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be published Dec. 8.
By SUSAN GOODWIN
Staff Writer
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it is crucial. IfBVKVViai
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tinized carefully.
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slip of the ^
can have diseffects
on
not a parole
hearing,
although it may feel like one. It is
the first day on the job, and it is a
big one.
"The first impression is really
critical," Cooperative Education
and Student Employment Director
Tom Ward said. "There's a commercial
that says, 'You never get a
second chance to make a first
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sums it up."
Carol Lyles, assistant director of
placement, agrees with this Headand-Shoulders
philosophy.
"People you interact with will
be formulating opinions of what
they see and what they here,"
Lyles said. "Certainly, you need
to be dressed professionally and
very disciplined in your behavior."
For finance junior Nadya
Prashad, dressing for her job at
Christmas over
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By TONIA MALLETT
Staff Writer
USC ? During the week of Dec
1, many African Americans will be
in the celebration of Kwanzaa.
This is a tradition begun in 1966
Ron Karenga and is based on the tra
vest festivals practiced in Africa.
"Kwanzaa is not designed
Christmas," said Okosua Fay Major,
The Culture Village. "You can celel
you like. It's a time of celebration ai
of the seven principles."
Kwanzaa has its roots in the Afr
but is not African. There is also i
ception that this is a religion, but
day.
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mean dressing up.
"I can wear jeans as long as
look nice," Prashad said. '
main thing is to be groor
Everything should be neat."
While formal attire is not ah
required, Ward does not ret
mend taking any chances.
"You don't hurt dressing up
you can make a really bad im]
sion if the dress is formal and
wear jeans," Ward said. "The
eral rule is to do as the Romar
and use what you've leai
through the interview or at
work site."
Behavior on the job is am
factor that looms large on the
day.
"Look like you can do the
said Teri Colley, executive a
tant to the president of
Columbia Chamber of Comm
"Whether or not you feel you
do the job, be confident."
Prashad also suggests th
pleasant facade is helpful in
trenches of the job world.
"Keep a smile on your face
you're happy to be there e
when you're not," Prashad said
Computer engineering soj
more Robert Porter, an A]
Macintosh sales representative
campus and Technology Centei
assistant, gives these "theories
qualification.
"Be confident with your pos
but never afraid to ask questic
Porter said. "They'll save you ;
of grief in the future."
Supervisors not onlv tole
questions, they expect th
according to Ward.
"The assumption is if you ha
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"If you think at
American celebrati
Major said. "The
26 to Jan. are all a part of th
: taking part tion."
The essence of
by Maulana and communities t<
ditional har- fruits of their laboi
uate achievements
to replace Plans and goals
manager of out. Its philosophi*
t>rate both if the seven principl<
id a renewal day of the week i
principle,
ican harvest The principles ai
the miscon- AGULA (self-dete
it is a holi- tive work and resp
erative economics)
erce. "The general rule is tc
can and use what youVe le
at a view or at the work site
the
like ^
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question, you'll ask it," Ward said.
}h?- ?<j0 assertive when asking ques3P^e
tions, but use good independent
; on judgment about what you ask."
r lab Another danger to guard against
one when pumping up confidence is
overinflation.
ltion "Don't go in there with a know>ns'
it-all attitude," Lyles said. "Show a
a lot willingness to learn and be a part
of the team."
rate Colley agrees with this warning.
em' "Don't be cocky about it, like
'Hey, give it to me,"' Colley said,
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week," Maj
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and contributions. Christmas,
for the next year are also laid "You giv
cal foundation is provided in painting or
is, or NGUZO SABA. Each see who ca
s represented by a particular the thought
of your love
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xecutive assistant to the president
Columbia Chamber of Commerce
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When walking the fine line
between confidence and arrogance,
Ward advises students to err on the
side of caution.
"Be a little more reserved than
you usually would be but not shy,"
Ward said.
In general, the first day at work
is a study in moderation.
"Be enthusiastic without being
sugary, outgoing but not too boisterous,"
Ward said. "And get used
to feeling stupid for a while."
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it year's end f
and IMANI (faith). fri
re not only special days during that
or said. "You can exhibit this spirit to
und. Just bring it together during str
'articipating in communal works and c?
are all a part of Kwanzaa. People '
ither for a common cause."
i is a seven day celebration that ^
nds and family. Gifts are given to Qfj
ibers each day, but they are not the str
il gifts that are often given at to
e a gift that you have made, like a he
a bracelet," Major said. "It is not to Th
n give the most elaborate gift. It is
that counts. You are giving a token inl
t and appreciation."
amotion are also given and received, ^0I
nowledge, wisdom and nurturing. ^
pfts may not be able to fit in a pack- ae,
said. 9 j
Children n
to destroy
Get out your sandwich board:
and start chanting, folks.
The end of the world is wel
on its way. Or so I have beei
told.
Apparently, you see, familie:
have deteriorated to near disin
tegration, video games art
destroying today's youth ant
television is the driving forct
behind one person committing
acts of psychotic violence upoi
another.
Thus, the younger generation
which, I believe, ceased tt
include me sometime last week
is the victim of such severt
mind rot that the world as w<
know it is doomed.
Pardon me if I do not lay
down and die just quite yet.
A J A
iu muse uiuei ami
wiser, the world has beer
"going downhill" almost since
The Big Bang. Each generation
is more depraved than the one
previous, and the future is
always bleak.
I constantly hear that children
today are obsessed with fantasized
violence and cannot wail
to recreate it. According to the
harbingers of doom, if television
does not destroy the last vestige
of humanity within each young
soul, four hours of "Supei
Duper Street Fighting Kombal
VI" should do the trick.
Now, as I hear this, I am lefi
wondering: What happened to
me?
I remember when I was 10.
Were things really any different?
Thp tplpvicinn T u/as rpnrpH
on was "The Dukes of
Hazzard," which had the mentally
debilitating theme of a
family of rednecks in a soupedup
car with, of all things, a
Confederate flag on the roof.
The only family values the
show preached were the apparently
incestuous relationship
with their overbuilt, underdressed
sister (that would be
Daisy) and a jobless, responsibility-free
life with weird Uncle
Jesse. And these guys were,
like, 30 years old.
My family and the families of
every person I know encouraged
me to watch this.
Today, people are upset
because two buffoonish cartoon
characters like to light matches.
Ooooh, violence indeed. I
watched "Kojak" when I was a
kid.
From the time I was 8 until
the time I was 15, I would
sneak to the television and
watch, two inches away from
the screen with the sound turned
down, "Sex and Graphic
Violence Theater" on cable
every night.
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an end, finals are upon us, and
ess levels are high. Why noi
me and blow off some steam al
e Semiannual USC Stress
owout?
The Office of Alcohol and Drug
Dgrams is in its third semester ol
Bering a fun activity to overcome
ess, and this semester promises
be better than ever.
"Late Night at the Blatt" will be
Id from 8 p.m. to midnight
ursday in the Blatt P.E. Center,
addition to free food and drawls
for door prizes, the Stress
owout will offer something fun
everyone.
The weight room will be open
>m 8 p.m. to midnight, and an
obics class will be offered from
p.m. to 10 p.m. with free water
ot going
civilization
During that time, I saw gun
movies, teen-age sex flicks and
any manner of grisly horror
show the cable companies saw
fit to send my way. Janet Reno
certainly did not care then.
My toys? To hell with
Barney; every toy I had either
brandished minutely detailed
weapons of mass destruction or
had the ability to transmogrify
from a robot into some weapons
toting vehicle intent on destroyj
ing all of humanity.
I should also add that I was a
1 latchkey kid who played many,
many hours of video games
5 every day. I was playing such
[ mindless bloodbaths as
: "Commando" and "Contra"
before "Mortal Kombat" was
J even an embryo in Mario's
3 womb.
My point with all this? I am
t ai/
in cuncgc, aiiu i cuu uumg wiv.
There are regulations now I
never dreamed of. Since I was a
I kid (not that long ago), two new
I movie ratings, NC-17 and PG13,
have been created; video
r games, television shows and
music now carry warning labels;
I and everyone is terrified that the
t youth of today are teetering on
the precipice of destruction.
, While things are not perfect,
today's kids will be OK. Your
; parents probably thought that
you would ruin the world, and
i their parents did, too. And their
. parents' parents,
t The world is not going anywhere.
Sure, there is too much
i violence in the world, and that
is a sad, sad fact. However, any
; parents who blame television
solely for their children's problems
are looking in the wrong
place. Children need parents to
! keep them level-headed, and if
1 the parents do not do it, they
may look elsewhere.
Any parents worth that title
who are worried about the
future being in the hands of
[ their children need to talk to
them: about drugs, sex, the
economy or just their day at
1 school. Children want to and
will succeed as soon as they are
1 given the chance. Some just
never are.
Today's child may need more
guidance but not condescension
or hypocritical "do as I say, not
as I do" morality.
The future is in their hands
and, thus, ours.
As for me, my years of playing
morally-depraved video
games and watching twisted,
gory movies has not hurt me
much. All that time spent with
my face pressed against the TV
is now just a fond memory.
Despite 90 viewings of
"Porky's" for each of us, my
generation will turn out OK.
As for me, the only scars I
bear from those times is bad
taste in movies and the glasses I
wear. They are right about one
thing, you see: You should not
sit too close to the TV.
Lee Clontz is Carolina! editor
of The Gamecock
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ers stress relief
bottles for the first 50 people and
; free fruit for all. Open volleyball
[ games offer another athletics activit
ty for those who want to get physit
cal.
i For those big basketball fans, the
Stress Blowout offers a three-on;
three basketball tournament. The
tournament is the only activity
requiring prior registration, and
; forms are available in the Office of
Alcohol and Drug Programs and
the Office of Campus Recreation in
the P.E. Center.
Participants can also watch
"Jaws 3" in 3-D at 9 p.m. while
floating in the pool. For everyi
one's musical enjoyment, Tootie
& The Jones will be performing at
8 p.m.
All of the night's activities are
free and open to all USC students
with a valid student ID.