Camden gazette and mercantile advertiser. (Camden, S.C.) 1818-1822, August 05, 1819, Image 4
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POETRY.
/Vow the rhUudetfihia American Daily
M Advertiser*
Mr. Poui^oir?>bservibg last evening
the brilliancy of the Phenomenon in the
Heavens, and callingto mind the vat iety of
conjectures which such an appearance
occasions, the following thoughts occurred
which are at your disposal. ^S.
TO THE COMET.
* gticatrwiger ! blaze of light!
Messeuger of .-.ood or ill ;
Fortent iathe wondering sight,
What behest dost thou fulfil ?
Dost thou tell of blight afar,
Or shall health'*, fcipd blessing cease,
Dost thou oipen direful war,
Or confirm the notes of peace ?
Art thou missioned from above.
Oh, celestial herald say,
Dost thou bring the torch of love,
Wakening the MILLEN1AL DAY !
Gould wethtf* with rapture meat thee,
- Emanation ?Jf fre skies.
How would son^Jvf triumph greet thee,
How would mingling praises rise!
But though wisdoql has denied,
Finite skill thy course to tell;
Though, thy errand's undescribed,
Yer we know that aU it well!
* . ? ?
* HE who speaks 'n dreadful thunder,
?. vThron^d in power abov? the sky ;
He, before whose viewless splendor*
. All thy radiant glories die?
?. ' r- At "J' 5 rV- ?' ?
He who holds the bolt of heaven,
Systems, which their course fulfil,
He whose glance through time bath riven,
Ood?win'ever guard us still ! *
? a a 4- vJ * t FT * i . .(* ?
Mystic Orb! then urjje thy flight,
, ; :&bon ihj meteor-r^gn is o'er,
Whilst thou burnest the gem of night,
We, admiring, GOD adore.
Miscellaneous*
*ROM ihving's sketch book.
I HE WIFE.
The treasures of the deep are not so pre
^ous
As are the conceated comforts of a man
Lock *d up in woman's love. I scent the air
Of biestine, when I come but near the
. .House.
What a delicious breath marriage sends
^ *fortli~
The violet bed's not tweeter!
Afiddlettn.
1 have often had occasion to re
ibftrit the fortitude with which wo
ifteb itytetain the most overwhelming
inverses ,of fortune., Those disas
ters which break clown the spirit of
* man, and prostrate him in tbo dust,
feein id call forth ill the energies of
"ex, and give audi intre
pidity apd elevation to their charac
ter, that at times it approaches to
?ablimity? Nothing can be more
touching than to behold a soft and
lender female, who had been all
weaknes* and dependence, ami alive
10 every trivial roughness w bile tread
life tiro prosperous paths of life,
suddenly rising in mental force, to
be tne comforter and supporter of
her husband, under misfortune, and
abiding, with unshrinking firmness,
the bitterest blasts of Adversity,
i As the vine which has long twined
Ids graceful foliage around the oak,
and been lifted by it into sunshine,
will, when the Hardy plant is rifted
by the thunderbolt, cling round it
with its caressing tendrils, and hind
np its shattered hough*; so is it
beautiftilly ordered by Providence,
that woman, who is the mere depen
dant and ornameut of man in bis
happier hours, should be his stay
and solace when smitten with sud
den calamity, winding herself into
the rugged recesses of his nature,
tenderly supporting the drooping|
bead, and biuding up the broken
heart.
I was once con&atulating a friend,
who had arouncl him a blooming
family, knit together in the strongest
affection. " 1 can wish you no bet
ter lot," said lie, with enthusiasm,
" than to have a wife and childreu? |
if you are prosperous, there they arc
to share your prosperity; if other
wise, there they a re to comfort you."
And, indeed, I have observed that
married men falling into misfortune,
ar* mora apt in retrieve their sana
tion in the world than single men;
partly because they are more stimu
lated to exertion by the necessities of
the helpless and lieloved beings who
depend upon them for subsistence;
but chiefly because their spirits are
soothed and relieved by domestic en
dearments, and their self respect
kept alive by finding, that though all
abroad is darkness and humiliation,
yet there is still a little world of
love, of which they are mouarchs.
Whereas* a single roan is apt to run
to waste and self neglect; to fancy
himself loftely and abandoned, and
his heart to fall to ruin like some
deserted mansion, for want of an in
habitant. x ^
These observations call to mind a
little domestic story, of which f was
once a witness. My intimate friend,
Leslie, had married a beautiful and
Accomplished girl, who had been
brought up in the mid*tof fashiona
ble lire. She had, it is true no for
tune, hut that of mj friend was am
ptoj *?d he delighted in the antici
pation of indulging her in every ele-i
gant pursuit, and administering to
those delicate tastes and fancies, that
spread a kind of witchery about the
?px.??* Her life," said he, " shall
be like a fairy tale."
I Th* difference iw their cha
racters produced an harmonious com
bination; he was of a romantic, and
somewhat serious cast; she was all
life^ and gladness. I have often
noticed the mute rapture with which
he would gaze upon her in company,
of which her sprightly powers made
her the delight; and how* in the
midst of applause, her eye would
still turn to him, as if there alone
she sought favor and acceptance.
When leaning on his arm, her slen
der form contrasted finely with his
tall, manly person. The fond, con
fiding air with which she looked up
to him, seemed to call forth a flush
of triumphant pride and cherishing
tenderness* as if he doated on his
lovely burthen for its very helpless
ness. Never did a couple set for
ward on the flowery path of early
iind well suited marriage with a fairer
prospect of felicity.
qfiwas the mishap of my friend,
however, to have embarkecUhis for
bun* In large speculations;l?id he
had not been married many months,
when, by a succession of sudden
disasters, it was swept from him, and
he found himself almost reduced to
penuiy. For a time lie kept his
situation to himself, and went about
with a haggard countenance, and a
breaking heart. His life was but a
protracU^agimy; and what render
ed it more insupportable, wis the
necessity of keepiug up a tfftile in
jthe presence of his wife; for he
could not bring himself to overwhelm
her with the news. 8he saw, how
ever, with the quick eyea of affec
tion, thai all was not well with him.
Hhe marked his altered looks and
stilled sighs, and was not to be de
ceived by his sickly and vapid at
tempts of cheerfulness. She tasked
Alt her sprightly powers and tender
blandishments to win him back to
liappiness; but she only drove the
arrow dee pet into his ran I. The
more lie saw cause to love her, the
more torturing was the thought tlmt
he was mh.ii *MBgke her wretched.
A little w hile, thought he, snd the
smile will vanish from that cheek?
the song will die away from those
lipe?(he lustre of Hum eyes will
he quenched with sorrow; anil the
happy heart which now heats lightly
in that bosom, will he. weighed down,
like mine, hy the cares and miseries
of this world.
At to me, one day,
and relatedlrcs \s liole situation, in a
(one of (lie deepest despair. VV hen
1 hnd heard him through, I enquir
ed, 44 doe* your wife know all this?"
At the question he burst into tears.
44 For (iod's sake cried he, 44 it
you have any pity on me, don't men
ilion my wile; it is the thought oi
her that drives mo almost to mad
ness !"
j " And why not?" said 1. " She
must know it sooner or later; you
cannot keep it long from tier, and
the Intelligence may break upon her
in a more starling manuev than it
imparted by yourself; for the accents
of those we lote soften the harshest
tidings. Besides, you are depriving
yourself of the comforts of her sym
pathy : and not merely that, but al
so endangering the only bond tlmt
can keep hearts together, an uureser*
ved community of thought and feel*
ing. She will soon perceive that
something is secretly preying upon
your mind; and true love will not
i?rook reserve, but feels undervalued
and outraged, when even the sor
rows of those it loves are concealed
from it.
"OhI but my friend! to think
what a blow I am to give to all her
future prospects?how I am to strike
her very soul to the earth, by telling
her that her husbaud is a beggar!
that she is to forego all the elegancies
of life?all tlie pleasures of society
?to shrink with me into indigence;
and olfctcurity! To tell her that 1
have dragged her down from the
sphere in which she might have con
tinued to move in constant brightness
?the light of every eye?the admi
ration of eveiy heart! How can she
hear poverty? she has been brought
up in all refiafement e.f opulence.?
How can she bear neglect ? she has
l>een the idol of society. Oh, it
will break her heart, it will break
her heart??99
I saw his grief was eloquent, and
I let it have its flow ; for sorrow re
lieves itself by words. When his
paroxysm had subsided, and he had
related into moody silence, 1 re
sumed the subject gently, and urged
hint to break his situation at once to
his wife. He shook his head mourn
fully, but positively.
" But how are you to keep it from
her? It is necessary she should know
it, that you may take the steps pro
per to the alteration of your circum
stances. You must change, your
style of living?nay," observing a
pang to pass across his countenance,
" donl let that afflict you. 1 am
snre you have never placed pure hap
pines* in outward show?you have
yet friends, who will not think the
worse of you for being less splen
didly lodged; and rarely it does not
require, a palace to be happy with
Mary?99
"1 could be happy with her,,?
cried lie convulsively, " in a hovel!
I could go down with her into pover
ty and the dust! I could?1 could?>
Oou bless her! Gobbles* her!"
cried he, bursting into a transport of
grief and tenderness.
"And believe me, my friend,"
said 1, stepping up, and grasping
him warmly by the hand, "Relieve
me, she can be the same with you.
Aye more; it will be a source of
pride and triumph to her; it will
call forth all the latent energies and
fervent sympathies of her nature;
for she will rejoice to prove that she
loves you for yourself. There rain
every true woman's heart a spark of
heavenly fire, which lies dormant
in the broad daylight of prosperity ;
but which kindles up, and beams
and blazes ia the dark hou^ of ad
versity. No man knows what the
wife of his bosom is?no man knows
what a ministering an?el site is?
until he has gone with her through
the fiery trials of this world."
There was something in the ear
nestness of manner, and the figura
live style of my language, that caught
(he excited imagination of Leslie.?
I knew the auditor I had to deal
with; and following up the impres
sion I had made, I finished by per
suading him to go home and uubur
den his sad heart to his wife.
1 must confess, notw ithstanding all
I had said, 1 felt some solicitude for
the result. Who can calculate on
the fortitude of one whose life has
:tt'cn ft round of pleasures? Her gay
spirits might revolt at the dark,
Jow n w a I'd path of low humility, si d
lenly pointed out before her, ami
aught cling lo the sunny regions in
whicli they had hitherto re veiled.?
Besides, ruin in fashionable life is
accompanied by so many galling mor
tifications,*0 which in other ranks,
it is a stranger. In short 1 could uot
meet Leslie, the next morning* with
out trepidation, lie had made the
disclosure.
" And how did she hear it?
" Like an angel! It seemed rather
to he relief to her mind, for she
threw her arms around my neck, and
asked if this was alt that had lately
made me unhappy?hut, poor girl,"
added he, she cannot realize the
change we must undergo.?She has
no idea of poverty hut in the abstract;
she has only read it in poetry, where
it is allied to love. She feels as yet
no privation; she experiences no want
of accustomed conveniences or. ele
gancies. When we come practical
ly to experience its sordid cares, its
paltry wants, its petty humiliations?
then will bo the real trial."
" But," said I, "jiow thai you
have got over the severest task, that
of breaking it to her, the sooner you
let the world into the secret the bet
ter. The disclosure may he morti
fying; but then it is a single misery,
and soon over; whereas ymx other
wise sutler it, in anticipation, every
hour in the day. It is not pov
so much as pretence, that imrrasses a
ruined man?the struggle between a
proud mind and an empty .purse?the
keeping up a hollow show that must
soon come to an eud.?Have the cour
age to appear poor, and you disarvrfj
poveity of its shar|>est sting." On
this point 1 found Leslie perfectly
prepared. He had no false pride
himself, and as to his wife, she was
only anxious to cooforHi to their al
tered fortunes*
Home days afterwards he called
upon me in the evening, He had
disposed of Iris dwelling house, and
taken a small cottage in the country,]
a few miles from town. He hadi
been, busied all day hi sending out
furniture. The new establishment
required few articles, and those of the
simplest kind. All the splendid fur
uilure of lus late residence had been
sold, excepting bis wife's liarp.
That, he said, was too closetjhpsso
ciated with the idea of bersel^Ht be
longed to the little atory of their loves;
for some of the sweetest moments of
theircourtship were those when he
had leaned over that instrument, and
listened to the tflelting tones of her
voice, 1 could not but smile at this
instance of romantic gallantry in a
floating husband. j
He was now going out to the cot
tage, where his wife bad been all
day, superintending its arrangement.
My feeliugs bad become strongly in
terested in the progress of this family
story, and as it was a fine evening, 1
offered to accompany him.
lie was wearied with the fatigues
of the day, and as we walked out, fell
into a lit of gloomy musing.
" Poor Mary ! at length broke,
witb a heavy sigh, from his lips.
" And what erf her," asked 1,
" has any thing happened to her ?"
44 What," said lie, darting an im
patient glance, " is it uothihg to be
reduced to this paltry situation?to be
caged in a miserable cottage?\6 be
ibliged to toil almost in the menial
concerns of her wretched habitation?"
" Has she then repined at the
change?"
" Repined! she has been nothing
bnt sweetness and g4|d humor. In
deed, she seems in better spirits than
I have ever ktiown her ; she has
been to me alt love, and tenderness,
and comfort Vy
"Admirable girl," exclaimed I,
"You call yourself poor, my friend;
y^u never was so rich?you never
knew the boundless treasures of ex
cellence in that woman."
" Oh, hut my friend, if tbia drat
meeting at the cottage were over,
think I could then be, comfortable.
Hut this is her first day of real expe
rience: She has been introduced into
a humble dwelling?she has been em
,;lo\ed all day in arranging its miser
able equipments?she has for the
first time ktiown the fatigues of do
mestic employment?she has for thr
first lime looked around her on a home
destitute of everV thing elegant, and
almost convenient; and may now 1k>
sitting down, exhausted and spirit
less brooding over a prospect of fu
ture poverty.
There was a degree of proliability
in this picture that I could r.oi S8'"
say, so we walked on in silence.
After turning from the main road,
up a narrow lane, so thickly shaded
by forest trees, as to give it u com
plete air of seclusion, we came.in
~sT2jtrt~ of tl e cottage; ^ luiffl*
hie enough in iis appear*nee for the
most pastoral poet; and yet it had a
pleasing rural look. A wild vine
liad overrun one end with a pro
fusion of foliage ; a tew trees threw
tlieii branches gracefully over it: and
I observed several pots of flowers
tastefully disposed about the door,
and on the grass plot in front. A
small wicket gate opened upon a
foot path that wound through somo
shrubbery to the door. ^ Just as we
approached, we heard the sound of
music?Leslie grasped my arm; we
paused and listened. It was Alan 's
voice in a style of the. most touching
simplicity, singing a little air of
which her husband was peculiary
fond.
I felt Leslie's hand tremble on mv
arm. He stepped forwaid, to hear
more distinctly. His step made a
noise on the gravel walk. A bright
beautiful face pl?ncefl out of . the
window, and vanished?a light foot
?fej> wMj^^rd?and Mary came
(filing fomi to meet us. She was
in a pretty ruval dress of whiffe t a
few wild powers were twisted in tiff
fine hair; a fresh bloom AWas ou het
cheek; her whole countenance beam
ed with srailes-vl had never seen
her look so loveR.
"My dear Grorge," cridd slip,
<1 am so glad you are come; Pve
been watching and watthing for yooi
and running down the lnne, ana
looking out for you. I've set out *
table under a beautiful tree behind
the cottageand I've been gathering
some of the most delicious straw
berries, for I know you are fond of
them?and every thing is so sweet
and still here?Oh!" said she, put
ting Iter Arms within his, and look
ing up brightly in his face, " Oh, we
shall lie so snug \}} : ?^r "
Poor Leslie was overcome.?He
caught her to his bosom?he folded
his arms around her?he kissed her
again and again?he could not s|>eak,
but the tears gushed into his eyes.
And he has often assured me, that
though the world #harf since gone
prosperous with him, and bis life
has been a happy one, yet never has
be experienced a moment of such
unutterable felicity,
","v <
On Wednesday last, about the
commencement of the storm, a Her
ring, weighing nine ounces, and
measuring thirteen inches in length,
fell from the clouds and landed in
Main-Htreet, in this village, near
the Phoenix Coffee-House. At the
moment, it was supposed to have
drooped from the talons of some
Bird of prey; but, a close survey of
the heavens, made with a particular
view of ascertaining the fact, satis
fied the spectators that no such Bird
was in sight, nor did the Fish bear
any indications of having been gras
fied in the taloos of a Bird. It wan
seen more thai} twenty feet liefore it
struck the ground, and lived for
some minutes after its fall. If the
incredulous should doubt the aliove
statement, it can be corroborated by
several highly respectable eye-wit
nesses*?Buffalo Journal.
Economy!?The Editor of the
Baltimore American Farmer say*,
that " a gentleman mentioned a fact
to him the other day, to Convey nn
idea of the habits of a certain neigh
borhood.?He said, he met on the
road, going to a nejghl>oring village,
in 'old fashioned, imported coach,
drown by two half starved horses,
driven by a naked ntgro slave, con
veying a live hog to buy a jug of rum."
At Havana, 030 foreigners died
of fever from the first of May to the
middle of June.