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Former NOWpresident, ‘The Feminine Mystique’
author Bettv Friedan dies of heart failure at ape 85
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THE ASSOCIATED PRESS
NEW YORK — Betty
Friedan, whose manifesto
“The Feminine Mystique”
helped shatter the cozy
suburban ideal of the post
World War II era and laid
the groundwork for the
modern feminist movement,
died Saturday,, her birthday.
She was 85.
Friedan died at her
Washington, D.C., home
of congestive heart failure,
according to a cousin, Emily
Bazelon.
Few books have so
profoundly changed so many
lives as did Friedan’s 1963
best seller. Her assertion
that a woman needed more
than a husband and children
was a radical break from the
Eisenhower era, when the
very idea of a wife doing any
work outside of house work
was fodder for gag writers,
like an episode out of “I
Love Lucy.”
Independence for women
was no joke, Friedan wrote.
The feminine mystique was
a phony deal sold to women
that left them unfulfilled,
suffering from “the problem
that has no name” and seeking
a solution in tranquilizers
and psychoanalysis.
“A woman has got to
be able to say, and not feel
guilty, 'Who am I, and
what do I want out of life?’
She mustn’t feel selfish and
neurotic if she wants goals of
her own, outside of husband
and children,” Friedan said.
Sen. Hillary Rodham
Clinton, D-N.Y., said
Friedan’s activism and
writing “opened doors
and minds, breaking down
barriers for women and
enlarging opportunities
for women and men for
generations to come. We are
all the beneficiaries of her
vision.”
Eleanor Smeal, president
of the Feminist Majority
Foundation, publisher of
'Ms. magazine and a former
president of the National
Organization for Women,
praised Friedan’s legacy.
Friedan, she said, “was a
giant for women’s rights and
a leading catalyst of the 20th
century whose work led to
profound changes improving
the status of women and
women’s lives” worldwide.
“The Feminine Mystique”
helped to “define the lesser
status of women,” she said.
The book “opened
women’s minds to the idea
that there actually might be
something more,” said Kim
Gandy, current president of
NOW, which Friedan co
founded.
“And for the women
who secretly harbored such
unpopular thoughts, it told
them that there were other
women out there like them
who thought there might be
something more to life.”
In the racial, political and
sexual conflicts of the 1960s
and ‘70s, Friedan’s was one
of the most commanding
voices and recognizable
presences in the women’s
movement — stocky and
big-eyed with a personality
to match, clashing even with
Gloria Steinem and other
feminists.
As the first president of
NOW in 1966, Friedan
staked out positions that
seemed extreme at the time
on' such issues as abortion,
sex-neutral help-wanted
ads, equal pay, promotion
opportunities and maternity
leave.
But at the same time,
Friedan insisted that the
women’s movement had
to remain in the American
mainstream, that men had
to be accepted as allies and
that the family should not be
rejected.
“Don’t get into the bra
burning, anti-man, politics
of-orgasm school,” Friedan
told a college audience in
1970.
To more radical and
lesbian feminists, Friedan
was “hopelessly bourgeois,”
Susan Brownmiller wrote at
the time.
Friedan, deeply opposed
to “equating feminism with
lesbianism,” conceded later
that she had been “very
square” and uncomfortable
about homosexuality.
“I wrote a whole book
objecting to the definition
of women only in sexual
relation to men. I would
not exchange that for a
definition of women only in
sexual relation to women,”
she said.
Nonetheless she was a
seconder for a resolution
on protecting lesbian rights
at the National Women’s
Conference in Houston in
1977.
BEEZER'S • COnTinUCDFROmi
his real story is that of a
dedicated worker who just
loves delivering food.
Carter has delivered
sandwiches for Beezer’s
for close to six years, and
has worked at four other
Columbia restaurants as a
deliveryman since 1993.
The Detroit native
relocated to Columbia after
being stationed at a nearby
Air Force base during the
Vietnam War.
“It’s a peaceful, pretty
place to be,” Carter said of
the South.
He served in the Air Force
from 1969 to 1974 but was
never deployed. After the
Vietnam War ended, he was
offered an early retirement
from the military and began
an entry-level computer job
at South Carolina National
Bank. After the bank’s merger
with Wachovia in 1993, he
saw delivery as a career that
offered stability.
It was also a way for him
to express his creativity, he
said.
He fashioned himself as
a “Road Warrior,” a la Mel
Gibson, and when he began
riding the moped and dying
his hair red, he styled it like
Oscar Wilde.
“I want to be known,”
Carter said. “I want to be
famous.”
He was also inspired by the
“arty” scene of Five Points.
In conversation, Carter
referenced an obscure work
by Van Gogh and compared
himself to the artist.
“There’s a reason for
being here, and I’ve served
part of it,” Carter said. “I’ve
contributed to the world,
just like Van Gogh made
paintings for the world.”
It was that attitude that
helped Carter quicklybecome
one of the most dedicated
Beezer’s employees, Coomey
said.
“James is wonderful,” she
said. “He works his tail off.”
Lately, Carter has worked
seven nights and four days
a week. His two-hour lunch
shifts are short in comparison
with the 10-hour shifts that
last until the wee hours of
the morning. But he doesn’t
complain and, with the
exception of time off for a
broken leg, he’s never missed
a day of work.
“The amount of time
and effort I put into this is
something like owning my
own business,” Carter said.
But he is quick to add, “But
I’m working for a business,
too.
He takes pride in what he
does. Over the years, he’s
gotten to know the city and
its Beezer’s regulars. On
a busy night, packed with
deliveries, he follows specific
routes to minimize delivery
time, ones he’s created and
perfected with years of
practice.
The people he meets make
the job worthwhile, he said.
On any given day, Carter
might deliver to an executive,
a nurse and a student.
When Carter delivers
food to a party, he’s often
invited to join in, he said.
Students and other Columbia
residents regularly offer him
drinks, but he always declines
when he’s on the job. Some
of those customers turn
into acquaintances or even
friends, Carter said.
But he also meets some
unsavory characters. Two of
his mopeds were stolen, and
one night he was robbed in
his car.
Unsure whether the man
had a gun, Carter just gave
him some money and went
along with his business.
“I was in a hurry, so I didn’t
call the police,” Carter said.
“I had a lot of deliveries to
make.”
He also makes fairly
regular deliveries to strip
clubs, he said. Delivering to
the now-closed Chippendolls
club, Carter got the chance
to see strippers before they
performed, with no makeup
and bright lighting.
“They don’t look too
good,” he said.
And he appreciates
the irony of delivering
to Platinum Plus, where
strippers pull dollar bills
from their g-strings to tip
him.
With interesting nights and
work that he finds fulfilling,
Carter said he doesn’t plan
to leave the delivery business
any time soon.
“There’s a lot of potential
for growth for anybody that’s
career-minded,” he said.
His dedication to the job
extends even to choosing the
sandwiches he eats. Carter
eats at Beezer’s every day,
but avoids the sandwiches
made with salami or Capicola
ham because “they make my
breath stink,” he said.
“I have to be presentable.”
When he’s not working,
Carter said he spends much
of his free time sleeping
because he’s tired from the
long hours of delivery, but
he also watches an eclectic
assortment of movies. One of
his favorite directors is Sam
Peckinpah, whose murder
mysteries he enjoys. He’s
also a fan of classic horror
movies.
Work, though, is of
paramount importance to
Carter.
With the exception of
the Horseshoe-area dorms,
whose residents mostly walk
the short distance to the
restaurant for food, Carter
said he delivers to each dorm
equally. USC students join
downtown hospital workers
as the most frequent delivery
patrons.
On a recent night, Carter
made eight “huge” deliveries
to Providence Hospital
within a half hour, he said.
Three to four drivers work
on any given night, but when
they don’t come in, Carter
buckles down and works
twice as hard. He also does
dishes and takes out the trash
in the restaurant between
deliveries.
He’s memorized food
prices so that he can figure
out a tip in seconds. First
year students are the worst
tippers, Carter said, recalling
some who gave him five cents
and 19 cents.
“They learn,” he said.
And despite his fears that
students wouldn’t remember
him after he gave up the
moped and “Starburst-red”
hair, those first-year students
learn more than just how to
tip.
Former Maxcy resident
Diane Keller is a frequent
late-night customer at
Beezer’s. A second-year
history student, Keller saw
Carter for the first time when
he delivered her a sandwich,
but said she recognizes him
whenever she goes into the
store now.
“I think he’s really
awesome for delivering
people sandwiches,” Keller
said. Asked to describe him,
Keller said, “He’s ‘Beezer’s
Guy,’ everybody knows
him.”
That recognition means a
lot to Carter.
“I like to know that I’ve
becomesomebody, somebody
that shines. I thought when I
came off the moped people
would forget about me,” he
said, his words tinged with
sadness.
He paused, then spoke
again, with the sound of
hope in his voice.
“I guess they didn’t.”
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SCORE • conunuED FROIRI
his speech at the opening
ceremony Friday night.
And in Saturday’s
seminars, students tried to
do just that. A community
service seminar taught by
second-year psychology
student Alicia Lendon
highlighted USC’s “Hands
for Hunger” poker
tournament as an example
of doing community service
and having fun at the same
time. Her program was
named one of the top three
at the conference.
Stephen Byrd, a fourth
year political science and
anthropology student,
taught the “Sexual
Jeopardy” seminar. Byrd
got involved in sexual
education through his work
with SHARE peers and
started doing presentations
two years ago.
In game-show format,
Byrd showed the delegates
they didn’t know as
much about STDs and
contraceptives as they
thought. He also gave them
ideas of how best to bring
that information to their
residents.
“Keep it fun,” he said.
Byrd tailored his
presentation for the SCORE
students, but gives similar
talks to many groups. Asked
if he was embarrassed at all
during the talk, Byrd said
he wasn’t.
“Once you hold (condom
demonstration unit)
‘Woody’ for one time, you
get over that.”
At a closing ceremony
Saturday afternoon, second
year biology student Cale
Bonner received the first
year experience award,
recognizing his work as
the 2006 conference chair
for SCORE. Another
USC student, Emanuel
Thomason, won the
four-year award for
his involvement in the
organization over the past
four years.
USC-Aiken was named
the school of the year.
Next year’s conference
is tentatively scheduled to
be held at the College of
Charleston.
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DEflfl • COflTIflUED FROfTl I
Shipley also mentioned
that the USC Law School is
not getting the recognition
they deserve.
. “How do we alter
perceptions outside so
that the quality of the
University of South
Carolina is recognized
by judges and lawyers
around the nation and by
legal educators around the
nation?” Shipley said. “I’ve
been at three law schools
ranked above this one and
the differences aren’t as
great as what shows up in
the rankings.”
Shipley said that the issue
of scholarship money was
tied into raising student
credentials. He plans on
raising the scholarship
amounts by getting
commitments from alumni |
and other donors.
Shipley is also excited
about biring new law
professors. There are
several faculty members he
believes will retire soon,
leaving vacancies he is
confident he will be able to
fill.
“It is a buyer’s market for
law professors,” he said.
Finances are also of
concern to Shipley. He said
a huge part of tbe job of
the new dean will be spent
visiting with alumni and
asking for investments and I
donations.
“That’s what a dean’s
going to face anywhere,”
Shipley said. “That’s not
unique to USC.”
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plaza • conunucD PRom i
the rest of our offices were
going to be located. Now
the plan is that we will have
another building in the
back,” Hollingsworth said.
“Now there is no plan for
the Plaza. It will be green
space and possibly some
additional parking.”
Materials left from the
demolition will be used
in the construction of the
new facility, rather than
purchase and transport
quality landfill to the site.
The school is operating in
12 buildings and also rents
off-campus space.
Hollingsworth said she
hopes the new building
will consolidate the school.
“Hopefully the new
building will alleviate some ^
of the crampage (sic),”
Hollingsworth said.
The facility, like West
Quad, also plans to be
green-friendly by becoming
LEED (Leadership in
Energy and Environmental
Design) certified.
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