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I hold Hm great who, for love's sake,
Can give with generous, earnest will;
Yet he who takes for love's sweet sake
I think I hold more generous stilL
I bow before the noble mind
That freely some great wrong forgives;
Yet nobler is thoane forgiven
"Who bears that burden well and lives.
It may be hard to gain, and still
To keep a lowly, steadfast heart;
Y'et he who loses has to fill
A harder and a truer part.
Glorious it is to wear the crown
Of a deserved and pure success;
He who knows how to fail has won
A crown whose lustre is not less.
Great may be ho who can command
And rule with just and tender sway;
Yet is diviner wisdom taught
Better by him who can obey.
"? ai ?1.. .1!. r?
iiiesse<i are tuey wuu me ivr uim i
o Ajul earn the martyr's crown of light;
Yet he who lives for God may t>e
A greater conqueror in his sight.
?Adelaide 1'roctor.
RELIGIOUS READING.
Revelation by Degrees.
eternal God i.s never in a hurry. A
gradual development is the divine order. J
Keveiation is not a Jonah's gourd, rising
?p in the night; rather it is like the oak,
Tor it takes ages to grow. The old preach- ,
ens said, "Jlevelafciou began in Eden, had I
its centre point at Calvary, and has its
end In Eternity." The Old Testament j
runs into the New; it is a whole; they (
harmonize. We read that in Heaven
they have the song of Moses and of the
Lamb, for these songs harmonize. The
harmony of the songs they sing there is
a proof of how well they harmonize here.
There is a gradual development; and this
runs through all the works of God.
First there was chaos. The world did
not reach its present state in a few years.
It has taken many ages for the world to
become as we see it to-day?its lields |
covered with flowers; its woods tilled
with the singing of birds and butterflies
with rainbow-tinted wings lloating
through the summer air. One glory
made way for another.
Man was created in due timo. Creation 1
is a growth. A flower does not open and '
grow up in a day. First the stem, then
the bud, and then the flower. Man is
not born full-grown-, his is a gradual
growth, a gradual development. Yet
man must play through his programme
in a few years, or death will step in and
stop him; but God has all ages for his
plans. A thousand years with him are
but as a day.
We find the same gradual development
in intellectual and moral things. We
grow step by step. Education grows
slowly?line upon line, precept upon prccept,
a little at a time. First a picture
book, then a book with pictures and a
little reading; and we must ever noiu-a
higher book before the child. It is so in J
revelation. There were 4000 years between
the first Adam and the second
Adam. God was powerful enough to
have brought them close together. Why
not have placed the garden of Gethsem- .
ane close to the garden of Eden? Why I
should not the Saviour's feet have trodden J
the earth in the first century? Thus we ;
see the God of our redemption and the
Clod of the world is one and the same. j
There is the same slow and gradual j
progress. Our haste aud our little reck- j
onings are as nothing to God; he is '
never in a hurry?he sees the end from
the beginning. The march of the Israelite
mi?rlit. h.-Lve takmi onlv a few months
from Egypt to Canaan; but God led i
tbem by a path that made the journey |
occupy forty years. Christ lived thirty
years before he worked one miracle.
Peter wanted to go out at once to preach
(how great the need of it!), but Jesus >
said, "Tarry ye at Jerusalem." "Tarry." '
Redemption is slow, even as the rocks
and hills were slowly prepared for man's
habitation. Thank God, it was so!
Why? A full-orbed redemption would
have overwhelmed us. God holds himself
back because of our weakness. We
could uot bear a vision of his splendor.
If/N/ino Ann /"loir ^Sl^AMT mA tllTT
JTIUSCO 0<llu V/l IV U(U J iiiu v?j j
glory." God placed hiin in a cleft of the I
rock; lie could not bear a full view of I
God's glory. Thank God for the cleft j
in the rock. How weak we are in j
presence of heavenly splendor! Remera- |
ber Daniel says that on beholding the \
vision, "there remained no strength in
me"?he had lost his breath. John, on
seeing the "seven golden candlesticks,
and in the midst of them one like unto
the Son of man," "fell at his feet as
dead.." We cannot bear a full revelation
of God's glory. The Bible is not yet exkausted
of all its teachings and truths.
"Our little systems have their da}-,
Thev have their dav and eease to be:
They aro but broken lights of Thee,
ATi.l Thou, 0 Lord, art more than they."'
?liev. Oman Uavics.
If thou hast not mercy for others, yet
be not cruel unto thyself. To ruiuiuate
upon evils, to make critical notes upon
injuries, and to be acute in their apprehensions,
is to add unto our own tortures,
to feather the arrows of our enemies,
to lash ourselves with the scorpions
of our foes, and to resolve to sleep 110
more; for injuries long dreamt on take
away all rest; and lie sleeps but like
Refill us, who busieth his head about
them.?Sir Thomas Browne.
A lesson comes home to every preacher
and every teacher, in a fact rceorcleU by
Dr. Vincent in his "Personal Memories
of General Grant." The first knowledge
the Galena preacher had of liis hero
hearer, was when a strange face, away
from his home, looked up to him, with
the words: "I hear you preach, Mr. Vin^niwlMr
T 1 i in
and my name is Grant." Even then the
full import of these words did not enter
the preacher's mind. He may have felt
that his lifld was a small one; that his
congregation was not one of commanding
influence. And had lie been asked
to pick out the most important member
of his charge, he would not have thought
to name the unpretending parishioner,
who greeted him in the hotel office at
Dubuque that Sunday morning. Yet
that was in the winter of 1859-60, on the
very verge of those events which lifted
that quiet church goer into a sphere of
world-wide eminence, llow easy it is
to undervalue our privileges of influence!
How easy to fail of apprehending tlie
possibilities of those who are committed
to our charge!?Sunday-School Times.
The Chicago Intcr-Occan says: "The
prosent Congress will be called upon to
regulate the liquor-traffic at the national
capital. There are thirteen hundred saloons
in Washington, and they entail a
heavy tax upon the people, while the saloons
escape paying any just portion of
it. The iiccnsc-m'.c should be quadrupled
and one-half the saloons closed." It
should be the business of Congress not to
"regulate" on the "high-license" or any
o*ier plan of liquor-traffic in the national
capital,but to it.
DR TALMAGE'S SERIN.
DUTIES OF WIVES TO HUSBANDS.
The seventh in the series of Dr. Talmage's i
sermons on the "Marriage Ring" was i
preached upon the subject of the "Duties !
of Wives to Husbands."
The text was: "The name of his wife was
Abigail, and she was a woman of good understanding
and of a beautiful couuteuanco."
?I. Samuel, xxv., y.
The ground in Carmel is white?not '
with fnllpri snow, but the woul from
the backs of three tlioasaud sheep, j
for they are being sheared. And I |
hear the grinding of the iron blades together i
and the bleating of the flocks, held botween !
the knees of the shearers while the clipping ,
goes on. and the rustic laughter of the work- !
men. Nabal and his wife Abigail preside j '
over this homestead. David, the warrior, j J
sends a delegation to apply lor aid at this ! 1
prosperous time of sheep-shearing, and Nabal ! 1
pereuiptoi ilv declines liis request. Revenge j j
is the cry. Yonder over the rocks come David
and four hundred angry men with one stroke j
to demolish Nabal and his sheep-folds and j J
vineyards. The regiment march in double ;
quick and the stones of the mountain loosen j 1
and roll downasthe soldiers striko them with > 1
th >ir swift feet, and the cry of the commander {
is Forward! Forward! ;
Abigail, to save her husband and his prop
erty, hastens to the foot of the hills, bhe is j '
armed not with sword or spear, but with :
h r own beauty and self-sacrifice, and
when David sees her kneeling at the base of 1
the crag he cries to his storm of men, "Halt! ,
Halt!1' aud the caveous echo it, "Halt! j
Halt!" Abigail is the conqueress! One j
woman in the right mightier than 400 men in j
the wrong. A hurricane stopped at the sight ! J
of a water-lily. A dew-drop dashed back i Niagara.
By "her prowess and tact she has ' !
saved her husband and saved her home, and j '
put before all ages an illustrious specimen of ) 1
what a wife can do if she bo godly and pru- 1 1
dent and seif-sacriticing and vigilant aud de- j 1
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tractive.
As Sabbath before last I took the responsi- I 1
bility of telling husbands how they ought to j 1
treat thv'ir wives, and though I noticed that ( 1
some of them squirmed a little in their pew, ; '
they endured it well, I now take the re- ;
sponsibility of telling how wives ought to !
treat their husbands. I hope your domestic
alliance was so happily formed that while 1
married life may have revealei :
in him some frailties that you did not tus- i 1
pect, it has also displayed excellencies that j 1
more than overbalanced them. I suppose j J
that if I could look into the hearts of a hun- ; '
dred wives here present ;.nd ask them where j 1
is the kindest ana best man they know of, and J
they dared speak out, ninety-nine out of a I 1
iiunareu 01 tnem \\ouiu say ui tae uiiiei enu <
of this pew." Though sometimes you may j 1
have snapped each other up a little quick, I !
thiuk the most of you are as well paired as a j 1
couple of whom I have read. The wife said 1
to her husband: "I have ma le up my mind 1
to be submissive notwiths.anding all the mis- '
fortunes that have come upon us." They had 1
lo?t their children, he had lost his health, and 1
hence the income of his profession, and the :
WLfe had temporarily lost her eyesight
"Yes," said the husbaud. "we ought !
ta be submissive. Let mo see what ;
we have to submit to: First,we have a home;
we can submit to that. Then we have each
other; we can submit to that. Then we have | ,
food and raiment; we can submit to that
Ihen we have a great many friends; we can \ ;
submit to that. We have a heavenly Father |
to provide for us?" "Stop! Stop!" said the ! 1
wife, "I will talk no more about submis- j 1
sion." I
I hope, my sister, you have married a man
as Christian and as well balanced as that. '
But even if you were worsted in conjugal ! j
bargain, you cannot be worse on tnan tms >
Abiga 1 in my text. Her husband was coarse j !
and ungratelul and inebriate, for on the very i !
evening after her heroic achievement at the j
foot of che hill where sho c aptured a whole j '
regiment with her genial and strategic behavior,
she returned h<,me and found her j
husband so drunk that she could not j J
tell him the story, but had to I 1
postponed it until the next day; so, my sister, {
I do not want you to keep saying within 1
yourself as I proceed. ''That is the way to |
treat a perfect husband," for you are to re- j
member that no wife was ever worse swindled !
than this Abigail of my text. At the other
end of her table sat a mean, selfish, snarling,
contemptible sot, and if she could do so well
for a dastard how ought you to do with that ! 1
princely and splendid man with whom you j
are to walk the path of life.
First I counsel the wife to remember in !
what a severe and terrific battle of life her j
husband is engaged. "Whether in professional i
or commercial or artistic or mechanical life \
your husband from morning to night is in a i '
Solferino if not a Sedan. It is a wonder that !
your husband has any nerves or patience or !
suavity left. To get a living in this next to !
the last decade of the Nineteenth Century is a j '
straggle. If he come home and sit down pre- j
occupied you ought to excuse him. If he do | ;
not feel like going out that night for a walk
or entertainment remember he has been out ] ;
all day. You say he ought to leave at his place
of business his annoyances and come home
cheery. But if a man has been betrayed by J
a business partner or a customer has jock- ! '
eyed him out of a large bill of goods,or a protested
note has been flung on his desk or
somebody has called him a liar and every
thin^ has gone wrong from morning till '
nignt, he must have great genius at forgetfulness
if he do not bring some of tfce perplexity
home with him. When you tell mo he ought i !
to leave it all at the store or bank or shop, ! ;
you might as well tell a storm on the Atlantic !
to stay out there and not touch the coast or j ;
ripple the harbor. Remember he is Dot '
overworking so much for himself as he is I
overworking for you and the children. It is 1
the effect of his success or defeat on the 1
homestead that causes him the agitation. The
most of men after forty-five years of age live
not for themselves but for their families.
They begin to ask themselves anxiously the
question: "How if I should give out, what
wouid become of the folks at nome? Would |
my children ever get their education? Would i
my wife have to go out into the world to earn i
bread for herself and our little ones? My I '
eyesight troubles me, how if iny eyes should j 1
fail? My head gets dizzy, how if I should j
drop under apoplexy?" I'be high pressure of \ \
business life and mechanical life and agricul- \ ,
tural life is home pressure. Some
time ?go a large London firm decided j
that if any of their clerks mix- j
rial on a salary less than I
1"if} ri/Minrlc tVint. S7.VI n vnnr lift shnnlfi lift 1
discharged, the supposition being that the
t m tation might be too groat for misappro- i
pr.atiou. The iarpe majority of families in
Amurica live by the utmost dint of economy,
and to be honest and yet meet one's family '
ex| en-os is the appalling question that turns
the 1 fe of tens of th msatuls of men into a , :
martyrdom. I>et tho wife of the ovcrbourne 1
andechaus'el husband remember tb'.s, and j
do not nag him about this and nag him about j
that, and say you might as well have no bus- | .
I and, when the fact is he is dying by inches j ;
thit the home may be kept up.
i charge also the wife to k.'ep herself as at- j (
tra tive alter marriage as she was before 1
ma: ria^:e. The reason that so often a man
ceases to love his wife is because the wife j
ceases to be lovely. In many cases what elabo- i
ration of toilet before marriage, and what I
recklessness of appearance after. The most |
disgusting thing on earth is a slatternly |
woman. I mean a woman who never combs j j
h< r hair until she goes out or looks like a <
fright until somebody calls. That a man mar- j '
ried to one of these creatures stays at home
as little as possible is no wonder. It is a j J
wonder that such a man does not go on a |
whaling voyage of three years and in a leaky i
ship. Costly wardrobe is not required, but,
o)i, woman, if you are not willing, by all tl at
ingenuity of refinement can effect to make
yourself attractive to your husband, you \
ought not to complain if he seek in other society
those pleasant surroundings which you 1
deny him
Again I charge you, never talk j
to others about the frailties j
of your husband. Some people have a way
in banter of elaborately describing to others
tno shortoominfrs or unhannv exceutrieities of
a husband or wife. Ah, the world will find
out soon enough all the defects of your comSanion;
no need of your advertising them,
letter imitate those women who,having made i
mistake in affiance, always have a veil to j
hide imperfections and alleviations of con- j
duct to mention. We must admit that there
are rarecas^ where a wife cannot live longer !
with her husband, and his cruelties and out- |
rage- a e the precursor of divorcement, or j
se> arat:on. But until that day corner keep |
the awful secret to yourself. Keen it from
ev?r7 bein1* in the universe except
the <Tod to whom you do well to tell your
trouble. Trouble only a few years at mo:-t,and
then yen go up on the other side
of the grave and say: Oh Lord, I kept lha
marital secret. Thou knowest how well I
kept it, and I thank thea that the release has
come at last. Give me some place where I
can sit down and rest awhile from the horrors
of an embruted earthly alliance before I begin
the full raptures of Heaven. And orders
will be smt out to the usher angels saying;
"Take this Abigail rightup to the softest sent;
in the best room of the palace, and let twenty
of the brightest angels wait on her for the
next thousand years!"
Further, I charge you let there be no outside
interference with the conjugal relation.
Neither neighbor, nor confidential friend, nor
brother, nor sister, nor father, nor mother
have a right to come in here. The married
gossip will come around and by the nour reu |
you how she manages her husband. You
tell her plainly that if she will attend to the
affairs of her household you will attend to
yours. What damage some people do with
t&eir tongue! IS'ature indicates that the
tongue is a dangerous thing by the fact that
it is shut in, first by a barricade of toeth and
then by the door of the lips. One insidious
talker can keep a whole neighborhood badly
stirrerl up. The apostle Peter excoriated
bhess busy bodies in other people's matters,
and St. Paul, in his latter to the Thesmloniaus
and to Timothy, gives tbom a sharp
iig, and the good housewife will be on the
r?n!,-nn<- f--?r +vi?ti an 1 n?'*e" r?*t,nrn their el's
a id treat them with coldest frigidity. Fop
in.snasuu Letter Keep house as soon as possible.
Some people are opposed to them,
but I thank God for what are
:ailed flats in these cities. They put a
separate home within the means of nearly all
the population. In your married relations
pou do not need any advice. If you and
your husband have "not skill enough to got
lion? well alone, with all tho a lvi ce vou can
import you will get along' worse. "What you
waut for your craft on this voyage is plenty
of sea room.
I charge you also make yourself the intelligent
companion of your husband. What
with those floods of newspapers and books
there is no excuse for the wife's ignorauce
either about the present or the past. If you
have no more thau a half hour every day to
yourself you may fill your mind with entertaining
and useful knowledge. Let the merchant's
wife read up on all mercantile*
questions and mechanic's wife on all
that pertains to his style of work,
and the professional man's wife on all the
legal or medical or theological or political
discussions of the day. It is very stupid for
a man, after having been amid active minds
all day, to find his wife without information
or opinions on anything. If the wile knows
nothing about what is going on in the world,
after the tea hour has passed or the husbaud
has read the newspaper he will have an engagement
and must go and see a man. In
nine cases out of ten when a man docs not
stay at home in the evening unless positive
iutv calls him away it is because there is
nothing to stay for." Ho would rather talk
ivitk his wife than any one else if she could
talk as well.
I charge you, my sister, in every way
bo make your home attractive. 1 have I
not enough of practical knowledge
about house adornment to know just what
makes the difference, but here is an opulent
bouse containing all wealth of bric-a-brac,
and of musical instrument, and of painting,
and of upholstery, and yet there is in it a
chill like Nova Zombla. Another house with
one-twentieth part of the outlay and small
supply of art and cheapest piano purchasable,
and yet as you enter it there comes upon
body, mind and soul a glow of welcome and
satisfied and happy domesticity. The holy
art of making the most comfort anl brightness
out of the means afforded, every wife
should study.
At the siege of Argos Pyerhus was killed
by the tile of a roof thrown by a woman, and
Abimelech was slain by a stone that a
woman threw from the tower of Thebez,
ind Karl Montfort was destroyed by
i rock discharged at him by a
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woman irom tno wans 01 iouiuuse. i>uk
without any weapon save that of her cold,
:heerless household arrangements, any wife
may slay the attractions of a home circle. ,
;A wife and mother in prospered circumstances
and greatly admired, was giving her
chief time to social life. The husband spent
his evenings away. The son, fifteen years of
ago, got the same habit, and there ^as a
prospect that the other children, as they got
old enough, would take the same turn. One
day the wife aroused to the consideration that
she had better save her h us ban I and her boy.
Interesting and Stirling games were intr<>
dueed inio the house. The mother studied
up interesting things to tell her children. One
morning thosou stud: "Father, you ought \
to have been home last night. We
had a grand time. Such jolly games and i
such interesting stories." This went on from
night to night, and after a while the husband
stayed in to see what was going on, and he (
finally got attracted and added something of
his own to the eveninsr entertainment, and
t he result was thai the wife and mother saved
her husband and saved her boy and saved
herself. Was not that an enterprise worth
the attention of the greatest woman that I
ever lived since Abigail, at the foot of the j
rock, arrested the hundred, armed warriors? '
Do not, my sister, bo di.zzied and disturt>ed
bv the talk of thosa who think the homo cir- j
lie too insignificant for a woman's career, |
and who want to get you out on plat
frrrms and in conspicuous enterprises, j
There are women who have a special
outside mission and do not dare to interpret
me as derisive of their important mis- 1
sion. But my opinion is that the woman who
can reinforce her husband in the work of life i
and rear her children for positions of useful- )
ness is doing more for God and the race and !
her own happiness than if she six)ke o:a every
great platform and headed a hundred great |
enterprises. My mother never made a mis- )
sionary speech in her life and at a missionary !
meeting i doubt whether she could have got |
enough courage to vote aye or no, but she !
raised her son John, who has been preaching j
the gospel and translating religious literature j
in Amoy, China, ior about forty years. Was j
not that a better thing to do?
Compare such an out) witn one 01 tnese aie- i
away, attitudinizing, frivolous, married co- |
quettes of the modern drawing room, her
heaven an opera box on the night of Meyerbeer's
"'Robert ,!e Diable," the ten commandments
an inconvenience, taking arsenic
to improves her complexion and her appearance,
confused result of belladonna, bleached
hair, antimony and mineral acids, until one is
compelled to discuss her character and wonder
whether the line between a decent and
indecent life is, like the equator, an imaginary
line.
What 'the world wants now is
about 50,000 old-fashioned mothers,
women who shall realize that the
highest, grandest, mightiest institution
on earth is the home, it is not necessary
that they should have the same old-time
manners of thei country farm house or wear
the old-fashioned cap and spectacles and
apron th it her glorified ancestry wore, but I
mean the old spirit which began with the
Hannahs and the mother Lois and the Abigails
oi' scripture days and was demonstrated
on the homestead ?vhere some of us were
reared, though the old hous3 long ago was
pulled down and its occupants scattered
uever to meet until in the higher home that
awaits the familes of the righteous. "VVhilo
there are more good and fa.thtul wives and
mothers now than there ever were, society
(ins got n wrong twist on this
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abroad that would inake women believe that
their chief sphere is outside instead of inside
the home.
Hence in many households children instead !
3f a blessing are a nuisance. It is card erase '
versuschild's primer, carriage versus cradJe, !
social popularity versus domestic fidelity.
Hence infanticide and nnte-nntal murder so
onimon that all the physicians, allopathic,
hydropathic, homeopathic and eclectic are
trying out in horror and it is t m3 that the
pulpits joined with the medical profession in
echoing and re-echoing the thunder of Mount
Siuai which says "Thou shalt not kill,'' and
the Hook of Revelations which says "All murderers
shall have their places in the lake which
burnoth with fire and brimstone." And the
man or the woman who takes life a minute
old will as certainly go straight to hell as the
mau or woman who destroys life forty years
old. An;l the wildest, loudest shriek of the
judgment day will lie given at tho overthrow
of those who moved in the high and respected
circles of earthly society yet decreod by their
own act as far as they could privately affect
it, tho extermination of the advancing generations.
Mighty God! Arrest the evil that is
overshadowing this century.
I charcre vou, my sieter, that you take your
husband" along with you to heaven/ Of
course this implies that you yourself are a
Christian. I must take that for granted. It
cannot be possible that after what Christianity
Jias done for woman and after talcing the
infinitely responsible position you have assumed
at the head of the household that you
should be in a positi >n antagonistic to Christ.
It was not a slip of the tongue when I spoke
of you as being at the head of the household.
We men rather pride ourselves as being at the
head of the household, but it is only a pleasant
delusion. To whom do the children go
when they have trouble? When there is a
sore finger to be bound up or one of the first |
teeth that needs to be removed to make way '
for the one that is crowding it oat, to whom |
does the child go. Far whom do children i
cry out in the night when they get frightened
at a bar! dream? Aye, to
whom does the husband go, when he has a
business trouble too great or too delicate for
outside ears? "VVe, the men, are heads of the
household in name, but you; oh,wives! are the
heads of the household in fact, and it is your
business to take your husband with you into
the kingdom of (rod and see that house pre
pared for Heaven.
You can do it! Of cou-se God's almighty
grace alone can convert him, but you are to
Be the instrument. Some wives keep their
husbands out of heaven and others garner
them for it If your religion, oh, wife, is
simply the joke of the household, if you would
rather go tc the theatre than the
prayer meeting, if you can beat
all the neighborhood in progressive
euchre, if your husband never sees you kneel
at the bedside in prayer before retiring, if
the only thing that reminds the family of
your church relations is, that on communion
day you you get home late to dinner, you
will not be able to take your husband to
heaven, for the simple reason that vou
will not get there yourself. But
I suppose that your religion is
genuine, and that the husband realizes there
is in your soul a divine principle, and that
though you may be naturally quicker tempered
than he is, and have many imperfections
tuat distress you more than they can
auy one else, still you are destined for the
skies when the Drief scenes of this life
are over. How will you take
him along with you? There are two oars to
that boat?prayer and holy, example.
"But," you say, "he belongs to a worldly
club, or h9 does not believe a word of the
Bible, or ho is an inebriate and very loose in
ms names." >v oat you ten me me snoivs
that you don't understand that while you
are at the one end of a prayer the omnipotent
God is at the other end, and it is simply a question
whether Almightiness is strong enough
and keeps his wqrd. [I have no doubt there
will be great conventions in Heaven called
for oelobrative purposes, and when, in some
celest'al assemblage the saints shall be telling
what brought them to God, I believe
that ten thousand times ten thousand
will sny, "My wife."
I put bes:de each other two testimonies of
men concerning their wives and let you see
the contrast. An aged man was asked the
reason of his salvation. With tearful emotion
he said: "My wife was brought to God
some years before myself. I persecuted
and abused her because of
her religion. She, however, returned
nothing but kindness, constantly manifesting
anxiety to promote my comfort and happiness,
and it was her amiable conduct when
suffering ill-treatment from me that first sent
the arrows of conviction to my soul." The
other testimony was from a dying man:
"Hnrriet, I am a lost man. You opposed our
family worship and my s ecret prayer. You
drew me away into temptation and to
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nfgiocc every rengiuus uuuy. x ueuwve my
fate is sealed. Harriet, you are the cause of
my everlasting: ruin."
As you stood in the village or city church,
or in your father's house, perhaps under a
wedding bell of flowers, to-day stand up,
husband and wife, beneath the cross |
of a pardoning Redeemer, while I
proflaim the banns of an eternal
marriage. Join your right hands. I pronounce
you one forever. What God hath
joined together let neither life, nor death, nor
time, nor eternity put asunder. "Witness men
and angels, all worlds, all ages! The circle is
an emblem of eternity, and that is the shape
of the marriage rinjf.
POPULAR SCIENCE.
A butterfly?a creature supposed to
live at most onljr two or three days?was
last year kept alive in a glass cage in .England
for 121 days, its age at confinement
being unknown.
A well-known writer tells of seeing
thousands of small fish migrating across
land from one lagoon to another, in tropical
America. He says they moved as
deliberately and as unconcernedly as
though they had been accustomed to the
overland route all their lives.
Experience on French railways has
shown that the double poppy is the best
plant at present known for cansolidating,
by the interlacing of its roots, the loose
soil of an embankment. The usual
grasses and clovers develop slowly, but
the double poppy grows enough in two
weeks to give some protection to the
slone. and within three or four months
I T ( t
its roots, ten or twelve inches long, retain
the earth far more firmly than those of any
grass or grain.
With a lens made of rock salt it may
be possible to photograph in the dark!
The Photographic Nem states that Abncy
has succeeded in preparing plates which
are sensitive to the rays lying beyond the
red end of the spectrum?the dark heat
rays?and with such plates U9ed with a
rock salt lens there should be a possibility
of photographing bodies which possess a !
high temperature, although that tempera- |
ture may be far below that needed to
render them self-luminous.
TViprp r>nn hp. lit.fclfi doubt th: t the Dike
vv"* " ~ - i
is decidedly an exception to the rule that
fish have little or no intelligence. Even
the size of his brain is worthy of respect.
Its proportionate size, as compared to the
rest of the body, is as 1 to 1,300; in'the
shark, whose intelligence has so often
been vaunted, it is only as 1 to 2,500;
while in the tunny it is but as 1 to 3,700.
The only thing that dulls the pike's intelligence
is his greed; but even this may
perhaps only be caused by an overweening
oonfidenee in his own gastric !
juices. Like many other voracious ani- j
mals, to swallow seeihs to be his only
joy; palate he has little or none.
A new American process for rapidly
drying timber, hides, wool, grain, and
other substances surcharged with moisture,
has been attracting considerable attention
in England. It is called the cooldry
air process, and consists in passing
through the chamber containing the moisture-laden
material a continuous current
of furnace-dried air having a tcm{)craturc
between eighty and ninety degrees Fahrenheit.
The moisture is absorbed by
the air in so remarkable a manner that
oak logs arc reported to have been tin
ished in nine days, although natural dry- |
ing would have required three or four j
years. The temperature is so moderate
that delicate fibres, fabrics and chemicals
tre not injured.
Fifty Years Ago.
A stray copy of the Christian Advocate
and Journal and Z ion's Herald gives a
strange glimpse of the world in 1832. It
is dated August 10. Cholera raged in
New York, and carried off one hundred
persons a day. A subscriber in Edinburgh,
Scotland, complains of the postal
authorities, who fo detained his papers
that seven copies came to him at once,
for which he was charged ?1 lis. lOd.
postage. A little colony had daringly
departed for "the remote river of Oregon,11
by way of Vera Cruz and Acapulco.
The report or a fight in Texas stands under
the heading "Foreign Intelligence."
T ie puper has seven, allusions to "the
ent? j rise of modern times;" and condenses
a report re.-entlv published by
Congress "on the use of steam-carriages
on common roads." A new vehicle is
-i ,.a ?r nn?;,i?nfc
U-UOUl lJJUU, HI tiiU U1 WUltU attlilUUb-i
from explosion are impossible; and the
report closes with the statement that
"railroads, except in very peculiar situations,
are behind the age," and the ''decided
opinios" that "those who embark
capital in constructing them will be gnat
losers." But the changes indicated arc
not all secular. The contributions received
by the treasurer of the missionary
society during the preceding week weiv
$53.27(1), and among other articles j r pared
for the edification of the devout is
one entitled "To Pious Dealers in Ardent
Spirits."? Christian Advocate.
K . . v*; > .y '
Temperance department."
Touch It Never.
Children, do you see the wine
In the crystal goblet shine?
Be not tempted by its charm.
Children, hate it!
Touch it never,
Fight it ever.
Do yon know what causeth woo
Bitter as the heart can know?
'TLs that self-same ruby wine
Which would tempt that soul of thine.
Children, hate it!
louca it never,
Fight it ever.
Never let it pass your lips,
Never even let the tips
Of your fingers toucn the bowl,
Hate it from your inmcst souL
Truly hate it!
Touch it never,
i Fight it ever.
Fight itl "With God's help stand fast
Long as life or breath shall last.
Heart meet heart, and hand join hond^
Hurl the demon from our land.
Oh, then hate it!
Touch it never,
Fight it ever.
Barnin? and Bumming.
It is said a drunken wretch, tortured
by, fear that relatives would get his
money, in a drunken craze cast $40,000
of United States bonds into the nre, ana
exulted in the non-explosive, but expensive
blaze. Too bad! too bad! And yet
his burning it was not so bad as bumming
it, either to himself or the world. Oh, the
tragedies of drink! "What ties of affection,
obligations of duty, pledges, promises,
hopes, expectations, are being constantly
consumed in the fires of drunken
debauch. What a sad and significant
commentary on poor human nature that
we read with a shudder the loss of a
paltry sum of money, and contemplate
with practical indifference the ruin for
time and eternity wrought in countless
homes.?Beacon.
Extent of the Liquor Traffic in
Europe. (
It is not the highest compliment to the
boasted enlightenment of our age that its
ruling and controlling spirit is what the
i Christian World fitly styles "the Demon
ririnlr " Wo wflll know thp. insolent and
arbitrary domination it exercises over
parties and politics and municipalities in
our own country. In England it mercilessly
overthrew the best administration
Great Britain has had for its presumption
in proposing to help out its treasury by
taxing the drink. And on the Continent
it is spreading its power and strengthening
its hold upon the people, whom it
rules with a rod of iron. Lord
Granville recently secured from th e
British consols over the Continent
a series of reports in regard to the
extent of the liquor traffic that attracts
the attention of sober and humane people.
They show that Englishmen are
the beer drinkers, Frenchmen the winc
bibbers, and Germans the spirit drinker8
of Europe. In Norway and Sweden the
consumption of spirits is growing less.
In Holland legislation has reduced someurlinf
fho nnmhpr nf rlram shons. which
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in 1878 was one for every ninety inhabitants.
In Switzerland, however, they
are increasing three times as fast as the
population, ancl in Austria in a large degree.
In Denmark drink is largely in*
creasing the number of criminals and
suicides. Belgium, which has not nearly
doubled its population in fifty years, consumes
threefold the quantity of spirits,
and has a drink-sliop for every dozen
men. North Germany drinks five times ,
as much spirits as England. What a
fearful exhibit do the civilized nations
show of the deplorable increase of the use
of the greatest foe to their social and material
prosperity I?Illustrated Christian
Weekly.
Fathers and Mothers, Take Warning*
A few years ago there lived in an inland
town of this province a wealthy
merchant; a benevolent, Christian mau?
deacon of the chjirch, and teacher of the
Bible class in the Sabbath school. He
brought up a family of healthy, intelligent
children; but, as they came of age,
all showed a strange liking for alcoholic
drinks. Of his three sons, one is dead.;
theothers are confirmed drunkards. The
father, discouraged, neglected his business
and failed. One of his daughters
married well, but found it impossible to
let the curse alone. She became so besotted
as to be the victim of delirium
tremens. Only about three weeks ago, disgusted
with herself, and probably feeling
onr> of the attacks cominsr on she commit*
ted suicide by taking a large quantity of
laudanum. She left two boys and a
heart-broken husband behind her. And
now, fathers and mothers, what was the
cause of this misery? A lady brought up
in the same family tells me it was the
custom to keep beer in the house at all
times, to which the whole family had ac- ,
cess. The stronger liquors were also kept
for special occasions. The children
helped themselves to the beer and pilfered
the other liquors. She tells me
that she herself acquired so strong a taste
for it that she found great difficulty in
breaking off the habit, but being younger,
and thus forewarned, broke the habit
before it was too late. The story is an
actual fact, and points its own moral.?
Montreal Witness.
Temperance Xotes.
Treating upholds the whole liquor business,
robs the children, ruins the man,
destroys his friends, and breaks a derote,)
wire's heart. Be kind and friendly,
but never treat. Break this cursed custom.
An international conference has been
l-.-'UI :it Antwerp against the abuse of
alcoholic drink. Important statements j
were made by French, English, and Ger- I
man doctors, who proved that alcohol is
more destructive than cholera or war. A
federation is to be formed to diffuse ini
formation on the subject.
r v_ . -/VSii
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THE HANDKERCHIEF
THE HISTORY OF THIS NOW INDISPENSABLE
ARTICLE.
No Handkerchief Among the Ancients?First
Used in Italy?
The Chinese and Japanese
Handkerchiefs.
mi -! r ~ ^e "u.?
i ne msiory ui cvurj^ mtuac ui numau
clothiug has been written over and over
again with one exception?the pockethandkerchief?an
indispensable part of
modern dress. History is silent as to its
use among the earliest races, whether Indians,
Egyptians, Chaldeans, Assyrians,
Persians. As for the Greeks and Romans,
they had no pocket-handkerchiefs
in our sense of the word, but merely a
cloth called "sudorium," to wipe perspiration
from the face. Various Latin writers
tell us that in Rome the orators in
the tribunes and the poets in their public
recitations made use of this "sudorium,"
which was usually carried in a
fold of the tunic or loosely tied around
the neck. Pliny in his "Rhetoric" even
describes how the orator should make the
most effective use of it. The
Roman historian, Tacitus, relates
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JU U13 AUUUIO I.11UK ?.uv, iimpcror
Nero boasted he had never had in
the theatre to wipe the perspiration
from his face! With the dandies of
Athens and Rome it was the fashion to
carry one such "sudorium" in the hand
and another in the girdle, but these were
never used as we use pocket-handkerchiefs.
Sueh a use would have
been deemed a gross breach of good
breeding, and even cleanline.ss, for the
Greeks and Romans had a profound respect
for dry noses, and only children
and old people were allowed to blow
their noses in public. Any lady who
appeared with a pocket-h::ndkerchief in
her hand must have renounced all her
suitors, and even all claims to respect.
Husbands could divorce wives who had
the infirmity of needing a pocket-handkerchief.
Plautus relates that in Rome
a man, before taking a wife, made a
point of ascertaining if she was endowed
with a nose not likely to give rise to
"unpleasant consequences," and Juvenal
records a case in which such "consequences"
actually led to a divorce.
About the beginning of the seventh
century, in the Decretats of St. Isidore,
archbishop of Seville, we find it ordered
that every monk should be provided with
a "facialis" (face-cloth), though it is
doubtful whether the monks used this as
a pocket-handkerchief. The famous Alchin,
the trusted counselor of Charlemagne
(804), speaks distinctly of a cloth
called "facitergium," which the clergy
carried at their left side, and with which
they wiped eyes and nose during the performance
of their services in church.
Nevertheless, these cloths seem to
have heen intended rather for ecclesiastical
state and show than for ordinary
use.
The sensible habit of carrying pockethandkerchiefs
began in a country of
which cleanliness is not usually considered
the strongest point?Italy. The
Emperor Fredrich II., of Hohenstaufen
(1209-50), with his passion for regulating
the minutest details of private as well
as public life, found time to attend
to this matter. He ordered one of hia
Sicilian steward.*} to give all the young
nririo and r>hi r<m of the estate "duos
faciolas de panno liaeo," which can only
mean pocket-handkerchiefs.
The noble ladies of the middle ages
used to give their knights and champions
not only scarfs and bows, but also handkerchiefs
embroidered with heraldic arms.
Hence these gradually became so costly i
that we find sumptuary laws diiected |
against them in the sixteenth century. '
About the same time the Italian passion
for perfumes began to prevail in Germany
also. Fashion required that handkerchiefs,
like gloves, should be perfumed,
the scented waters used for this
purpose serving at the same time for
beautifying the complexion.
In 1560 Jean Nicot, French ambassador
at the court of Portugal, presented
Queen Katharine de Medicis with the
first tobacco leaves ever seen in France,
and this event must be considered as
marking an epoch in the history of the
pocket-handkerchief, for with the introduction
and suread of snulf it became
indispensable. But though used in pri
vate it was not till long afterward tolerated
in public.
The Empress Josephine is supposed to
have done more than any other great lady
to give the handkerchief its present social
status. She had the misfortune to
have very bad teeth, and to conceal this
defect used to hold a delicate lace handkerchief
as much as possible in front of
her mouth, when engaged in conversation.
The ladies of the court naturally
followed her example, and it was thus
the elegant and useless toy gained the
place which it now holds in a lady's toilette.
The Chinese hnve a solution of the
pocket-handkerchief problem altogether
different from the European. They carry
in their pockets little silken cloths, each
of which is used once, and then thrown
away. The Japanese follow the same
custom, though substituting for silk little
four-cornered pieces of paper,of which
they carry a supply in their wide
sleeves.
There is a common but mistaken nosion
that in Turkish harems the "throwing
of the handkerchief" to an ndalisque
is the pasha's mode of showing his preference
for her. Intlie old days the lady
would probably not have known what to
do with the gift; nowadays she might consider
it a mean sort of present. Beside
this, if any p.'isha had ventured thus |
openly to show his reference to any
one member of his harem in presence of I
the rest, they would probably have made
things very unpleasant for him. The
likeliest explanation of the phrase is that
the day after the marriage the pasha
sends to his bride a "morninggift,"and,
as in Turkey they use neither caskets nor
chests, the presents?usually ornaments?
are wrapped up in a handkerchief often
of the finest material and workmanship.
It is curious to note what prominence
the once despised pockct-han kerchief
has now attained. The Moniteur de
VArmee in 1877 describes in detail a handkerchief
for soldiers designed by the retired
commandant, Perrinon. On a
brightly-colored ground were delineated
rl 5 ftprpnt weanons. with clcar and elabor
ate instructions for using them, and rules
of military tactics. The highly practical
notion of combining cleanliness with instruction
was carried out by the minister
of war, in 1882, when he caused a somewhat
similar handkerchief to be made for
the use of the array. The ingenious
Americans have turned the pocket-hand
kerchief to its very latest use. For some
time there has been published in the
United States a newspaper, printed on
cotton, called the Pocket-Haiulkcrchicf, its
name sufficiently explaining its object.?
From the German.
In New York it is becoming customary
to use umbrellas as a shield against the
glare of the electric lights on clcai
nights.
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THE MISSISSIPPI.
Groat Wanderer! Unknown the past
When with strong hand the rod of Natom r
smoto
The rock that gave thee birth. At last
The tiny lakelets of the North o'erflowed
And pas:ent streamlets blubbling free, ,
United in one mighty band and swept
With flow majestic to the sea.
i
In Vain Wyoming's Tetons tower I
Their glacial peaks by Titans high upreored
Dissolve, and thy resistless power
O'er peaceful valleys scatters their remains
Or bears tharn to the Gulf to aid
The coral rear foundations for new lands,
With the magnolia's bloom arrayed.
The Ice King only curbs thy might,
Till blazing suns on wings of Spring
His rei?n o'erthrow. Then gorges blight
Tiie mighty forests, and before their walls >: )
The worlcs of man are crushed like shellfc j.-s
Tumultuous floods their awful vengeance sat*
On the show victims of thy dells. . y'jj
Thy branches like the elm outspread;
From out the pinelands of the distant North#
From the fax Western watershed,
And from the Alleghenies' wilds remote
Incessant tributes flow to thee; V
Nor pause thy currents in the Gulf, but
warmed.
Sween on ward to the Arctic sea.
?William. HoteaBallon, in Oraphio. ' %
PITH m POINT. Slf
Transported/or life. The man who vmarries
happily.
A rapt expression?That of the ham* j
mered pugilist.?PucL
"When Ad:im gotjjnp in the morning it'
never took him long to dress.?Merchant'
Traveler.
Pennsylvania allows a man to marry
his mother-in-law, but he doesn't.? V
Courier-Journal. \<]r'MgH
A friend asks a remedy for cold feet,
Make them stay on the other side of thai , v
lio/l ITn.yf-Fiyy/l tat
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The ups and downs of American life ^
are well exemplified on the toboggan ^
slide.?Detroit Free Press.
Last summer the Tories gave Ireland .;M
an inch, and now thsy have got to take
a Parn-ell.?Lowell Courier.
It is worth noting that Ajax defied the
lightning before the Jersey brand
discovered.?New Haven News, 1
A rule that works both ways?When ?' p
a fleet goes out on a cruise, fhe crews go
out on the fleet.?Pittsburg Chronicle. '4
"Kerosene oil is going up," says an
exchange. Undoubtedly; so is the
stove, so is the hired girl.?New Haven
News.
A student of human nature says anything
can be sharpened. Put a lead V; ; v'
pencil in a woman's hands and see.?
Binjhamton Republican.
There are one hundred different kinds >i.';
of cheese made in France. But there is
one made in Germany that can outrank ^jj*j
them all.?Evansville Argus.
.... l. fifl
Worth, the dress-maker, may not be rag?
long remembered after his death,
can't be denied that few men have mftdir
more bustle in life.?Boston Courier.
"My usual luck!" exclaimed Biggs. 5^
"I bought an accident policy, and new
it is almost run out, and I haven't so
much as stubbed my toe.?Boston Transcript.
.
"What to Do with the Dead" heads aa ^
article in the Canandaigua Messenger.
Make them advertise. That will put ^
life into them if any thing will.?Dansvill*
A Troy business house advertise
"Collars and cuffs. Full wedding
fits." We are surprised. We
better of Troy civilization.?Jfotf
Graphic. -;'q.
Customer?"Can't you give 109 mm&>
thing to take the redness out' of
nose?" Druggist?"Go in front. Bacfc
here is where we put the redness on a 'M
man's nose."?Siftings.
"Haste makes -waste," says the proverb,
but the man who buttons his waistcoat
over a bay window, will tell you
that haste had no hand in making his \
waist.?Commercial Bulletin.
"Will you carve?" asked the landlady .V"?1
of young Sawbones, who is in college.
' 'Certainly; where is the body??I mean,
bring on the meat," correcting himself as r)
best he could.?Tid-Bita.
' !*
We often feel peculiar,
As through this world we range;
But of all our funny feelings
Perhaps the one most strange
Is that we know when wita vigor
We shoot one foot in the air
To break ths ribs of the bull-dog
That jumps and isn't there. 4
You can accomplish almost anything xM
# ;n j. .1.. iL- M
witn a man 11 you win tatte mu preuau
tion to give liim a good dinner. A man, ' ^
it will be observed, resembles a horse in r..this
regard. A horse is ungovernable
until you put a bit in his mouth.?Boston
Transcript. .'rajjg
HIS LITTLE SCEHME.
The man with six daughters he wished were
all wed
"Woi ked gleefully early and late,
At time* when he ought to have been in his
bed.
Constructing a patent front gate.
"This now ought to catch 'em," soliloquized
he,
"Or elsa I'm a precious old dunce:
A great scheme for trimming the family
tree!
Six couples can swing here at once."
?Tid-Bits.
How to Keep Out the Noise.
There are a multitude ofsufferers from
the noise of their neighborhood wno endure
what amounts to agony, exciting
their nerves to abnormal action and their ->)
]>ulse to fever heat, when it would do no
injury to use a simple means of obviating
the whole thing. The clangor of ma^
chinery, the ringing of bells, the cries
and laughter, the yells and roars of one
hundred or less children at recess or at *%i
ball playing, the passing of heavy drays
?all or any of these, and other things,
are sometimes fatal to the health of the
invalid and to the work of tlie thinker.
Often it is utterly impossible to move
into a region where no heavy drays
pass, no bell ringing is
allowed; and then there
is hardly a region to be found not invaded
by the whistle of the steam engine,
or where boys do net shout at their
games; and even where there,are no
cocks to crow, or dogs to bark, or birds
to sing at unseemly hours before
dawn, there is always some other sound
to torture the sensitive ear.
If, now, the sufferer will take a bit of
spermaceti ointment of about the size of
a pea, tie it up in a small square of fine
linen and place it deep in the <ar, working
it round till it takes the shape of the
orifice, leaving the end to hang out, not a
murmur of sound can be heard; the at
mospherc is sweet and serene, the nerves
are quite at rest, all exasperation is subdued,
and when the noise is over, or the
necessary season of quiet, has been had,
the little pluircan be removed, the murmur
of the world allowed to return, and
no harm is done.?Arqonaut.