with a half curious, half amused look,
and answers yes or no, at regular intervals,
but sometimes she says yes, when she should
have said no, and then feeling that he has
only been wasting his breath, he pushes his
plate away, with an impatient shaw ! its no
use telling you anything. But cotton is a
dull subject to those whom it does not concern,
there arc matters of deeper import, and
which create a livelier interest even in the
heart of a woman.
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even when it does not, the husband puts on
his slippers and draws his chair up to his
fire-side, evincing by this simple act that his
desire is to spend the evening there. Pie
commences one subject after another, but
his wife has not read 'Harpers,' she has not
seen the last papers, and does not know
what he is talking about?perhaps he has
nothing to read, so 'poor fellow' he must
either listen to the petty annoyances of a
day, slander his neighbors, or mope and do
nothing until bed time. This is a dull way
to spend the evening after all the wearyiDg
vexations of the day's business. The wife
feels it, she looks upon his broad and manly
brow already shaded by lines of care, she
thinks how kind it was of him to spend the
evening with her instead of going out of
doors. She views the broad opening before
her, how easily her influence might bo wielded
for good, and sighs as one opportunity
after another glides past her unimproved
Let the world sneer on the young wife,
but if you love your bnsband seek to make
his home happy ; make his fireside one at
vvhicb lie will love to lin?rer in the Ions: win- <
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ter evening3. He is young now, he is kind, :
loving and true, by your influence he may re- 1
main always so. Remember what he may 1
zomc to through your neglect. <
The inebriate, the vagabond and the scoun- i
ilrel, do not, all at once, descend from their c
proud manhood down to the grovelling platform
of ignominy and crime. He finds no 1
/duality, no entertainment at home, he t
jtcps out for aid and exercise, he drops into t
the public saloons merely for past time; to ?
look on scenes of revelry, may satisfy for a <
(vhile but not long. He, who prayed?'lead i
as not into temptation, but deliver us from i
ill evil,' knew better than any other, how 1
jasily led astray was the human heart. It is ?
lasicr to keep out of the way of temptation t
than to resist it when we meet it face to face.
It it easier to keep the love of a bus- i
band than to win it back. It is easier to ?
retaiu your influence over his mind and hab- <
Its, than to regain it when once it has pas- t
"""JThink
nothing too much trouble or too 1
Lrifling, that will add to your husband's happiness.
If you have not a taste for politics, <
mltivate one, make yourself mistress of all 1
the leading topics of the day, talk with him <
of what interests him, not with yawns and 1
indifference' but let the tone of your voice, <
the light in your eye and the smile upon ?
your lips, express a lively interest in what <
you are saying. Think as well as read, and 1
advance your own opinions, bo they ever so i
weak and humble; man loves superiority and 1
he will take a pleasure in enlighten you.?
It is 'woman's right' to make her husband 1
happy and entertain hira at home, even if
she has to study politics to do it. !
The bright and happy looking school boy ]
who walks so proudly by your side on the 1
Fourth of July, will ask you why that day i
is_honored above others; you can answer
him that?and you take a pleasure in doiog 1
so, but if he is an American boy he will not i
stop at one question ; he will carry you back |
through the past history of your country, 1
and then onward to the future. The mother
cannot grow weary of that bright questionnr
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of giving the first bias to his youthful mind,
and directing his unformed ideas in the
right channel.
It is 'Woman's right' to gain all knowledge
that may help to guide her children
in the path of rectitude and honor, for boys
need sensible mothers now-a-days more than
anything else. Home is indeed 'Woman's
sphere,' but she should not forget how broad
and deep are its boundaries. Sophie.
TELL YOUR WIFE.
'Yes, the only way is, to tell your wife
just how you stand. Show her your balance
sheet. Let her look over the items. You
think it will hurt her feelings. No, it will
not any such thing. She has been taught
to believe that money was with you, just as
little boys think it is with their fathers?terribly
hard to be reached, yet inexhaustible.
She has had her suspicions already. She
has guessed you were not so prosperous as
you talked. But you have so befogged your
money affairs that she, poor thing! knows
nothing about them. Tell it right to her,
that you are living outside of your income.
Take her into partnership, and I'll warrant
you'll never regret it. There may be a
slight shower at first, but that's natural.
Let her see your estimate; when you come
home again she will show you that you have
put her bills too high. True she had rather
a costly bonnet last winter, but it is 'just as
good as ever; a few shillings will provide it
with new strings and refic it a little?the
shape, she says, is almost exactly as they
wear them now.' And you will be surpri
sed to see how much less expensive she can
make your wardrobe. She will surpise you
with a new vest?not exactly familiar, somehow,
looking as if in another shape you had
seen it before?yet new as a vest, and
scarcely costing a dollar where you had allowed
five. Old cravats will experience a
renovation in her hands, coming out so rejuvinated,
that nobody but those who are
let into to the secret would suspect that
they arc old friends in new shapes. The
dressing gown that you were going to buy?
out of what forgotten chest she has gathered
the material you cannot imagine?but there
it is comfortable and warm, and just the
thing you wanted for the long winter evenings
that arc coming on as fast as the almanac
will let them.
You will find a wonderful change in her
tastes and appetite. Whereas, she always
fancied what was a little out of seasons, or
just coming into market?now if beef is
dear, she thinks boiled mutton is delightful
?as tender as chicken. If lambs rise, and
fish are plenty, she thinks a striped bass, or
a friend sole good occasionally.
Before you have thought much about it,
you find yourself spending most of your
evenings too, so full of domestic enjoyment
and fireside pleasures, that you will look
with wonder on the record of last years' expenses,
and marvel that you found time or
relish for the costly entertainments that seriously
taxed your pocket. If, too like
many, your outgoes threaten to exceed your
incomes, be sure and tell your wife of it.?
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ISOt ID a lone or manner mat win leau tier
to think you don't want her to buy what is
really necessary for winter, but just as if
you wanted a counsellor in the day of your
trouble. And if she does not come up,
heart and soul, and most successfully, to
your relief put me down for no prophet.
BE KIND TO YOUR WIFE.
Be kind to your wife. Think how in the
first blush of maiden beauty she turned aside
from the haunts of pleasure, and the caresses
of fond parents and brothers and sisters, to
follow your fortunes through the world.?
Think with what blended hope and agony
you followed her from place to place, watching
her every look, and pondering the meaning
of her most careless tones, until, won by
your importunity, she placed her hand all
trustfully in yours and said, "I am all your
iwn." Think of the cares and anxieties,
ind the physical suffering she has incurred
lor you, aud do not desert her now, when
icr cheek has faded, her step has lost its
elasticity, and she sits an uncomplaining
catcher over your best interests, a self-injarcerated
prisoner in her own home.
Merrily the music sounds, young feet trip
ightly in the mazy dance, and joyous laugher
rings along the walls?but she is not
;herc; the curtain rises aud the far-famed
irtiste comes forth to charm the listening
jrowd with her melodious song?but she is
rot there. The orator arises before his wrapt
ludience, his rich deep tones of eloquence
3oating away along the crowded passages,
ind curliDg upward as a voiced incense
;o the vaulted roof; but she is not there.?
\rt opens her new stores and displays her
vonderful creations on the glowing canvass,
ind in the speaking bust; your wife is a lover
of the chaste and beatiful, but she is not
here; literature presents new leaves, fresh
from the fascinating pen of genius?the vifc
ind mother has but little time to read.
No; there she lingers at home, a Codcommissioned
watcher over helpless childhood
; singing the babe to sleep, bending to
catch the lisping voices of those dear ones
ivho have a thousand imaginary wants, encouraging
the quiet and soothing the fretful.
She is weary, but does not complain, her
:emples throb, but she heeds not their throbbing,
as ever and anon she turns a wishful
glance towards the door, for she expects her
iiusband.
She expects i/ou ; and her whole world of
happiness will be there when you arrive.
Will you enter that room with cold indifference
? Will you utter a hasty word in her
presence? Will you sit down with that
frown upon your countenance, or complain
bf the burdens which t/ou are called to bear?
Will you thoughtlessly remind her of her
faded beautv, or manifest surprise at her ig
norancc of many thinj?3 now parsing in the1
great world from which she has been excluded
by her peculiar duties? Will you suffer
the recollection of any face more youthful,
or more beautiful, to haunt you in home's
hallowed precincts, or cross the white leaf of
conjugal fidelity with one unhallowed
thought ? Oh! remember your early love,
your early promises; think how faithfully
she has kept hers; lo\'e her as you ought,
and she is still beautiful?beautiful in her
pure, motherly affections, her self sacrificing
devotion to you. Realize that she is all
your own ; that throughout the wide world
you are sure of but one heart, whose every
chord is linked invisibly to a counteipart in
yours; realize that upon her bosom alone you
may weep out your sorrows in the day of
* >1, without the fear of beiug mocked.
Husband, love your wife ! Gather her to
your heart of hearts, as if in her were all
your hopes of happiness combined; bless her
daily for her patience and truth; stand up
like a man between her and the rude cold
word, and teach your children to honor her,
that God may honor you. In all the relations
of life there comes a parting hour; and
we beseech you so to live that, if it should
be your lot to kiss her elay-cold lips and lay
her away iu the grave forever, you may lay
your hand honestly Upon your widowed
hearl and say?I never wronged you!?
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Energy.?"The longer I live," says a
great writer, "the more certain that I am
that the great difference between men, the
great and the insignificant, is energy?invincible
determination?an bouest purpose
nnoo fixed, and'then death or victory. That
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quality will do anything that can be done in
the world ; and no talent, no c:rcurastances
no opportunity, will make a two legged crea'ture
a man without it."
THE TOILET AND ITS DEVOTEES.
' Smilingly fronting the mirror alio stands,
Her white fingers loosening the prisoned brown
bands
To wonder at will?and they kiss, as they go,
Hpr brow and her cheek, and her shoulders of
snow,
Hor violet eyes, with their soft changing light,
Growing darker when sad, and when merry more
bright,
Look in at the image, till the lips of the twain
Smile at seeing how each gives the smile back
again."
Doi.n Swift proposed to tax female beauty,
and to leave every lady to rate her own
charms. He said the tax would be cheerfully
paid, and very productive.
The intimate relations between woman's
beauty and her toilet glass, render it impossible
for the fair possessor to be unconscious
of her endowment, and consequently it
would be always at a premium. "We remember
a young surgeon once professed he would
any day prefer a good dissection to a good
dinner; we question his taste, and if the
dinner challenge were presented to us, in
behalf of beauty, we would greatly prefer to
accept it. A good dinner, it is true, makes
its appeal to the hungry, but a vision of
beauty is delectation to the eye, if less substantial,
far more refining.
Beauty is flexible. It appears to us a
dream when we contemplate the works of
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the great artists; it is a novcring, noauug
and glittering shadow, whose outline eludes
the grasp of definition. Mendelson, the
philosopher, grand-father of the composer,
and others, tried to catch beauty as a butterfly,
and pin it down for inspection. They
have succeeded in the same way as they are
likely to succeed with a butterfly. The poor
animal trembles and struggles, and its
brightest colors are gone; or, if you catch
it without spoiling the colors, you have at
least a stiff and awkward corse. But a corse
is not an entire animal; it wants what is essential
to all things, namely, life?spirit,
which sheds beauty on everything.
Lord Bacon observed justly, that the best
part of beauty is that which a picture cannot
express.
Beauty is indescribable and inexplicable;
it fascinates, dazzles, and bewilders us with
its mystic power. Woman has been defined
something midway between a flower and an
angel, as the sunny half of the earth. It
has been well said that woman's beauty dots
not consist merely in what is called a pretty
face. An old lyric writer of the seventeenth
century thus apostrophizes it: J
'There is a garden in her face,
Where roses and white lillies grow;
A heavenly Paradise is that place,
Wherein all pleasant fruits do flow;
These cherries grow, that none may buy
Till 'cherry ripe!' themselves do cry.
"These cherries fairly do enclose
Of orient pearl a double row, *
Which when her lovely laughter shows,
They look like rosebuds filled with snow;
Yet these no peer, no prince, may buy,
Till 'cherry ripe!' themselves do cry.
"Her eyes, like angels, watch them still;
Her broTrs, Itk* b?n<l?ct bows, do stand, ?
Threatening, with piercing frowns, to kill
All that approach with eyes or hand
Those sacred cherries to come nigh,
Till 'cherry ripe!' themselves do cry."
"Women are the poetry gf the world, in
the same sense as the stars are the poetry of
heaven. Clear, light giving, harmonious,
they are the terrestrial planets that rule the
destinies of mankind."
"I saw her, upon nearer view,
A spirit, yet a woman, too,
Her household motiona light and free,
And steps of virgin liberty;
A countenance in which did meet
Sweet records, promises as sweet,
A creator, not too bright or good
For human nature's daily food,
For transient sorrows, simple wiles,
Traise, blame, love, kisses, tears and smiles."
Wordsworth's charming portraiture of
womanly sweetness is worthy alike of the
subject and the writer; it is doubtless familiar
to the reader.
Another pen has dilated upon it in prose,
as followeth:
"Those who arc accustomed to enlightened
views of female beauty well know that <
there are different kinds of personal beauty,
among which that of form and coloring hold
a very inferior rank. ' C
"There is a beauty of expression for idv.
stance of sweetness, of nobility, of intellectual
refinement, of feeling, of ar imation, of
meekness, of resignation, and many other
kinds of beauty which may be allied to the
plainest features, and yet may remain to
give pleasure long after the blooming cheek
has faded, and silver gray has mingled with
the hair. And how far more powerful in *
their influence upon others, are some of those
kinds of beauty. For, after all, beauty de-.
pends more upon the movement of the face,^ ' ,,
than upon the form of features when at rest; 'A
and thus, a countenance habitually under
the influence of amaible feelings, acquires a
beauty of the highest order, from the frequency
with which such feelings sfre the .
originating causes of the movement or expressions
which stamp their character upon
it. "Who has not waited for the first opening
of the lips of a celebrated belle, to see
whether her claims would be supported by
'the mind, the musio breathing from her
face ?' and who has not occasionally turnod
away repelled by the utter blank which the
simple mcvement of the mouth in speaking
or smiling has revealed ?
"The language of poetry describes the
loud laugh as indicative of the vulgar mind;
and certainly there are expressions, conveyed
through the medium of a smile, which
need not Lavater to inform us that refinement
of feeling or elevation of soul, has little
to do with the fair countenance on which
they are impressed. On the other hand,
there are plain women sometimes met in society,
'every movement of whose features is
instinct with intelligence; who, from the
genuine heartTwariu smiles which play about
the mouth, the sweetly modulated voice,
and the lighting up of an eye, that looks as
if.it could comprehend the universe, becomes
perfectly beautiful to those who live with
them and love them. Before such pretensions
as these, how soon does the pink-andwhite
of a merely pretty face1 vanish to nothing
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Among the many tributes to beauty is an
old epigram, that may be new to some. It
runs as follows:
"The world's a prison, a sad gloomy den,
Whose walls are the heavens to common;
The jailor is Sin, and the prisoners men,
And the fetters are nothing bnt women."
Fontenelle thus daintily compliments the
sex when he compares women and clocks?
the latter serve to point out the hours, the
former to make us forget them.
LAST ISLAND SUFFERERS.
Extract from a letter written by a lady residing
near Last Island, Louisiana. "People
are recovering in a measure -from the effeots
of the storm. There never was seen in the
world a more awful calamity. You would
hardly credit what I could tell you concerning
it. Oue of the rescued dined with us
the other day?a Mr. It., who had been given
up as lost irrecoverably. A reward was #
offered for his body, and friends mourning
for him, when by the strangest chance he
was discovered. He had floated upon a billiard
table and landed upon the marshes,
which, on this coast, are as uninhabitable as
the sea itself. There for ten days he subsisted
on snails and one dead rat, which came
swimming along too. There, in the blazing
August sun?not a tree for miles and miles,
not a shrub?nothing but the impassable
and impenetrable caue brake, he survived
every horror, and lived on lice
In the providence of his unsearchable Maker,
he was sought out by one solitary fishing
boat and re~cued hy its humane master,
who doubtless, m the generosity within
: mm, naci ocen cruising odouc in tne nope 01
doing some chance good. The scene which
occurred upon his unexpected arrival home,
; was truly affecting. The news reached
home a few moments before his own landing,
when every negro rushed from the plantation,
some jumped into the bayeu and-swam
to meet the boat. They shouted, nay, laughed,
danced, and seized their master by the
feet, legs, arms, neck and hands, kissed him
wherever they could touch hira, he kissing
them in return. Atlast the oveijoyed creatures,
elevating him upon their shoulders, ~
carried him off in triumph to the house. I
thought to myself, could Henry "Ward
Beecher, his sister and all his relatives, do
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