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IN OUR OPINION
Bush taking
right steps
With a list of grievnces 10 years long, President
Bush went before the United Nations yesterday to
unveil to the world’s leaders his agenda regarding
Iraqi president Saddam Hussein’s totalitarian
regime. The speech wasted no time getting to the
point, and only danced around solemn references to
the Sept. 11 observances only one day old and the
United States’ announcement it will rejoin the
United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural
Organization.
Soon after, Bush launched
into a long list of Iraq’s broken
promises, from 1991 when Iraq
failed to return all prisioners
from Kuwait to as recently as
Hussein’s 1999 disregard of the
U.N.’s demand for weapons
inspectors. Bush threw the
book at Hussein, accusing him
of such things as running up
oil pripes ana genociae, ana aeciarea nis intentions
to use military force to end Hussein’s regime with or
without U.N. support.
While Bush’s aggressive stance might seem harsh,
sometimes it is the only voice that can be heard. War
is not an ideal objective — especially for a nation still
reeling from such a devastating attack — but when a
nation that openly harbors terrorists secretly
stockpiles nuclear and chemical weapons with no
accountablity and a history of lies, action must be
taken.
We applaud Bush for taking his case to the
governing body that Iraq has wronged and for
seeking support before seeking destruction. By
taking his case to the world and not abandoning his
principles, Bush has set the stage for change.
By taking his
case to the
United Nations,
President Bush is
allowing the
proper
procedures to
rally global
support, an
action not
frequently taken.
Gamecock Quotables
“The ball was on the ground
more than it is in Coach
Berson's soccer match.”
LOU HOLTZ
USC'S HEAD FOOTBALL COACH ON LAST
WEEK'S LOSS TO VIRGINIA
"If you have an extra $2,000,
don’t run for Student
Government. Go feed the
homeless or work on the adopt
a-puppy program. ”
J.D. SHIPMAN
STUDENT SENATOR ON CAMPAIGN FINANCE
REFORM
“I wish they had thought
more about enrolling 3,000
additional freshmen this year
while cutting parking.”
BRYAN COX
THIRD YEAR BROADCAST JOURNALISM
STUDENT ON PARKING SHORTAGE
“It's silly, it’s unnecessary,
and I don’t think we have
sufficient reason to invade
Iraq.”
KATHRYN GRAHAM
THIRD-YEAR HISTORY STUDENT ON BUSH'S
PROPOSED WAR WITH IRAQ
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New experiences, oldfriends
STEPHANIE THREET
GAMECOCKVIEWPOINTS@HOTMAIL.COM
Even in college, you can
keep lifelong friends.
You can tell a lot about a per
son when you look at their
friends. For 19 years, my goal in
life has stayed the same: make as
many friends as I can; make as
many memories as humanly pos
sible.
Over these long years, a hand
ful of those special ones have
stuck with me through it all. And
now that I’ve moved away and
am in college, the definition of a
friend has changed. But some
how, the best friends that have
always been there for me have
adjusted to the new standards.
I’ve been blessed with close
family and friends. Mom, Dad
and my brother, Trevor, have al
ways been there to talk to and
lean on. Leaving them for near
ly a month now has been really
tough, but the friends I’m mak
ing here and the experiences I’ve
had come close to making up for
it. And the fact that my best
friend of 19 years is my room
mate now doesn’t hurt either.
Jennifer Frommer is my sec
ond cousin and since we’re a
close family, well, we were raised
together.
As we grew, I realized I could
look up to her because she was
older and she could look up to me
because, frankly, I’m cooler. Not
really, but she loves me for my
funnies.
Young children want someone
to play Barbie with; Jennifer and
I cried until our parents bought
us the newest Barbie. At about 8
years old, girls look for friends
who have brothers just like them,
so they can both pester them.
After trying it for years, Trevor
and Jennifer’s brother Jason de
cided we were cool enough to
hang out with them and play
Sonya and Kitana on Mortal
Kombat.
Other than playing video
games, the four of us would
watch MTV and swim; we could
spend an entire summer day do
ing absolutely nothing. It was
fabulous.
When we got into high
school, things changed a little
and we didn’t have much time
for each other, but when we did,
nothing but laughs and memo
ries spewed out.
In Jennifer’s first two years of
college, we were separated, and
our friendship was tested. But I
came to my senses and realized
it was time to get up there with
her; she’d gone on long enough
with me here to take care of her.
Turns out, I need her just as
much as she needs me.
On my first hot date here in
Columbia, Jennifer was there
putting my hair in hot rollers
and picking out a cute black peas
ant top with the corduroy skirt.
She actually took pictures after
to see how good we looked to
gether.
All of our lives we’ve dreamed
of being roommates and now it’s
finally happening. We’re finally
sleeping one room away from
each other and sharing a bath
room.
Jennifer has always been, and
will always be, my best friend. In
a couple of years (well, many
years...) she will be wearing the
Gucci bridesmaid dress in my
wedding. Of course, the new rule
is that from now on, she has to
approve of the men I date. But
isn’t that what best friends are
for?
Threet is a second-year public
relations student.
IN YOUR OPINION
Relationship advice
for college students
As if adjusting to college
weren't hard enough, on top of
classes and jobs and financial
troubles, we, as freshmen, fre
quently become the victims of
unpleasant relationship
changes.
Guys and girls are equally
prone to the new feelings of jeal
ousy, uncertainty and the
dreaded attitude that the grass
looks greener on someone else
that inevitably occurs at the be
ginning of a college career. This
is assuming a relationship has
n't already fallen victim to long
distance or new-experience ex
cuses during the summer.
I want to offer some advice
to all those guys and girls go
ing through such a difficult
time. Unfortunately, I know
first hand how a relationship
— mine being long-term thus
far — could be tested in these
first few weeks of college.
My advice? Run or fight!
Although you might want
to save the relationship, it can
not be saved if the other per
son is no longer interested in a
relationship. In this case, run
for your dignity, for your
pride, for your sanity. It'll take
a long time to get over the
hurt, but, honey, it's college!
Another possibility is that
the other person isn't sure
what he or she wants right
now. In this case, my best
advice is to fight as hard as
you can. If you love this per
son, then you should be
fighting until you have no
fight left, then fighting even
harder.
It's better to regret fighting
as hard as you could and fail
ing than to regret never fight
ing and always wonder what
could have been.
I fought harder than I have
ever fought in my life because I
loved my boyfriend and wasn't
about to let some stupid girl get
between us.
And I’m happy to say that it
worked. We're still together, and
we're getting better every day.
So, the changes are in
evitable, but don't play dead;
fight for what you know is
meant to be, or move on to find
something better.
Good luck to y'all out there
trying to make it through. I
wish you all luck.
And Sean, I love you.
TIFFANY SLATTERY
FIRST-YEAR history student
Spending cap not
necessary for SG
Is it just me, or has Student
Government become slightly
delusional lately? I’m sick and
tired of SG members always
bitching about how they want
their organization to be a model
of real government, then debat
ing issues that defeat that pur
pose.
If SG members expect to
find a spending cap for polit
ical races in the real world
once they graduate, they will
be greatly disappointed.
In reality, instead of whin
ing about how expensive a race
is, candidates are forced to
raise money and support. No
one is twisting these candidates'
arms to run.
It seems to me that if you can't
raise enough support, both mon
etarily and in votes, you don't
need to be running in the first
place.
EMILY O'KEEFE
SECOND-YEAR SOCIOLOGY STUDENT
Keep it in your pants,
and go with celibacy
Congratulations, Shanna
Reed! In your column ("Who
needs the dating game?") in
Monday's Gamecock, you had the
courage to say what must be said.
Celibacy is not a crime that
must be dealt with. I am an 18
year-old virgin, and I am proud
of it. No one is going to tell me
that I have to get a girlfriend and
get naked right now to prove my
manhood.
It takes a bigger man to keep
it in his pants. And, moreover,
the risks of that kind of lifestyle
are often more than they are
worth in physical pleasure.
How many lives have been ru
ined by an unplanned pregnan
cy? I have seen what premarital
sex can do to some people, and I
say: "I've got better things to do."
DANIEL LEE
FIRST-YEAR COMPUTER SCIENCE
STUDENT
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Tangled
in the
Web we
weave
BROOK BRISTOW
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Going to date online?
Meet my friend Lenny.
Maybe it’s just me, but the time
it takes Computer Services to get
around to something is longer
than Derek Watson’s rap sheet. r ,
Time and again I called asking J
them to come fix my Internet, but I
got denied more often than Gary
Coleman playing in a Big and Tall
Men’s clothing store celebrity bas
ketball game.
So I kept calling. I pleaded. I
was polite. I was civil. It was as if I
was reciting all the codes of cour
tesy. Phrases like, “I’ll call you
next week,” “Yes, you look great
in those pants” and “I can’t wait
to meet your parents” come to
mind. But it wasn’t working. So I
made the call—I called Mom.
You all could learn a lot from
my mom. Being a Carolina grad
herself, Mom is well-versed in the
dealings of the USC bureaucracy,
which is about as useful as grades
and parking tickets. Her rule of
thumb: If you’re not being a bas- C '
tard, you don’t stand out. Polite
means pushover. Don’t think of it
as being bitchy, think of it as be
ing patience-impaired, she says.
So I followed Mom’s advice, and
sure enough, they fixed it faster
than ratings dropping from the
Anna Nicole show on E!.
During my time of not being
tangled in the World Wide Web, I
was amazed at how much I had de
pended on it.
From those great, insincere
conversations on Instant
Messenger, to those online chat
rooms where you talk to people
you wouldn’t be caught dead talk
ing to in person, and all the fun
that is Internet dating, the^l
Internet is a medium we rely on
more than Jessie Spano did on caf
feine pills when she was trying to
get into Stanford. Gosh, I miss that
I am amazed by how many peo
ple meet through the Internet.
Some even get married. Now,
while even I have been picked up
as a hitchhiker by a few people on
the information superhighway, it’s
fairly risky. True, it’s about as safe
as going to a bar and meeting some
one, but at least in the dark, smoky,
drunken stupor some of us enter at
the pub, at least you have a faint
idea of what you are getting into.
Some people go online looking
to “cyber.” Well, let’s make a crys
tal clear distinction — and when ( t
I say crystal clear, I mean more
transparent than one of the
Partridge kids. There is “cyber”
and there is “sybr.” “Sybr” is an
abbreviation for “someone you be
lieve is real.” I hate to break it to
you, Web surfer dude, but that bo
dacious blonde hottie you thought
you were talking to is actually
named Lenny. Lenny is a 57-year
old truck driver from Branson,
Mo. Lenny is a single white male
version of A1 Roker who boastfully
celebrates his inner mullet even
though he is bald.
But if you are destined to meet
someone online, here are two sim
ple rules to abide by:
1. If you can spend an hour chat
ting with them and they don’t
mention the words, “ex
boyfriend,” “duct tape,” “chair in
my basement,” “alien abduction”
or “Clemson,” then maybe it
would be all right to catch a flick
together.
2. If they send you a picture and
it’s a glamour shot, you need to hit
that block button and make your
self scarcer than a white T-shirt in
Ozzy Osbourne’s closet.
It’s a World Wide Web of
whackos out there. So be careful.
But be glad you have access to
them in the first place.
Bristow is a fifth-year advertising
student.