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First step: toughest, but rewarding
I came to col
lege having
never really
been away from
home on a long
term basis. Now
I’m not trying
to get too dra
matic. I know
we can’t really
call George
town an epic
journey from
Columbia.
Kevin Langston
is a senior in the
College of
Journalism and
Mass
Communications
lNevei me
less, the miles that would come to sep
arate me from the place I had lived for
18 years would force a series of adjust
ments on me. I would have to learn the
campus, prepare for college curriculum,
familiarize myself with the surrounding
. city and meet new people—all with
out the support of my family and friends.
I think it was too much thrown on
me at once, but I couldn’t just give up.
It was all supposed to be part of the “col
lege experience” USC had been selling
to me and my family for a year. This is
what I expected, but I still dreaded it.
For the first few days of the semes
ter, I would wake up and then meet up
with my friends from high school. I ba
sically slept in my room. That was it. I
didn’t talk to anyone, and I didn’t try to
meet anyone new. 1 felt 1 didn’t have
to branch out. I had all the friends I need
ed. There was no risk in hanging out widi
people you had known for over five years.
At least I wasn’t alone. After repeating
this routine for a couple of days, I learned
that things weregoing to be different be
tween me and my high school friends.
They would have to be. It made no sense
for us to dwell on the days of Geoige
town High. We were in college now. I
know we all had some initial difficulty
with learning the ropes of college, but a
point was reached where we knew we
all needed to give each other our own
space.
A true friend of mine once told me
that I was too dependent on people, that
I couldn’t exist by myself. Initially, these
words were tough for me to swallow,
and I couldn’t shake them from my head
once both my families had left me. I was
going to have to learn how to exist on
my own, or this was going to be a long
year.
What was tough for me to handle,
at first, was adjusting to a completely
new way of life. For 18 years, I had lived
in the same house, had the same
friends and shared the same memories
as several of my other friends. The ties
and bonds it had taken me 18 years to
form would have to be severed. I would
have to start all over again and reinvent
myself.
But rather than letting this over
whelming issue keep me down, 1 decid
ed to use it as my advantage. 1 could start
all over again with the knowledge it had
taken me a lifetime to acquire.
After a floor meeting, 1 elected to
walk in an open door and introduce my
self to a fellow floor mate. We began
talking and were joined by another floor
mate. There were eventually five of us
in the room, and we basically talked about
nothing, everything and anything for two
hours. 1 made my first friends in college
in that room.
Sure we had our differences as the
year went on. You can’t have 20 guys
living on the same floor for a year with
out there being some static. However,
we all walked away at the end of the year
with a strong bond. Some of us were clos
er than others, but we all shared an ex
perience that we will not soon forget.
Some of those days on that floor with
those guys are the best I’ve ever lived.
Did 1 completely forget about my
high school friends? Of course not. For
me, I have a good mix of friends I’ve
met while at USC and friends I brought
with me. I ant closer, now, with some of
the friends from high school than I ever
was. We just needed time to shed our
high school skin.
I can’t really tell a person how to
adjust to the first few days of college.
We all come from different places, and
we all have different stories and situa
tions we must deal with. I just hope every
one knows that it can only be as good as
you want it to be.
At first, my family could have called
and easily caught me in my room. Now,
they’re lucky to ever reach me.
Clemson fan swallows pride at USC
Dentographically, I'm not
tlie average graduate stu
dent.
Average graduate students
are thought to be in their mid
20s, and many worked some in
their respective fields before
deciding they either needed a
more advanced degree, or the
field they were in was not what
they had expected.
1 possess none of these char
acteristics, yet I am still a grad
uate student.
One characteristic I do have
in common with every other
Jonathan
Dunagin
is a graduate
student in the
College of
Journalism and
Mass
Communications
student who decides to pursue an advanced degree is
that I was at a point in my life where the decision
was right for me.
I'm only 22, and I came straight from pursuing my
undergraduate degree to pursuing my graduate degree,
but I am not alone. There are many other graduate stu
dents at this university who made the same decision I
did, and we are now receiving a first-rate education
from the University of South Carolina.
But this decision wasn't easy. Many people claim
that the hardest decision of your life is choosing which
college to attend after graduating from high school.
However, for me the hardest decision occurred after
I graduated from college and decided I wanted to con
tinue my education.
Choosing the right undergraduate college for me
was easy. Because 1 couldn't afford out-of-state tuition
there were only two alternatives in my mind, the Uni
versity of South Carolina and Clemson University.
Because my parents and some family members had
attended it, and because 1 had been a fan of the uni
versity my entire life, the only choice that made sense
for me was Clemson University. After all, USC was
home to Clemson's archenemy, the fighting gamecock,
so the decision was easy to make.
However, Clemson didn't have a College of Jour
nalism and Mass Communications so it also didn’t
offer my original choice of journalism as a major. Nev
ertheless, I still decided that Clemson made sense to
me so I changed my major and attended the universi
ty. But after four years of college, 1 still didn’t know
what I wanted to do with my life.
I enjoyed college, but I knew in the back of my
mind that by making the decision to attend Clemson
I had sacrificed my first choice for a major. And over
the years, 1 had become disenchanted with majoring
in secondary education English, and I knew that
there was something else out there that I’d enjoy more.
So even before I had received my degree, I knew
the profession wasn't right for me and I started ex
ploring other options. I needed something more to
stimulate my interests, and all of my searches point
ed to only one alternative: The University of South
Carolina.
even uiuugn i nave eveiy leoMjn in me wunu iu
despise the gamecocks, 1 can honestly say choosing to
come here was probably one of the best decisions in
my life. These are big words coming from my mouth.
1 couldn't imagine a school where the teachers are
more eager to assist their students and where the learn
ing takes place at such a exceptional level. As is the
case in most graduate programs, there is a lot of one
on-one interaction with the professors and students.
These teachers constantly impress me with their will
ingness to assist us.
Furthermore, USC offers graduate students a wide
spectrum of classes to enroll in and programs to study,
with countless majors to choose from. This includes
my program, which is one of the nation's only accredited
integrated communications programs. In fact, I take
niiiny classes that aren't even required just So I can take
advantage of the numerous learning opportunities pre
sented by USC.
In addition, USC offers graduate students plenty
of opportunities for employment by means of assist
antships that help reduce the cost of attending the uni
versity. In fact, so much is covered that the education
practically pays for itself.
combine all ol this with a university surrounded
by dozens of entertainment means (including music
halls, parks and fine restaurants) set in it the middle of
South Carolina's capital, mid you have the University
of South Carolina. But moreover, you have a univer
sity that you should be proud to attend.
Now, I may never be able to support USC's ath
letics because of my strong ties with the tigers, but I
am definitely confident in my decision to further my
education here.
Adjustment
to USC easy
for student
Coming to
the Uni
versity of
South Girolina as
a transfer student
can be a little
scary.
Phil Watson
is a sophomore
in the College of
Journalism and
Mass
Communications
You might worry about fitting in, ad
justing to the campus and succeeding ii
your classes. I did wlien 1 transferred liere
Transfer students are different Iron
freshmen in several ways.
If you’re transferring, you’re alread;
adjusted to college-level classes. You knov
the ropes of college life. Many tnuisfer
have moved away from home already
Unlike freshmen, who have to dea
with all these changes at once, tnuisfer
only have to get used to the specifics o
USC, and learning the ropes at USC is
n’t too hard.
Transfers often experience complica
tions with credit for classes they took a
their previous colleges.
There’s really no way of avoiding lliesi
hassles when transferring course credit
Just try to remember that you’ll onlygi
through it once, and after your first se
mester here, you’ll never have to deal witl
it again. Once all the inevitable hassles ar;
over, you’ll be able to look forward ti
your academic career at Carolina.
Many tnuisfer students have a hard
er time adjusting to life at Carolina thru
freshmen.
When ireshmen come here, they re
all new and don’t know anyone, and the)
tend to live in freshman dorms where die)
are surrounded by people in the same sit
uation. This makes it easier for them tc
meet people.
Transfer students often live in upper
classman dorms when tliey come to USC
and they might have a harder time meet
ing people for that reason.
USC tries to make the transition eas
ier and more enjoyable by offering tnuis
fer student floors in selected residence
halls across campus.
This housing option gives transfers tlx
opportunity to live on a floor with othei
transfer students, which can make meet
ing people easier. These floors are i
great support line for transfer students a1
USC.
Once you are settled in here and be
come involved in the Carolina comrnu
nity, you’ll be glad you transferred. Al
■the hassles you will go through will be
well worth it. Transferring to Grrolina war
not the easiest thing for me, but I’m glar
I did it.