The gamecock. (Columbia, S.C.) 1908-2006, February 15, 1980, Page Page 4, Image 4
Kopa\
By Kimberty Cihlar
Garrwcock Staff Writer
Sex should be a "casual thing,"
the first professional football
player to admit publicly his
homosexuality said Ttiesday night
at the Russell House.
Dave Kopay, an ex-Green Bay
Packer who shocked the sports
world when he revealed his
homosexuality in 1975, said personal
relationships are more
important than sex because they
involve touching, loving and
sharing,
IT ISN'T EASY being identified
as a "gay football player," Kopay
said, but he has never regretted
speaking out about his sex life. "I
had to do it. I felt I had everything
to gain."
i ne suoject oi homosexuality is
often f ictionalized, but it must be
dealt with, Kopay said. A
homosexual is a "real person"
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placed beside the couch. Blencowe
said he then left the lounge and
went home. !
RICHARD SINGLETON, also a^
Sigma Nu member, said he noticed
Ballou's breathing was irregular
at about 11:45 p.m. Singleton and
four or five other members
examined Ballou and saw his facewas
pale and his fingers and hands!
were a bluish color.
Singleton said they were worried'
about his condition and decided htshould
be taken to the Thomson:
Student Health Center. After
standing Ballou up, his colorreturned
so they decided he did not
need medical attention. They
returned Ballou to the couch and
placed a blanket over him.
At 7:15 a.m., Robert Parker, a
pledge who later joined the
fraternity, woke up and went to the
lounge where he noticed Ballou
was pale and had no pulse. After
summoniing some other fraternity
members, Ballou was laid on the
floor where coronary pulmonary
resuscitation was attempted
without success.
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twice because some senators left
the room.
Sen. Barbara Derrick said that
the second roll call vote should not
have been valid because it was
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passed 13 to 12.
Ward said the university should
work to uphold its academic integrity
by setting standards for
leadership. He said a 2.0 was not
difficult to maintain and only if
academic standards are maintained
can a degree from USC be
something to be proud of.
Campaiqn
for refugees
planned
A group of USC students has put
together a two-day campaign to
collect donations for Cambodian
refugees.
Graduate students in the
Department of Government and
International Studies are sponsoring
a campaign for Cambodian
relief. On Wednesday, Feb. 20,
they will present a special showing
of the Peter Sellers cold war
comedy, "The Mouse that
Roared." The film will be shown at
7:00 p.m. and 9:30 p.m. Minimum
donation is $1.00
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trying to make it through life like
everyone else.
Kopav said he is distrusted with
what he has seen in gay bars, such
as drugs like amyl nitrate. "Gays
have been so pushed down they're
going to try to overdo it," he said.
"It's ridiculous."
It is especially difficult for gays
to reveal their sexual preferences
to their families, he said. His
father is a Catholic and believes
homosexuality is a sin. Since
Kopay admitted his feelings, his
family has been drawn together
"and now we talk about more
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beings. "To me, love doesn't have
a gender. When I relate to people I
don't say 'Can I see your queer
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and human beings."
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but could not define the being.
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because there is bigotry when
religion is organized, he said.
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KOPAY SAID he was told a
number of USC gays had planned
to boycott his speech because thev
felt it exploited homosexuality. A
man in the audience said he knew
of no boycott and thought most of
the gay alliances had a
representative present and
welcomed Kopay to Columbia.
Kopay's speech was sponsored
by the Ideas and Issues Committee
of Russell House University Union.
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