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I DR. TALMABE'S SERMON.
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I THE CHOICE OF A WIFE.
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Rev. Dr. Talmage preached at the BrookI
lyn Tabernacle on Sunday, January
10, the first of a series of sermons ou
the Marriage Ring, the subject being the
"Choice of a Wire." After expounding a
passage of Scripture Dr. Talmage took for
nis text: Judges, xiv.3: "Is there never a
woman among the daughters of thy brethren,
or among all my people that thou goest to
take a wife of the uncircumcised Philistines?"
Dr. Talmage said:
Sampson, the giant, is hero asking consent
of his father and mother to marriage with one
CONFIRMED,
A Big1 Day's Worn. lvone by the Senate
in Executive Session.
The United States Senate on the loth confirmed
the following nominations:
Diplomatic Service?Jal>ez L. M. Curry, of
Richmond, to be minister to Spain; George
V. N. Lathrop, of Michigan, to be minister
to Russia; Charles L. Scott, of Alabama, to
be minister resident and consul-general to
Venezuela; Frederick H. Winston, of Illimois,
to|be minister resident and consul-general
to Persia: Pierce M. B. Younjr, of Geor
fia. to be consul-general at St. Petersburg;
M. H. Phelan, of Missouri, to be consul-general
at Halifax: John B. Stalo, of
Ohio, to be minister to Italy; Joseph L. Mor- j
gan. of South Carolina, to be secretary of
legation at Mexico; John E. Bacon, of South
Carolina, to be charge d'affairs at Paraguay
and Uruguay; Augustus Jay, of New \ ork,
to be second secretary of legation at Paris;
Moses A. Hopkins, of North Carolina, to be
minister resident and consul-general to
Liberia; John E. W. Thompson, of
tNevr York, to be minister resident
and consul-general to Hayti; Charles
Denov, of Indiana, to be minister to China;
Charles Denbv, Jr., of Indiana, to be second
secretary of legation to China; William W.
Rockhill. of Marylan d, to be secretary of legation
at Pekin; William A. Stay, of Louisiana.
to be minister resident and consul-general
to Bolivia; James F. Lee, of Maryland,
to be secretary of legation to Austria-Hungary:
Walker Fearin, of Louisiana, to be
minister resilient and consul-general to Roumania,
Servia, and Greece.
Department Officials?Robert A. Howard,
of Arkansas, to be assistant attorney-general:
Francis Wharton, of Pennsylvania, to be ex
aminer of claims, department of state: Richard
McMahon, of West Virginia, to be deputy
second comptroller of tho treasury; James Q.
Chenowith, of Texas, to be first auditor of
the treasury; Wm. B. Webb, to be commissioner
of the District of Columbia; Wm. H.
Welch, of Maryland, to be deputy third auditor
of the treasury.
Pension Agents?Franz Sigel, at New
York; Don Carlos Buell, at Louisville; Chas.
A. Zollinger, at Indianapolis.
Collectors of Internal Revenue?Wm. A.
Beach, Twenty-first district of New York;
Alexander Troup, district of Connecticut.
United States Attorneys?Geo. N. Baxter,
district of Minnesota; William C. Perry, district
of Kansas.
United States Marshals?Martin T. McMahon
for the Southern district of NewYork,
Albert A. Wilson for the District of Columbia.
John W. Nelms for the Northern district
of Georgia.
Navy?Captain John G. Walker to be
chief of the bureau of navigation, and cai>
tain Montgomery Sicard to be chief of tiie
bureau of ordinance of the navy, with the
relative rank of commodore: Commodores
, Stephen B. Luce and John Lee Davis to be
rear admirals; Captains George E. Belknap,
David B. Harmony, Andrew E. K.
Benhain, to be commodores; Commanders
Albert Kaiitz, Alfred T. |
Maban, and George U. Kemey, to oe captains;
Lieutenant-Commanders Benjamiu P.
Lamberton, John Schouler, Francis W.
Dickins, George F. F. "Wilde and Charles H.
Davis, to bs commanders; Lieutenants William
W. Reisinger, John C. Rich, William
F. Burwell, John J. Hunker and Franklin
Hanford, to be lieutenant-commanders.
A large number of postmasters, Indiar
agents, registers of land offices and receivers
of public money were also confirmed.
Among the postmasters confirmed wen
these: John Foran, Lambertville, X. J.; Marj
E. Simonsou, East Orange, N. J., and William
H. Miller, Meriden, Conn.
IN FAVOK OF THE MBTERS,
Judge Thurman Decides the Hock"
ing Valley Dispute Over AVages.
Ex-United States Senator Allen G.
Thurman, who was selected by the
miners and operators' arbitration board
of the Hocking Valley, to act as
umpire in the recent troubles among them,
has rendered his decision in favor of the
miners. The price of mining in the Ohio
Central and Hocking Valley districts has been
in dispute between the operators and miners
since the beginning of the strike on June 20,
1884. From the close of the strike until November
1, 1885, the price paid was fifty cents
? 4-An Tlmr tho mintiro nuif urnrL* wifn a Ho.
a tVU. VJUl? " Vilk ?*.4.VUl*VAV
mand for sixty cents a ton. The operators
declined to pay this price, and stated that
they were unable to do so without
great loss. The operators and miners
agreed to submit the matter to the arbitration
of ten men, five to be selected by each
party, and, in the event of their failure to
agree, they were to select an eleventh man,
i\;ho was to act as umpire and decide the matter.
After careful consideration Mr. Thurman
says:
"My duty is simply to decide. To make
elaborate argument is no part of it. It is
sufficient for me to say that I have care- !
fully read the evidence and believe that
I understand and remember it. The question
is; Can the oj>erators of the two districts pay
the advance asked and compete with other
districts! Now considering the facts stated
in the testimony, the amount of coal annually
mined and the length of time that the
trade has been carried on, it seems to me to
"be fairly inferable that the business must
iave been, on the whole, a profitable one.
My decision, therefore, is that the operators
of the two districts can pay the advance
asked, sixty cents a ton, and compete with
the other districts."
Now everything is expected to be peaceful
in the mining regions in the future.
MOTHER NEGRO EXODUS,
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Hundreds Leaving Southern States
for the West.
A Chattanooga (Tenn.) dispatch says that
^'another large party of negroes, numbering
several hundred, passed through the city yesterday
en route from the Carolinas to Arkansas.
The exodus of negroes from the Carolinas,
Georgia and Alabama to the West is increasing
each week. Fully 1,000 have passed
through this city in the past fortnight, and
hundreds of others are making arrangements
to leave as soon as possible. The movement
is more general than ever before, and is produced
chiefly by high rents, bad crops and the
defective tenant system in this section of the
South. The movement is beginning to be
felt in all the States of the South, and is attracting
widespread attention.11
BELOW ZERO.
What the Thermometer Registered at
Various Points.
The thermometer at 7 o1clock a. m. of the
11th, registered below zero at the following
points:
Saranac Lake,ST. Y. 17 Milwaukee, Wis 2
Portland, Me 2 Duluth, Minn 15
Fork Smith, Ark . 4 St. Paul, Minn 22
Brownsville, Tex.. G Des Moines, Iowa..13
"XT 1 : 11 ~ TV O T\ A. T. ?/.
iituvuv me. it* mi.... o i/avenpori,, lOwa..lO
Indianapolis, IncL.10 Cairo, 111 <5
Cincinnati, Ohio... 11 Fort Garry, Minn..31
Pittsburg, Penn.... 1 Leavenworth, Kan. 10
Ottawa, Ont 30 Omaha, Neb 15
Cleveland, Ohio... 8 Hurou, D. T 25
Sandusky, Ohio.... (> Bismarck. D. T....27
Mackinaw City 1 Fort Custer, M. T.. 2
Chicago. Ill S
MUSICAL m DRAMATIC.
Edwin Booth is playing a five weeks' engagement
in Boston.
Thirty bands were in the lord mayor s recent
inaugural procession at Dublin.
Mrs. Kate Chase (formerly Mrs. Sprague)
is to make an actress of her eldest daughter.
Adelina Patti declares that she would
xathcr broil a beefsteak than ''bring down the
fhouse."
Mrs. Thurber, of American Opera company
celebrity, is said to have offered ahaiulssome
sum for an opera comixwed by an American.
An English version of Sardou's latest sucicess,
'Georgette," will be soon produced in
^London with Mrs. Bernard Beere in the leadting
part.
? Mme. Henry Greville is now writing
!for tho American stage a drama out of her
ovel "Cleopatra," a most striking character
of Russian life.
^ Manager James W. Collier, of the
Mnion Squai'e theatre, New York, has
Fbought the manuscript of John McCullough's
^Hjiladiator." for S5.000.
whom they thought unlit tor mm. ru* was
wise in asking their counsel, but not wise in
rejecting it. Captivated with her looks the
big son wanted to marry a daughter of one of
the hostile families, a deceitful, hypocritical,
I whining and saturnine creature, who
afterward made for him a world
of trouble till she quit him forever. In my
text his parents forbade the banns, practically
saying: "When there are so many honest
| and beautiful maidens of your own country
are you so hard put to for a lifetime partner !
I that you propose conjugality with this foreign
flirt? Is there such a dearth of lilies in
our Israelitish gardens that you must wear on
your heart a Philistine thistle? Do you take
a crab apple because there are no pomegranates?
'Is there never a woman among the
daughters of thy brethern or among all my
people that thou goest to tako a wife of the
uncircumcised Philistines?'"
Excuseless was he for such a choice in a
land and amid a race celebrated for female
loveliness and moral worth, a land and a race
of which self-denying Abigail and heroic Deborah
and dazzling Yashti and pious Esther
and glorious Ruth and Mary who hugged to
her heart the blessed Ix>rd were only magnificent
specimens. The midnight folded in
their hair, the lakes of liquid beauty in their
eve, the gracefulness of spring morning in
their posture and gait were ouly typical of
the greater brilliance and glory of their soul.
Likewise excuseless is any man in our time who
makes lifelong alliance with any one who because
of her cfis]X)sition or heredity or habits
or intellectual vacuity or moral twistification
mm- ho ?nir] fti h(? of the Philistines.
The" world never owned such opulence of I
womanly character, or such splendor of womanly
manners of such multitudinous instances
of wifely, motherly, daughterly,
sisterly devotion as it owns to-day. I have
not words to express my admiration for good
womanhood. Woman is not only man's equal
but in ailectional and emotional nature,
wliich is the best part of us, she is seventyfive
per cent. his superior. Yea: during the
last twenty years, through the increased opportunity
opened for female education, tho
women of the country are better educated
than the majority of men, and if they continue
to ad vance* in mentality at the present
ratio before long the majority of men will
have difficulty in finding iu the opposite sex
enough ignorance to make an appropriate
consort. If I am under a delusion as to thu
abundance of good womanhood abroad conse?uent
U{>on my surroundings since the hour
entered this life until now, I hope the delusion
will last until I embark from this planet.
So you will understand if I say in this course
of sermons some things that seem severe I am
neither cynical nor disgruntled.
??.*i <]ltv><-.c+ m-upv fnrm.liftiup in t.JlP I
country, in almost every homo of the great
town, conscientious "women, worshipful
women, holy women, innumerable Marys
sitting at the feet of Christ, innumerable
Marthas preparing to feed Christ in the
prisou of his suffering discipjes, a thousand
capped and spectacled grandmothers' Lois,
bending over Bibloj-, whoso precepts they
have followed from early girlhood, and tens
of thousands of young women that are dawning
upon us from school and seminary, that
are going to bless the world with good and
happy homes that shall eclipse all their predecessors,
a fact that will be acknowledged
by all men except those who are struck
through with moral decay from toe to crauium,
and more inexcusable than the Samson
of the text Is,that man who amid all this unparalleled
munificence of womanhood marries
a fool. But some of you are already suffering
from such disaster, "and to halt others of you
from going over the same precipice I cry out,
in the words of my text: "Is there never a
woman among me daughters of thy brethren
or among afl thy people that thou goest
to take a wife of the uncircumcised Philistines
<"
There are thousands of American pulpits,
among them this pulpit, guilty in the fact
that on some of the suojects on which man
and woman need practical advice tney nave
been silent or teacning them only in forceless
circumlocution. About the choice of a lifetime
companion, in which so much of time
and all of eternity are involved, what almost
universal silence in the church, so that there
are not ten people in this house who haveever
heard a discourse upon this theme,and the first
one I have ever heard is the one I am preaching.
"We leave to the flippant novel or the
spectacular play or the jiugle of a doggerel
rhyme that which ouglu to burden the most
tremendous sennon a minister ever preaches
from the day when he takes ordination to the
day when in judgment he meets his God.
And so, in this course of sermons, I am going
to hitch up my best team to the whiffletreo
and put the coulter of the plow clear up to
the beam and go straight on from fence to
fence,however many nests of moles and serpents
may be ripped up by the furrow, and
however many alarmed persons may cry
4iwhoa!"
That marriage is the destination of the human
race is a mistake that I want to correct
before I go further. There are multitudes
who never will marry, and still greater multitudes
who are not fit to marry. In Great
Britain to-day there are 948,000 more women
than men. And that, I understand, is about
t.ho ratio in America. Bv mathematical and
1 inexorable law, you see, millions of women
will never marry. The supply for matrimony
is greater than the demand, the first lesson of
which is that ever}' woman ought to prepare
to take care of herself if need be. Then
there are thousands of men who have no right
to marry, because they have become so corrupt
of character that their offer of marriage
is an insult to any good woman. Society will
havo to be toned up and corrected on this subject,
so that it shall realize that if a woman
who has sacrificed her honor is unfitted for
marriage, so is any man who has ever sacrificed
his purity. What right have you, oh,
masculine beast, whose life has been loose, to
take under your care the spotlessness of a virgin
reared in the sanctity of a respectable
home? Will a buzzard dare to court a dove?
| But the majority of you will marry, and
! have a ri<jht to marry, and as your religious
I teacher i wish to say to these men in the
choice of a wife first of all seek divine direc!
tion. About thirty-five years ago when Mar!
tin Farquar Tupper, the English poet, urged
men to prayer beforo they decided upon matrimonial
association, people laughed. And
some of them have lived to laugh on the other
side of their mouth. The need of divine
direction I argue from the fact
that so many men, and some of them
strong and wise, have wrecked their lives at
this juncture. Witness Samson and this
woman of Timnath. Witness Socrates, pecked
of the historical Xantippe. Witness Job,
whose wife had nothing to prescribe for
t his carbuncles but allopathic doses of
profanity. Witness Ananias, a liar
who mignt perhaps have been cured by a truthful
spouse,, yet marrying as great a liar as
himself?Sapphira. Witness John Wesley,
one of the best men that ever lived, united to
one of the most outrageous and scandalous of J
women, who sat iu City Roads chapel making
mouths at him while he preached. Witness
the once connubial wretchedness of John
Ruskin, the great art essayist, and Frederick
"VV. Robertson, the great preacher. Witness
a thousand hells on earth kindled by unworthy
wives, termagants that scold like a March
northeaster, female spendthrifts that put
their husbands into fraudulent schemes to get
money enough to meet the lavishment of domestic
expenditure, opium-eating women?
about 400.000 of thein in the United States?
who will have the drug though it should cause
the eternal damnation of the whole household.
heartless and overbearing, and nambypamby
and unreasonable women, vet married,
married perhaps to good men. These
are the women who build the low club-houses
where the husbands and sons go because they
can't stand it at home. On this sea of matrimony
where so many have wrecked, am I not
right in advising divine pilotage
Especially is devout supplication needed
because of the fact that society is so full of
articificialities that men are deceived to
whom they are marrying, and 110 one but the
Lord knows. After the dress maker and
the milliner and the jeweler and the hairadjuster
and the dancing master and the cosmetic
art have completed their work, how is
an unsophisticated man to decipher the
physiological hieroglyphics and make accurate
judgment of who it is to whom ho
offers hand and heart. That is what makes
so manv recreant husbands. They make an
honorable marriage contract, but the goods
delivered are so different from the samme bv
wMch tbey bargained."^ They were simply
swindled and tbey backed out. They mistook
Jezabel for Longfellow's Evangeline,
and Lucretia Borgia for Martha Washington.
Aye, as the Indian chief boasts of the
Bcalps ne has taken, so there are in society today
many coquettes who boast of the masculine
hearts they have captured. And these
women, though they may live amid richest
upholstery, are not so honorable as the
Cyprians of the streets, for they advertise
their infamy, while the former profess heaven
while they mean hell. There is so much
counterfeit womanhood abroad it is no
wonder that some cannot tell the genuine
coin from the base. Do you not realize you
need divine guidance when I remind you that
mistake is possible in this important affair
and. if made, irrevocable ?
Tne worst predicament possible is to
De unnappuy yoKeci togerner. i ou soe
it is impossible to break the yoke. The
more you pull apart, the more galling the
yoke. The minister might bring you up again
and in your presence read the marriage ceremony
back ward, might put you on the opposite
sides of the altar from^vhere you were
when you were united, might take the ring
off of the finger, might rend the wedding veil
asunder, might tear out the marriage leaf
from the family Bible record; but all that
would fail to unmarry you. It is better not
to make the mistake than to attempt its correction.
But men and women do not reveal
all their characteristics till after marriage,
and how are you to avoid committing the
fatal blunder? There is only one Being in the
universe who can tell you whom to choose,
and that is the Lord of Paradise. He made
Eve for Adam and Adam for Eve and both
for each other. Adam had not a large group
of women from whom to select his wife, but
it is fortunate, judging from the mistakes
which she afterward made, that it was Eve
or nothing.
There is in all the world some one who was
made for you as certainly as Eve was made
for Adain. All sorts of mistakes occur because
Eve was made out of a rib from Adam's
side. Nobody knows which of his twentyfour
ribs was taken for the nucleus. If you
depend entirely upon yourself in the selection
of a wife there are twenty-three possibilities
to one that you will select the wrong rib. By
the fate of Ahab, whose wife induced him to |
steal; by the fate of Macbeth, whose wife
pushed him into massacre; by tho fate of
James Ferguson, the philosopher, whose wife
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eiuereu tut) ruuui mmu uu
wilfully upset his astronomical apparatus so
that ho turned to the audience and said:
uJ>ailies and gentlemen, I have the misfor- !
tune to l>e married to this woman;" by the 1
fate of Bulwer, the novelist, whose wife's
temper was so incompatible he furnished her
a beautiful house near London aud withdrew
from her company, leaving her with the one
dozen (logs whom she entertained as pets; by
the fate of John Milton, who married a termagant
after he was blind, and when some
one called her a rose the poet said: "I am no
judge of colors,- but it may be so for I feel the
thorns daily;" by the fate of an Englishman,
whoso wife was so determined to dance on his
grave that he was buried in the sea; by the
late of a village minister, whom I know,
whose wife threw a cup of hot tea across the
table because they differed in sentiment?by
all these scenes of disquietudo and domestic
calamity we implore you. to be cautious aud
prayerful and before you enter upon the
connubial state which decides whether a man
shall have two heavens or two hells, a heaven
here and a heaven forever or a hell now and
a hell hereafter.
By the bliss of Pliny, whose wife
when her husband was pleading in
court, had messengers coming and. going
to inform her what impression he was
making; by the joy of Orotius, whose wife I
delivered him from prison under the pretense |
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rious to his health, she sending out her husband
unobserved in oue of the book-eases ; by J
the good fortune of Roland in Louis1 time, I
whose wife translated and composed for her |
husband while secretary of the interior?talented,
heroic, wonderful Madam Roland; by !
the happiness of many a man who has made
intelligent choice of one capable of being
prime counselor and companion in brightness
and in grief?pray to Almighty God morning,
noon and night, that at the right time
and in the right way He will send you a good,?
honest, loving, sympathetic wife, or if she is ]
not sent to you that you may be sent to her.
At this point let me warn you not to let a
question of this impoiiance bo settled by the
celebrated match-makers in almost every
community. Depend-upon your own judgment
divinely illumined. These brokers in
matrimony are ever planning how they can
unite impecunious innocence to an heiress or
celibate woman to millionaire or marquis, and
that in many cases makes life an unhappiness.
How can any human being who * knows
neither of the two parties as God knows them,
and who is ignorant of the future, give such
direction as you require at such a crisis. Take
the advice of the earthly match-maker instead
of the divine guidance, and you may
some day be led to use the words of Solomon,
whose experience in home life was as melancholy
as it was multitudinous.
Une day nis paiace witn its great; wiue
rooms and great wide doors and great wide
hall, was too small for him, ana the loud
tongue of a woman belaboring him about
some of his neglects, and he retreated to the
housetop to get relief from the lingual bombardment.
And while there he saw a poor
man on one corner of the roof with a mattress
for his only furniture and the open sky
his only covering. And Solomon envies him
and ones out: "It is better to dwell in tbo
corner of the housetop than with a brawling
woman in a wide house."
And one day during the rainy season the
water leaked through the roof of the palace
and began to drop in a pail or pan set there
to catch it; and at one side of him all day
long the water went drop I drop 1 drop! while
on the other side a female companion quarreling
about this and quarreling about that,
her acrimonious and petulant words falliner
on bis ear in ceaseless pelting?drop! drop!
drop! And he seized his pen aud wrote: "A
continual dropping in a very rainy day and
a contentious woman are alike."
If Solomon had been as prayerful at the beginning
of his life as he was at the close, how
much domestic infelicity he would have
avoided.
.mit prayer aooui; mis win amount to
nothing unless you pray soon enough. Wait
until you are fascinated and the equilibrium
of your soul is disturbod by a magnetic and
exquisite presence and then you will answer
your own prayers and you will mistake your
own infatuation for the voice of God.
If you have this prayerful spirit you will
surely avoid all female scoffers at the Christian
religion, and there are quite a number of
them in all communities. It must be told
that, though the only influence that keeps
woman from being estimated and treated as
a slave?aye, as a brute and a beast of burden?is
Christianity, since where it is not
dominant she is so treated, yet there are
women who will so forget themselves and forget
their God that they will go and hear lecturers
malign Christianity and scoff at the
most sacred things of the soul. A good woman,
over-persuaded by her husband, may
go once to hear such a tirade against the
Christian religion, not fully knowing what
she is going to hear. But she will not go
twice. A woman, not a Christian but a respecter
of religion, said to me: "I
was persuaded by my husband to go
and hear an infidel lecturer once, but going
homo I said to him: 'My dear husband, I
would not go again though my declination
should result in our divorcement forever.'"
And the woman was right. If after all that
Christ and Christianity have done for a
woman she can go again and again to hear
such assault she is an awful creature, and
you had better not come near such a reeking
lepress. She needs to bo washed, and for
three weeks soaked in carbolic acid, and for a
whole year fumigated before she is fit for
decent society. While it is not demanded
that a woman be a Christian before marriage,
she must have regard for the Christiau
religion or she is a bad woman,and unworthy
of being your companion in a life charged
with such stupendous solemnities and vicissitudes.
What you want, oh man, in a wife is not a
butterfly of the sunshine, not a giggling nonentity,
not a painted doll, not a gossiping
gad-about, not a mixture of artificialities
which leave you in doubt as to where the
humbug ends and the woman begins, but an
earnest soul, one that cannot only laugh when
3'ou laugh, but weep when you weep. There
will bo wide, deep graves in your path of life,
and you will both want steadying when you
come to the verge of them, I tell you! When
your fortune fails you will want some one to
talk of treasures in heaven and not charge
upon you with a bitter "I told you so." As
far as I can analyze it. sincerity and earnestness
are the foundation of all worthy
wifehood. Get that and you get
all. Fail to get that and you get nothing but
what you will wish you never had got.
Don't make the mistake that man of the
text made in letting his eye settle the question
in which coolest judgment, directed by Divine
wisdom, are all important. He who has
no reason for his wifely choice except a pretty
face is like a man who should buy a farm
l>ecause of the dahlias in the front door-yard.
Beauty is a talent and when God gives it He
intends it as a benediction upon a woman's
face. When the good princess of Wales dismounted
from the rail train last summer and
I saw her radiant face, I could understand
what they told me the day before that when
at the great military hospital, where are now
the wounded and the sick from the Egyptian
and other wars the princess passed through,
all the sick were cheered at her coming, and
those who could be roused neither by doctor
or nurse from their stupor, would get
up on their elbow to look at her, and wan lips
prayed an audible prayer; "God bless the
Princess of WalesI Doesn't sho look beautiful?"
But how uncertain is the tarrying of
beauty in a human countenance. Explosion
of a kerosene lamp turns it into scarification
and a scoundrel with one dash of vitriol
may dispel it, or Time will
drive his chariot wheels across
that bright face,cutting it up in deep ruts and
irullevs. But there is an eternal beauty on
the face of some women whom a rough and
ungallant world may criticize as homely, and
though their features may contradict all the
laws of Lavater on physiognomy, yet they
have graces of soul that will keep them attractive
for time and glorious through all
eternity.
There are two or three circumstances in
which the plainest wife is a queen of beauty
to her husband whatever her stature and profile.
By financial panic or betrayal of business
partner the man goes down, and returning
to his home that evening, he says: "I am
ruined; I am in disgrace forever; I care not
whether I live or die." It is an agitated story
ho is telling in the household that winter
night. He says: "The furniture must go;
the house must go: th9 social position must
go, and from being sought for obseauiously
as once, we must be cold-shouldered everywhere.11
After he ceases talking and the
wife has heard all in silence,she says: "Is that
all? Why, you had nothing when I married
you, and you have only come back to where
you started. If you think that my happiness
and that of the children depends on these
trappings you do not know me, though we
have lived' together'thirty years. God is not
dead and the national bank of heaven has not
| suspended payment, and if you don't mind I
don't care a cent. "What 'little wo need of
l'ood and raiment the rest of our lives we can
get, and I don't propose to sit down and mope
and groan. Mary, hand me that darning
needle; and John, light one of the other
gas burners; and, Jimmy, open the register
for a little more heat. Fanny,
fetch your father's slippers. I declare! I
nave rorgotten to set tne rising ior tnose
I cakesi" And while she is busy at it he hears
I her humming Newton's old hymn about tomorrow:
" It can bring with it nothing
But He will bear us through;
Who gives the lilies clothing
Will clothe his people too;
Beneath the spreading heavens
No creature but is fed;
And He who feeds the ravens
Will give his children bread.
u Though vine nor fig-tree either
Their wonted fruit should bear,
Though all the fields should wither
Nor flocks nor herds be there;
Yet God the same abiding,
His praise shall tune my voice;
Vor while in him confiding
.1 cannot but rejoice."
The husband looks up in amazement and
says: "Well, well, you are the greatest
woman I ever saw, I thought you would faint
cbad away when I told you." And as he j
l ioksat her all the glories of physiognomy
in the court of Louis XV. or in the modern
fashion plates are tame as compared with the
I superhuman splendor of that woman's face.
Joan of Arc, and Marie Antoinette
and La Belle Hamilton, the enchantment of
I the court ot unaries 11. are nownere.
There is another time when the plainest
wife is a queen of beauty to her husband. She
has done tne work of life. She has reared her
children for God and heaven, and though
sonic of them may be a little wild they will
yet come back, for God lias promised. She is
dying and her husband stands by. They think
over all the years of their companionship,
the weddings and the burials, tne ups ana
downs, the successes and the failures. They
talk over the goodness of God and his faith.
fulness to children and children's children.
She has no fear about going. The Lord has
sustained her so many years she would not
daro to distrust him now. The lips of both
of them tremble as they say good-bye and
eucourago each other about an early meeting
in a better world. The breath is feebler and
feebler and stops. Are you sure of it? Just
hold that mirror at the mouth and see if there
is any vapor gathering on the surface. Gonel
As one of the neighbors takes the old man by
the arm gently and says: "Come, you had
| better go into the next room and rest. He
says: ''Wait a moment! I must take one more
look atthat face and at those hands." Beau
nrui! -Beauuiuu
My friends, I hope you do not call that
death. That is an autumnal sunset. That is
a crystalline river pouring into a crystal sea.
That is the solo of human life overpowered
by hallelujah chorus. That is is a queen'3
coronation. That is heaven. That is the
way my father stood at eighty-two, seeing
my mother depart at sevonty-nine. Perhaps
so your father and mother went.' I wonder
if we will die as well J
TEMPERANCE DEPARTMENT.
"Compensation."
1' Compensation! compensation!"
Is the liquor-dealers' cry,
As they see the people's freedoip
And their bondage drawing nigh;
"Give, oh! give us compensation
For the losses we may meet;
Let us have remuneration
For past gains?to us so sweet."
Let them first make restitution
Of the plunder that they gain
From the mothers, wives, and children,
Of the men their trade lias slain;
Let them give remuneration
For the lives by it destroyed,
Then we'll talk of compensation;
Until their claim is void.
Let them show the "compensation"
Which they give to those they wrong?
To the poor, by drink made poorer;
To the weak, who once were strong.
Who will pay the wretched outcast
For the ruin drink has wrought?
Who will pay the drink-cursed children
mat Dy sm are soia ana Dougnt!
Who will "compensate" the mother
For her boy by drink laid low?
What will pay her for the anguish
She has suffered from that dIow?
Who will pay for sullied honor,
Blasted hopes, and rained life;
For a future full of terror,
For a past with horrors rife?
"Woe to him," says God in anger.
"Who shall give his neighbor drink;
Who shall tempt the weak to ruin,
And his soul to hell shall sink!"
God is just; His truth eternal;
And He careth for His own.
Law of man that dares dishonor
Word of God shall be o'erthrown.
God is just; just compensation
At His hand they will receive;
And His judgments stand for ever?
From His sentence no reprieve!
Let us leave to Him the measure
Of their guilt and its reward,
While we work to crush the traffic
That drives souls from Him, their Lord.
?National Tempcrance Advocate.
A Truth That is Apparent.
"Fully eight-tenths of the crime com- 1
mittcd in this country," says Judge Noah ;
Davis, of New York, "may be attributed :
to the use of strong drink." This truth
is so apparent that we might add it does j
not require a judicial mind to so inform i
the public, although it lends a very em- |
pliatic endorsement to what this journal j
has always and will always maintain. Re- !
move the iniquitous system of selling in- i
toxicating beverages, and you purify the
moral status of every community. Every
advocate of reform should recognize the
necessity of protesting against the liquor
traffic before they can ever hope to better
the world.?West Grove (Pcnn.) Independent.
U
Among the regulations of a ncwlj
formed church among the Zulus in
South Africa is the following: No member
of this church shall be permitted to
drink the white man's grog, or nativ<
beer, nor touch it with his lips. I
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His One Fault.
No one can estimate the results which
may flow from habitually throwing the
weight of his own influence on the side
of the truth. A traveler on the French
Broad came one dav, in his search foi
' i
a horse or mule to take him further on his
journey, upon a dilapidated house, where
lived a man celebrated in the region foi
his bad habits. He was then just recovering
from a debauch. After some conversation,
the host informed his visitor
that he was sure he mu3t be a Yankee.
"Well, my friend," said the other, "I
am a Yankee, and whatever you are, you're
a very decent fellow. You've only one
fault, and if you won't shoot me, I'll tell
you what it is."
"I won't. What is it?" lie asked, smil?
ingly.
"And you won't draw that butcherknife
you carry in the back pocket of
your trousers?"
"I don't carry one, so I won't draw
it," he answered, now laughing outright.
"It's that flask of applejack in your
side pocket. Throw it away, and there
isn't anything you couldn't make of yourself."
"Do you believe that?*'
"I don't believe it; I know it."
"Then I'll throw it away." .
"Do it at once. Pitch it out of the
window, and never taste the stuff again."
He took the flask from his pockct, and
gazed fixedly at it for a moment. Then
he said:
"But how can I do it, stranger? "What
other comfort has a man, that has had
such losses and disappointments as I've
| had? It's only when I take it that I feel
like a man."
4'It's only a false manhood."
The man rose and paced the floor with
an uncertain step, finally pausing to say,
''Are you a preacher?"
"No, I am not, but I can't bear to see
a fine, manly fellow like you going
straight to ruin, without saying a word
to stop him."
"With a long swing of his arm, the man
threw the flask out of an opening in the
wall, saying, when he had done so, ' 'Sir,
I don't know your name, and I may
never see you again, but I solemnly prom*
isc you never to taste a drop of the stuff
from this time forth forever."
He kept his word, as the traveler months
afterward ascertained. As he also learned,
the reformed man had ofte:i before come
to the brink of making the same resolution,
but on this particular day it needed
but a feather of remonstrance to turn the J
scalc.
The Cost of Drinks.
Temperance advocates tell us that if
everybody would stop drinking beer and
and whisky, business would immediately
revive. That sounds like an overdrawn
statement, but it has often been
shown that those who drink pay more
money into the coffers of the saloons than
the -whole country pays in taxes. If it
were not so evident that the appetite
clouds the reason it would appear amazing
that men, who will haggle over a few
cents in the price of a pair of boots,
which are sold at a very small profit, or
will buy adulterated coffee because it is
a little cheaper than the genuine, will
pay immense profits on the beer or whisky
they drink without a thought of the
way in which they are imposed upon.
The following statistics are quoted to
illustrate this drain upon the drinkers:
A glass 01 Deer costs nve cents, mere
are 640 glasses in a barrel, so'that the
retailer receives $32 for every
barrel of beer he draws. The profit is
something like 400 per cent. At least
i5,000,000 barrels of beer were consumed
in this country last year, for which the
drinkers paid the aggregate of $480,000,090.
Whiskey and other strong
drinks average seven cents a glass, or
$4.48 a gallon at retail. About 78,000,000
gallons were imbibed in this country
last year, the drinkers paying therefor
nearly $350,000,000. Imagine the hulla- j
balloo that would be raised if the retailers
of groceries and provisions charged
such tremendous profits on their goods.
Now, supposing this $800,000,000 spent
yearly for drinks that do no good were
saved or spent for articles of use and*real
comfort. That vast sum would buy a
good suit oi cioines ior every man in mc
land, give every woman a decent dress
and bonnet, and clothe and shoe every
child. The economic use of $800,000,000,
put where it would do the most
good instead of. where it does the most
evil, are incalculable, and those who tell
us that business would at once revive if
everybody stopped drinking do not appear
to be very far out of the way after
all.?Springfield Union.
Temperance Notes.
A hint for the day: Boycott the bottle.
A Iloosac Falls (Mass.) employer of
1,500 men, has posted a notice that any
oue of his workmen icen entering a
drinking saloon will be discharged.
In the report, in one of the New York
dailies, of a notable social event?the
giving of a reception by the Sorosis, in
honor of Mary Anderson, recently?the
n'rtnifi/totif fnnf lo nrtfrtrl fliot tlin m.inii I
Di^iuuv aiib 1UV/V LUHU uiav> iiiuiiu
differed from similar affairs for men only
in "the entire absence of wine from the
table." '
In England there are more than fourteen
hundred parishes where the traffic i.s j
forbidden, and where it does not exist: j
it has been for many years expelled from j
two large districts in London, tw large j
sections of Liverpool, one large district
each in Birmingham and Manchester. It j
was entirely driven out from the great
manufacturing town Salt aire, in Yorkshire,
more than thirty years ago, and ,
from the large manufacturing town Bess- j
brook, in Ireland, and from a district of |
county Tyrone, containing sixty-two
square miles, n>ore tfian thirty years
ago.
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Hope Thou la God.
despair not, though thy life is dim,
God cares for thee; hope thou in Him
And do not fear to haste along
"With trustful song,
For blessings shall around thee throng.
Why all things change seek not to know,
God makes the spring-time come and go;
And no one guides thy life but He,
Oh, quiet be,
Until His reasons thou dost see.
The shifting shadows of the day
Are sometimes dark on each one's way
And thine own path that seems in night
Leads on to light.
So forward, strong for God and right.
Do troubles gather round thy head?
Steep is the path thou hast to tread?
Hope still in God, yield not to fears,
But through thy tears,
Read the good story of the years.
God cared for thee a little child,
He led thee when the way was wild,
He gave thee joy with every day,
Oh, hope and pray,
He shall light up the homeward way.
He who has been thy helper yet
Will not forsake, will not forget;
He blesses, and thou shalt be blest;
Oh, tired heart rest,
Be sure He only sends the best
?Marianne Farningham.
RELIGIOUS READING.
His Workmanship.
Theodore Monod once made nse of this
beautiful illustration. He said: "If a piece 1
of iron could speak, what would it say? It
would say, 'I am black, I am cold, I am '
hard.' Perfectly true. But put that I
piece of iron into the furnace and wait j
awhile, and what would it say? 'The '
blackness is gone, and the coldness is
gone, and the hardness is gone'?it has
passed into a new cxpenncc. jtsur n
that piece of iron could speak, surely it
would not glory in itself, because the
fire and iron are now two distinct things
that remain distinct to the last. If it
could glory it would glory in the fire and
not in itself?in the fire that kept it a
bright molten mass. So in myself I am
black, I am cold, and I am hard, but if
the Lord takes possession of my soul, if
I am filled with Love, if his Spirit fills
my being, the blackness will go, and the
coldness will go, and the hardness will
go; and yet the glory does not belong to
me, but to the Lord, who keeps me in a
sense of his love,"
The Prayer Meeting.
Wp wrifp nr*nn nn old theme, but we
.. ~ /
have the testimony of a personal experience
to bear which may be of service.
Our circumstances were such that for a
number of months we were debarred
from attending the weekly meeting in the
place of our residence. Now again it
has been our privilege to unite week by
week with God's people in prayer and
conference.
Our testimony bears first upon the
matter of habit. It is easy to form the
habit of non-attendance. It is easy,
when one is so disposed, to find excuses
for remaining away. There is no end to
the convenient reasons that may be
found if we have a mind to allow passing
inclination to determine our conduct in
thisregard. Our experience teaches us
that we must make our attendance upon
the prayer-meeting a matter of duty. It
must not be at the mercy of passing inclination.
For although our general
desire is to be with God's people in the
place where prayer is wont to be made,
yet there may be backward eddies in the
current, and so the inclination of the
moment might keep us away when the
strong sense of duty would hold us to
our course. "When we make it a duty to
attend the prayer-meeting we soon find
that it is a privilege.
Our testimony bears, secondly, upon
the value of the prayer-meeting. Our
attendance had been intermitted long
enough for us to feel afresh its value
when the privilege was restored. And
now we welcome the sweet hour of
prayer. We are burdened with many
cares; cur life is a busy one. But the
time we spend in the place of prayer is
not time lost even from our work. We
are rested and refreshed while we turn
aside from our usual occupations, for the
hour of social worship. Our soul is refreshed.
We get a new view of divine
truth. We catch the echo of some
precious promise. The love of God is
shed abroad in the heart. We have an
opportunity to testify of God's love. We
can join our petitions to those of others,
praying, "Come, Holy Spirit, come!"
The prayer-meeting so, becomes, as it
were, a little section of heaven let down
into the midst of the toil and care of the
daily life. The hour comes to a close,
and we go away refreshed, more ready
for the work we are called upon to do.
"We have left out of view here, as will
have been perceived, any consideration
of the prayer-meeting as a place of
Christian work. We have looked at it
simply in its bearing upon the Christian's
own character and religious comfort.
This other view of it might be dwelt
upon, but we do not take it up now.
But we wish to bear our distinct and
emphatic testimony to the great value of
the prayer-meeting in securing Christian
comfort, and maintaining Christian progress.
The disciple of Christ, providential
hindrances apart, cannot afford to
miss the stated meeting for prayer and
conference. He is robbing himself when
he neglects it.?American Messenger.
The study of the drink question iu
Switzerland has disclosed the fact that
the use of alcoholic beverages is largest
in tlioso cantons in which wages are
lowest, and the people are the poorest.
The adults of the village of Ste.Marthe,
Canada, with a population of 2,000, on a
recent Sunday pledged themselves to abstain
from intoxicating drinka for t
year.
MAKING SONGS. |
THE ORIGIN OF SOME VHU?.
KNOWN COMPOSITIONS.
' fflsa
The Little Back Parlor in Pittsburg
Prom Which Game Forth Man^
Beautiful Melodies?A Storj .
of Three Friends.
Who has not been awakened from his
sleep in the early morning hours by some
party of home-going revelers singing,
4;Way down upon the Suwanee River?'*
The melodious music invades the halfroused
senses like a dream, and the
dreamer does not resist it. He closes his
eyes again to listen?motionless. He has
neara me oia song many umes ueiurc uc
can anticipate every word and note; there
is no novelty in it for him, but he is not
provoked at being awakened. He listens
dreamily and lets the music bring to him q
thoughts of home?not the home of his
manhood, made happy by wife and children,
but the dream home of his childhood,
where mother was.
There stood in the city of Pittsburg,
forty years ago, a cottage at 31 Pearl M
street. It was a cozy home, with vinecovered
windows and a broad hearthstone.
It was the home of Charles P.
Shiras and his mother, familiarly known
to her friends as "Aunt Becky" Shiras.
Charles Shiras had two particular friends
of his own age, Stepen Foster and John
Hull. These men had been companions
from their boyhood, and death alone
broke off their friendship.
Shiras was a literary genius. He was
well educated, brilliant, and possessed of
a fertile, active mind. He was ambitious
and animated by the noblest purposes.
For some years, and at the time of his
death, he was connected with the Pittsburg
Commercial Journal. All his literary
work was full of merit and many of his
productions gained wide attention. He
published two small volumes of poems,
the best known of which are "Dollars
and Dimes,''Redemption of Labor," and
"The Iron City." These he considered
his best work, but he strangely refused
to publicly acknowledge the authorship
of the beoutiful songs which would have
given his name, with that of Foster,
world-wide fame. He erred in his judg- \
ment of the effect they would produce, /??
and in his ambition for higher flights,
considered them childish and foolish.
Foster was a musician and composer.
His soul was full of the poetry of sound.
He had a fine, effeminate face, and his
nature was as soft and yielding as a ;
maiden's. He was a dreamer, often sad
and melancholy, and every bar of his
beautiful, simple music is marked with
the characteristics of his nature. He
found close sympathy in the fine, poetic
mind of Shiras, and both found sympathy
and encouragement in the more rugged
and aggressive nature of their mutual
friend. Hull.
Hull was a mechanic, working for his
daily bread from his earliest boyhood.
Unlike his friends, he had no education,
but tlie circumstances of his life gave him
strong good sense and clear judgment.
He was a lover of the beautiful, and he
found much to admire in his friends
Shiras and Foster. He had a musical
voice, and Foster, who could not sing,
tiught him music. He had a retentive
memory, and from Shiras he learned much
of literature. He became the critic of
the productions of both his friends, and
his judgment of a poem or a song was to
them all-sufficient.
And so a beautiful friendship existed
between these three in boyhood, in youth
and until their early manhood, when
Shiras died. They were together during
all their leisure time, and umany happy
hours they squandered" in "Aunt Becky"
Shiras' little back parlor. It was here /:?
that Shiras, in his resting moments, wrote
fVif?co lioniitifni snnffs to r>lease his friend
uwjv wvuv?v??. -?-- r . "t&ma
Foster; it was here that Foster composed
music for them to. please himself and hit
friend Hull, and it was here that Hull
sang them for the pleasure of all.
The first song they published was "Old
| Uncle Ned." Foster sold it to a Pittsburg
house for $100. "With this money
he purchased a small piano and placed it
in "Aunt Becky" Shiras' little parlor.
And on this little piano he afterward
played music which has gono
around the w.orld. "Old Uncle
Ned" made its appearance about tha Jj
year 1830, and immediately became popular.
"Within three years later Shiras and
Foster together produced ' 'Old Folks at
Home." "Susannah, Don't You Cry,"
"Gentle Annie," "Hard Times Com*
Again No More," "My Old Kentucky
Home," "Massa's in dc Cold, Cold,
Ground," "Old Dog Tray," "Willie, W?
Have Missed You," "Come "Where My
Love Lies Dreamiug," and others fully a*
popular.
It is certain that Shiras wrote the
lines of nearly all these songs, except . ^
4'Come "Where My Love Lies Dreaming.""
Foster was willing and anxious to shar#
their authorship with his friend Shiras.
but the latter often laughingly told
Foster that he was welcome to all the
reputation he would get from their publication.
Poor Shiras died when he was twentynine
years old, before he dreamed that
the songs which he had written in an
idle fancy, as a mere pastime, would live
in every home in the Christian world.
Mrs. Jane Swisshelm wrote his obituary.
He left a young wife and a girl baby.
This baby is now a buxom mother of
babies.
Foster lived some years after the death
of his friend. He went to New York
city, where he died in 1864, from the
effects of a fall in the Bowery. He was
widely known and very popular. His
funeral was attended largely by the literary,
theatrical and musical classes. A
cnorus oi vuitcs utU ,
''Come Where My Love Lies Dreaming."
? Chicago Neics.
How Long Have We to Lire?
The following is one of the well-au- .
thenticated tables in use among London
assurance companies, showing the average
length of life at various ages. In the
first column we have the present ages of
persons of average health, and in the second
column we are enabled to look, as it
were, behind the scenes of an assurance
officer, and gather from their table the
number of years they will give us to live.
This table has been the result of careful
calculation, and seldom proves misleading.
Of rmirse sudden and premature deaths,
us well as lives unusually extended, occasionally
occur, but this is a table of the
average expectancy of life of an ordinary
man or woman.
Age. More years to Live.
1 39
10 51
41
;;o :J4
40 28
50 21
f?0 14
70 'J
SO 4
Boston constructed more buildings during
1-885 than in any year since that following
the great fire. The total value of
these was $8,000,000.